I've seen this one. I feel like it gives and incomplete view, but the interviewers do a good job and are very respectful.
2 years
What a strange thing to ask.
2 years
BBWcreator82:
Also, sincerity? If you've even seen have the private messages I have, you'd quickly realize that women are not the problem.
The guys on this site are insane and only getting worse as the years go on.
Before you start calling people fake, try to put yourself in their shoes first. You've got no idea the ocean of complete insanity the average woman has to go through on a place like this every single day.
Are there scammers, yeah sure, there always will be.
There are lots of legit women on this site, too.
EIIe:
Thanks for bringing this perspective.
Fake people are very annoying to me too but these types of threads tend to expose just how toxic some male members attitudes about women can be.
(Like calling women females is dehumanizing and an instant red flag for a lot of women.)
I’ve experienced/witnessed so much misogyny on this site… some of y’all are here hoping to meet women but then the majority of your comments in forums and what not are just complaints/entitlement about women and those of us who are real see that shit and that’s why we have nothing to do with you.
And fake people bother me less than the very real people in my inbox that have zero concept of consent and send messages that clearly demonstrate they don’t see me as human but a thing to project their perverted fantasies onto... Some have been genuinely disturbing and extremely uncomfortable for even me and I’m kink af.
I have rarely seen women make a post complaining about what’s in their inbox even tho I bet 100% of us have had that issue… but it feels like every time I come to the forums to see what people are talking about there’s usually a thread of men complaining about the women here.
When you treat the women who are here authentically the way that y’all do it drives them away, you realize that yeah?
Do better. ✌🏼
Can confirm, I recieve some ... interesting messages.
Don't get me wrong. The scammers are a serious issue and need to be addressed accordingly. But based on my experiences as well as othera I've spoken to on here, there are some distrubingly toxic people on here.
Even my feedee, a straight, cisman with a beard has dealt with such people. As he puts it "these are men suffering from a temporary blood rush from the brain."
We can sit here and come up with every reason in the book as to why people are like this. But it all comes down to too many toxic people ruining this for everyone else.
2 years
I love it when feeder and feedee are isolated from all of society and devolve into rabid hedonism.
I also enjoy it when a person who has nothing to their name meets a person who has a lot of money and loves pampering them, which leads them to get nice and fat.
2 years
Honestly, being yourself is the best call. It's easier than putting om a facade, and you'll know any friends you make will like you for you.
2 years
HappyBigBelly:
I’m a writer by profession. So my texts tend to stick to proper grammar, with emojis mixed in to add emotion. My style on here, however, is a bit looser. I like using the smiley to keep everyone smiling and happy despite the ups and downs in life :-)
Munchies:
That's pretty cool you're a writer by profession. I'm a hobbyist myself, but I think I do a good job.
What genre do you write, if you don't mind my asking?
HappyBigBelly:
I’ve been in the MSM, albeit in a small town. Reporting is a bit different than what we read here, which is some good stuff. The fanfic gaining stories here can be awfully good.
You do well, from what I can see :-) Overall, I just enjoy passing along encouraging words to those who seem real here :-)
Thank you. I've spent years honing my craft, and I am glad it shows. Of course, I am always looking for ways to improve.
Hey, small town journalism is very important. I'd argue that without local news, small town or not, journalism would collapse.
2 years
HappyBigBelly:
I’m a writer by profession. So my texts tend to stick to proper grammar, with emojis mixed in to add emotion. My style on here, however, is a bit looser. I like using the smiley to keep everyone smiling and happy despite the ups and downs in life :-)
That's pretty cool you're a writer by profession. I'm a hobbyist myself, but I think I do a good job.
What genre do you write, if you don't mind my asking?
2 years
I text similar to how I talk. For example, I typically pause a lot when I talk for emphasis and dramatic affect. So I will break up my texts based on that.
I do write in paragraphs occasionally, but only when I feel it will improve readability. No one has complained thus far, but I also don't spam people either. I will only send one or two texts initially, then wait for a response to decide how chatty I should be.
2 years
Diabetic here. I've been type 2 diabetic all my life, so I know a thing or two about things. My diabetes is thankfully diet control.
First off, you have to get your sugars under control. You do not want a life of sticking your finger to check your sugar. My fingers are permanently marked from all these years of sticking myself.
It would be best to cut back on the simple and complex sugars. Simple sugars are sugars the body can break down quickly. So, things like cake, fruit, and candy. Complex sugars are sugars the body takes time to break down. Think bread, potatoes, and rice.
You can gain without spiking your blood sugar, but the rate you gain will take a hit. You'll need to switch to healthier foods. I recommend taking a look at this wikiHow:
www.wikihow.com/Gain-WeightYou can still eat the sugary, starchy stuff, but you must be very stringent. I recommend checking your sugars before and after to figure out your limit.
If I want to have cake and ice cream, I forgo sweets for the rest of the day and then have a small portion of each.
2 years
You are welcome.
Try standing in front of the mirror every morning and admire yourself. Pose, flex, whatever you like. Go out of your way to find something about yourself that you like. Your self-esteem will go through the roof.
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