Fantasy Feeder

So my gain weight has triggered a bad cholesterol

MottiF:
While my surgeon is worried, I in the other hand want to replace the bad fats with the good ones, so I hope someone here could help — what do I need to eat daily in order to maintain my gaining but also consume mostly the good fat, what do I need to eat? What is the recommended menu for the morning, afternoon and evening?

I might ask a dietitian but it may be a strange question…

Personally, I would take a break from gaining to fix the issue. Once the levels are in a good place, I'd go back to gaining, but this time with healthier foods. High-fat fish, nuts, things like that. It will be a bit slower, but it should help the problem.

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Trans gaining and breast growth?

Danerys:
im curious, going up cup sizes and what not, im at about 266lbs and a d cup currently. if i chose to start gaining, do the breasts balance out with body size?

Depends on the person. This goes for cis and trans people, but it depends on genetics.

I'd take a look at the women in your family. That should give you an idea of what to expect.

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Fattening boyfriend

Angy523:
I kinda need ideas to make him gain more. He doesn't have too much soda lately or so many snacks he used to 😒

Munchies:
Be patient. He hasn't been gaining long. He does need time to acclimate to his weight gain.

Also, does he still want to gain, or is he just content to exist?

Angy523:
Well, when we talked he told me that he's just to lazy to restrict himself from certain foods and he is aware this would make him gain. So basically, from this discussion I think he doesn't (and didn't) want to gain but at the same time he doesn't mind gaining.

On the other hand, whe he ckecked the scale and he saw the same weight he had last time, he went to eat. He has dessert cooked by his mom and he asked me to cook him another one. He is eating bigger portions or he has seconds. I'm sure he is aware that this behaviour will make him gain and I don't think this is just about "being too lazy". Idk, there are some mixed signals so I can't tell if he wants to gain or not

Like I said. Be patient. Did you forget that originally he didn't want to gain weight and mostly started because he knew you loved it? He's relaxed about his eating habits, but that doesn't mean he has fulled accepted the fat lifestyle.

And that's ok. Let him figure out what he wants and support/love him through it. Another user said to love him as he is. This is good advice. He is your boyfriend first and your feedee second. For now, don't worry too much about his weight.

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Need someone to write a story for me

Bellyempire:
I am guessing this person is not willing to pay

He says pretty explicitly that he isn't going to pay.

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My conclusion

ILuvChubbyChix:
If you're telling the truth, then I'm sorry to hear that because that's horrible. It was not my intent to belittle your situation, and I hope you can get out of somehow. You're absolutely right that I don't know your situation, or the circumstances that led to it. I was however, offering a perspective of what others may be thinking.

The broader point I was making is that trust is quite difficult to establish and it doesn't happen overnight, and I listed possible reasons why others may be slow to trust.

SeijiDarling:
I know it doesn't happen overnight but today I was having self ending thoughts so another comment saying I'm asking to much or that I'm not worth that much really doesn't help me.

So, speaking as a person who have been through some mess, this is not the way to get what you need. Best case senario, you get ignored. Worst case senario, you get into a situation that you don't need to be in.

Also, why was a 14 year old allowed to fly out to another country to meet her BF? Why didn't your parents stop you? Have you contacted the counsulate? Why were you, a minor, sent away from your native country?

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Ethics

Bellyempire:
This is a great conversation to have one that I have pondered on since I joined the feedersim community. Gaining and fat admiration for that matter no matter how we care to justify or frame it is a kink that has real health consequences.

Recently with this trend of weight loss surgery alot of former partners have had the surgery. While I will miss them having larger bodies I can`t discourage them because in my opinion it would be immoral. Even with the all that can go wrong with weight loss surgery and the side effects and the decreased life expectency the quality of life is better than that of an extremely obese person.

Overall if its between to consenting adults I have nothing to say about it. If they are into the kink and are willing to take that journey then more power to them.

I want to take the conversation further. I have noticed that many gainers or extremely obese people have experienced some sort of trauma. I have not done the research to support a claim that its more trauma than a skinnier person but i suspect there maybe a correlation. So I ask is it ethical to be an FA or a feeder if the person who is a larger or gaining weights weight gain is a result of trauma they have experienced?

It depends on the situation. If a person is using kink as an unhealthy coping mechanism, I would say that's unethical. Not because of the weight gain, but because of them not dealing with their issues in a productive way. It's like anything else, really.

Also, if a person gains weight, is unhappy that they gained weight, and is pushed to gain more? Well, I'd say that falls undercoersion.

But, if a person is dealing with their trauma in a healthy way, put on some pounds because of it, and decided that they want more? More power to them.

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Breeders and gainers, a mythical combo?

Mattcy23:
I would love to fatten someone up with pregnancy and then just keep making them fatter who’s interested?

Gotta remember there's a big difference between having a breeding kink and starting a family - especially a family. Having a baby takes a lot of time, money, and energy. It's at least an 18 year commitment. Plus if things don't work out with the parents, they will still be involved with each other because of the kid.

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Have anybody else noticed this?

The***teen:
Yes i already can't go standing up, it's too buried in my fupa, and yes very hard to reach aswell😅

That's a very good idea about using the handicap toilets when availabe 👌
Yes I have encountered some toilet set that was way to low, such a struggle 😅

My biggest fear is honestly when I get so big that I end up breaking a toilet😅

Beni:
I broke a toilet seat once and since then I am always terrified to sit down on any toilet seat. Also it feels so bad. you just sit down and then hear a loud crack while dropping a bit lower.

I suppose, at that moment, it's a very good thing you are on a toilet.

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Gaining pains

Bbwsrhot:
As im not a gainer, more a FA. Im curoius to know how you manage to eat past being full to gain more or increase the capacity you can eat? How do you get past the pain / discomfort?
Edit ive seen some eat until extreme pain or vomiting. Is this just by choice as they have a goal in sight or can there be a fine line between full and way too full resulting vomit or excessive pain?

My feedee is a masochist, and I am a sadist. So we both like it when he eats to the point of discomfort. I also keep him insanely horny during this time too. It helps that we don't go too far.

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Miachu's q&a

Bbwsrhot:
Sounds a good day, cant go wrong with a buffet unless you wear the wrong outfit

Miachu:
Now where's the fun in not wearing a lovely tight dress to5a buffet? haha

Bbwsrhot:
😍
Looks great but possibly restricts the number of plate fulls?

Ah, but consider ... powering through into the dress rips at the seams ~

Or one of those stretchy t-shirt dresses.

Also, sometimes you gotta be fat and fabulous. Treat yourself and make others look at you in awe.

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