Sleeping if more that 400 lbs

I sleep on my back I just find it to be the most comforable
1 year

Daily "i'm fat" reminders

I went to a little get together over the weekend and someone had a new like lawn chair swing thing, I was going to sit in it and eat my food and the person who owned it yelled out to me it has a 350 lbs weight limit, I looked down at my belly and just said yeah nah and laughed they then asked how much I did weigh and I said 480 last I checked there eyes just went big and they walked away like alright lol
1 year

How did you overcome societal pressures?

I just agree and amplify when people give me a hard time about my weight size etc like they gotta know that there’s nothing they can say that’ll hurt me, like “yes I am fat, and?” People want a reaction out of you, don’t give them the satisfaction

There’s some people where I’ve just set boundaries with whom I care about and for the most part they respect them.

And my agreeing and amplifing I think comes from a place of self acceptance like yeah I am fat yeah I do like to eat yeah I will end up bigger; but these aren’t moral failings
1 year

Feeling truly unfit

over the winter I gained like 60 pounds and I went to do what I normally do in the spring and I could barely walk up a slight incline without stopping and trying to catch my breath while whizzing, low key kinda scary so I started doing some walking around the block feeling a lot better now 3 months hills aren’t so bad now I even managed to walk an entire property without stopping!
1 year

Too big

I’ve broken 2 box springs mattresses, 3 toilet seats, a side step into a truck, and numerous plastic lawn chairs

But what’s amazing is I can’t fit on toilet seats in public, I can’t buckle a seatbelt, and chairs with armrests are a no go
1 year

My theory

Morbidly A Beast:
I think we as feedists tend to project our proclivities outward so some of us see feedism everywhere. When the reality it’s just a common expression of a gluttonous live style, how we handle loss, stress etc at worst and at best they are attempts at humor at the expense of fat people.

It’s kinda like how some people into bdsm project dom/sub dynamics into other aspects of life.

I think as fat people we spit in the face of these tropes, for the most part just as people spit in the face of dom/sub dynamics

Munchies:
When you are part of a niche group and spend a lot of time around others in the niche group, it's really easy to delude yourself into thinking you're just like everyone else.

Being in community with others that share common interests is good, but it's also good to touch grass from time to time lest you forget.


My thoughts exactly.
1 year

My theory

I think we as feedists tend to project our proclivities outward so some of us see feedism everywhere. When the reality it’s just a common expression of a gluttonous live style, how we handle loss, stress etc at worst and at best they are attempts at humor at the expense of fat people.

It’s kinda like how some people into bdsm project dom/sub dynamics into other aspects of life.

I think as fat people we spit in the face of these tropes, for the most part just as people spit in the face of dom/sub dynamics
1 year

Death by obesity

Reach heaven by Gluttony

The ending of the words is filaonldsing
1 year

About your profile ...

Morbidly A Beast:
I wish there were other options, like gainer feedee don’t really fit right at least not for me, I’d feel much better if there was a option for something like BHM or something along those lines

Fat Admirer might work but that seems to be more like active seeking of fat than just being okay with being fat.

I feel like the people who don’t have it right probably aren’t real accounts usually don’t have anything else and are probably picture ripped from other people online. I’ve seen a lot of models pictures on here from profiles that are clearly not that model

Letters And Numbers:
If you see accounts like that, please report them. It’s super helpful. There are very few people who actually report fake accounts (there are a couple people who are great about it) and it’s hands down the easiest way to identify them. I know I don’t have an encyclopedic knowledge of every web model out there, nobody does, but everyone working together can make a difference.


I do whenever I see it
1 year

About your profile ...

I wish there were other options, like gainer feedee don’t really fit right at least not for me, I’d feel much better if there was a option for something like BHM or something along those lines

Fat Admirer might work but that seems to be more like active seeking of fat than just being okay with being fat.

I feel like the people who don’t have it right probably aren’t real accounts usually don’t have anything else and are probably picture ripped from other people online. I’ve seen a lot of models pictures on here from profiles that are clearly not that model
1 year