Fantasy Feeder

On an unexpected gain

The cook thing about gaining weight on purpose is you can stop whenever you want. If you want to be soft and cuddly, you can. If you just want to be a little thicker, you can also do that.

And don't worry about what others think of you. Scrawny or fat, your body is your own business. Focus on what makes *you* happy because at the end of the day, you are the one who has to live in your body.

2 years

Munchies

Your perfect partner

Honestly, I prefer mine enthusiastically willing. Not necessarily because I'm a good person but because it strokes my ego. But I would like to parade my feedee around naked and leashed. Perhaps going to a buffet and eating until his clothes rip off his fat, bloated body.

And most certainly I would like to get handsy with him in public. Show the world all the hard work I put into making him like this. My spoiled pet, plaything, and living sculpture.

2 years

Munchies

Can’t bring myself to start gaining?

Munchies:
You mention you're extremely underweight. Why would your loved ones judge you for gaining when you are underweight? Not even to get fat, but just to have a normal bmi?

toxicrocs:
They likely wouldn’t judge me for it, however they’re very incessant on knowing how much I’ve gained and what my weight has been while I’ve been away at college. To add to this they are a bit on the more insensitive side so I’m more than certain that they’ll quickly notice I haven’t stopped gaining even though I hit a bmi considered overweight for my height, and will say something inconsiderate or insulting.

Plus I don’t really like to or want to think about their encouragement and the idea of using it to motivate me. Many people consider this either a fetish or a sexual orientation but either way I’m certain you could understand that picturing them in relation to this makes me feel uncomfortable. If anything it discourages me and makes me feel disgusted with myself if I have them in mind when I think about gaining.

I'm empathetic considering we used to be in the same boat. I was rather underweight for most of my life. I was 110 - 115 lbs at 5'7". My mom had it in here head this was the perfect weight for me even though I was rather underweight.

I wasn't a fan of my weight and tended to get sick a lot. For me, gaining weight was both for the kink and me just hating my size.

I put on 5 lbs and was happy about it. I was just on the edge of a normal range. My mom freaked out and fat shamed me even though I was far from it.

I craved in and lost the weight. I felt more miserable than ever. Eventually, I just decided that my mother was insane, and I do not need her opinion about this.

I decided to gain weight and ignore her. It was hard. She'd pick at me every moment she got. I had to stand my ground. Eventually, she got the message and hasn't talked about it since.

2 years

Munchies

Can’t bring myself to start gaining?

You mention you're extremely underweight. Why would your loved ones judge you for gaining when you are underweight? Not even to get fat, but just to have a normal bmi?

2 years

Munchies

Has anyone else here on this site had unpleasant experiences with toxic and harassing people?

Often. Not as much as some people as I tend to keep to myself. But when I venture out to the greater population on here? Oh yeah.

You did the right thing standing your ground and reporting that person. Not everyone on here is like this, but there are a handful of people who are.

2 years

Munchies

Do all feeders eventually give way?

Munchies:
No, and I'm proof of it. I started as a gainer but eventually lost interest in it. I also decided I didn't want to be fat as I enjoy being active too much (I do like food. That's never going away.)

I shifted to just being a fat admirer and eventually a feeder. I don't think I'm unique in that.

Admirer63:
What weight were you aiming for when you started gaining weight

I started out at 115, and wanted to be 200. I am now a muscular 168. And my weights been stable.

2 years

Munchies

Do all feeders eventually give way?

No, and I'm proof of it. I started as a gainer but eventually lost interest in it. I also decided I didn't want to be fat as I enjoy being active too much (I do like food. That's never going away.)

I shifted to just being a fat admirer and eventually a feeder. I don't think I'm unique in that.

2 years

Munchies

Memes

Pinterest and Tumblr

2 years

Munchies

Anyone here have a success story of finding a realtionship?

SweetCaringBBW51:
I was not yelling I typed in caps so it was plain to see

I see. Just so you know, on the internet, typing in all caps means yelling. If you want to use emphasis, you *use asteriks* or only CAPITALIZE the IMPORTANT words.

2 years

Munchies

Anyone here have a success story of finding a realtionship?

SweetCaringBBW51:
No!! this is just a fantasy world for the males on here

fatluvinguy:
In all fairness you only joined 2 weeks ago. That's a little soon to be so down on the site. Maybe give it a little more time. I'm pretty sure there's some decent males on here. My philosophy is be guardedly optimistic.

SweetCaringBBW51:
Excuse Me !! I have been on and off this site for 20 years it gets worse all the time

Bigwideland:
I think the reality of these sites is that they are full of people after something to view look at to fill a need to see what ever is their thing. I am okay with that. Leaving the scammers and people selling something aside, I think that most real people on here are already in relations, or out to get a bit on the side, or are just to afraid to overcome their own anxiety about being themselves with someone else. This is a fantasy site the name means what it is saying. You find real people in the real word. You need to go out and meet real people.

SweetCaringBBW51:
I have been out in the REAL WORLD ALL MY ADULT LIFE AND HAVE MET REAL MEN BUT THEY ARE NOT IN TO BIG WOMEN ..YOUR JUST A FANTASY MALE WHOSE ON HERE TO JUST SATISFY YOURSELF BY USING WOMEN'S PICTURE'S

Munchies:
Are you ok, hun? Do you need to talk?

SweetCaringBBW51:
NO I DON'T NEED TO TALK !! JUST WISHED THE GUYS ON THIS SITE WOULD BE HONEST! AND NOT USE MY PICTURES TO GET THEMSELVES OFF..I AM REMOVING ALL PICTURES OF ME FROM THIS WEB SITE CAUSE NONE OF THE GUYS I HAVE TALKED TO ON THIS SITE ARE NOT REAL MEN THEY ARE JUST LIVING IN A FANTASY WORLD WHERE THEY JERK OFF USING REAL WOMEN'S PICTURES THEN THEY NEVER TALK TO YOU AGAIN ! Their is only one woman who I trust to talk to on here as she is just a friend to me nothing more cause I am 100% Straight

Alright. That's fine. There's no need to yell.

Removing your pictures is probably the wisest option. Gives your more control over your body and your image. It's one of the many reasons my pictures aren't on this site either.

2 years

Munchies