Dolan:
So I’ve recently gotten back into this and I want to gain a lot of weight. The problem is that I want to be encouraged by a feeder girl but it seems like no one wants to help you when you’re first starting out. I love the fit to fat aspect of this but I feel like I’m going to have to prove myself alone and gain weight before anyone takes me seriously. Wish there were more feeders open to male feedees/gainers just starting out.
I'm not sure what your expectations are, but I would say that an awful lot of people struggle to find a kink partner that is compatible with them - male/female, straight/gay, fat or slimmer. Have you specifically been turned down by people looking for a partner who say you're too thin? You might just need to be more patient, or cast a wider net, or work on your game some. Just a thought.
Like, I think it's a huge hurdle to cross to put yourself out there like you have, and I'm sure it took a lot of thought and stress and all that, but just putting the bait on the hook doesn't mean you catch a fish right away.
1 year
Maybe it’s just my experience, but I feel like the female feeders and FFA’s have really come out of the woodwork in the past few years. They feel like a much more vocal and integrated part of sites like this. I remember years ago on FF, when you would go to pics, it would default to pics of women. Pics of men were there, but it took another click or two. Now it defaults to pics of people and you can click to search for men or women if you want. I don’t know when that change was made, but it’s nice, and I’m sure came about because of user feedback to make the site more inclusive. There are way more stories about men, by women authors. Or at least it feels that way. It’s definitely not perfect, like Munchies said, but I do feel the vibe of the community is more inclusive than it was, say, 10 years ago. At least here and on Dims. I can think of sites that aren’t that way.
1 year
SimonFl11:
No more no less. Im fat meat and i will become the fattest pig on earth and when at my biggest. I shall be eaten like the pig i am.
Munchies:
You are admitting to crimes.
Letters And Numbers:
I think you’re getting trolled a little bit, fyi
Munchies:
Doesn't matter. I've already reported them. The only reason why I am still responding is to preserve evidence.
Reported to who? Law enforcement?
1 year
SimonFl11:
No more no less. Im fat meat and i will become the fattest pig on earth and when at my biggest. I shall be eaten like the pig i am.
Munchies:
You are admitting to crimes.
I think you’re getting trolled a little bit, fyi
1 year
Letters And Numbers:
The silly part to me is being upset at a choice someone else makes with their body. I’m with you there. I think he’s right that it’s starting to become pretty easy for middle class folks to get Wegovy scripts approved through insurance. (i would say that having private health insurance is one of the signifiers of American middle class-hood, an otherwise difficult to pinpoint demo). BMI over 30, one other comorbidity like high blood pressure, a doctor that wants to play. You’re pretty much there.
Munchies:
You're right. I don't like the idea of preventing people from losing weight just because you have a fetish. It's dehumanizing. Even the way he described these people (deflated beach balls) is gross.
That said, a lot of jobs offer health insurance. And you can get inexpensive health insurance plans on the Market Place thanks to the Affordable Care Act. So that's not a good indicator of class.
Yup same vibe to me as guys who rant about girls with tattoos or pink hair or piercings. God forbid someone want to feel better about themselves, whether it’s thinner or heavier. Oh well, everyone’s a critic.
1 year
Fivepointno:
I’ve noticed a lot of girls looking like deflated beach balls lately. It all comes down to insurance, within 2 years there will be almost zero middle class obese girls.
Munchies:
Okay, now you are being very silly. And also very gross for saying that. It's super objectifying, and a handful of women (I hope you don't mean girls because that's pedophilia) does a trend not make.
Some points:
Not every middle class woman is trying to lose weight.
There is a sizable anti-modern medicine community of middle class women who will use natural medicine.
Ozempic and Wegovy can make people feel violent ill. And there's a growing voice warning people that some will face irreparable health issues.
Both medications are injections. People would rather take a pill than stab themselves.
While Ozempic and Wegovy (the most popular weight loss medications) can be covered under insurance, it's not always the case. For example, Medicare (it's possible to be on Medicare as a young person if you have certain disabilities) does not cover Wegovy at all. At it will not cover Ozempic for off-label use. Tricare can cover Wegovy, but you have to meet certain medical criteria.
Most middle class people get their coverage via their job. And not every plan will cover it. Those that do typically require you to have some obesity related health issue.
If you are fat but not sick, you'll have to pay out of pocket. Ozempic costs about $892 a month. Wegovy can cost about $1,349. There are coupons and manufacturer drug programs that can mitigate the costs. However, the coupons may not reduce the costs very much. As for the programs, not everyone will qualify, and the programs tend to be limited.
Some middle class households can eat these costs. Some can't. Some don't want to. It depends on a lot of things like cost of living and lifestyle.
So, you are being very, very silly.
The silly part to me is being upset at a choice someone else makes with their body. I’m with you there. I think he’s right that it’s starting to become pretty easy for middle class folks to get Wegovy scripts approved through insurance. (i would say that having private health insurance is one of the signifiers of American middle class-hood, an otherwise difficult to pinpoint demo). BMI over 30, one other comorbidity like high blood pressure, a doctor that wants to play. You’re pretty much there.
1 year
Bellyblubber:
For beer belly stories, I recommend “The Beer Wench and the Cowboy” by Bella Swells and “Lila’s Beer Belly” by D99. They’re both super hot. As far as seduction using weight gain goes, the only one I can think of is “Seduced by Her Belly,” also by D99. “The Fat Girlfriend Trap” by PolarisDreamer has some of that in it in the later parts as well. For real life but accidental at first, I’d suggest “Hannah going chubby to fat: true story” by HeavyHannah and “True Story: My Girlfriend Got Fat on Vacation” by ILB345. Also I have a story that’s just journal entries I pieced together from my time gaining so far that you might find interesting.
I really enjoy your story! I think it’s hard to make a journal-entry style story flow well, but yours has a real sense of drama and it’s well written. I like it!
1 year
Zbellies:
I like stuffing, realistic weight gain, and pretty much any scenario involving it. I just read “Beer Belly Girl” by PolarisDreamer so if there’s anything else like that I’m sure I’d love it. Also I have a thing for true stories about women stuffing themselves or gaining when they don’t know about feedism. Something from the POV of someone else watching them gain or get stuffed, like a friend or significant other. I also like the concept of seduction using weight gain. Anyone have any favorites?
Way down at the bottom in the Author’s section there is a monthly Story Club where we read a story together every month and sometimes even discuss it! There have been a couple realistic gain stories that you might like if you wanted to go through the previous months, and if you like it, feel free to participate. It’s more fun when more people are involved. You can make suggestions, as well.
1 year
Laser:
You don't "like your estimates" meaning you'll soon know, or still too far off to know? Or that if you find the cause of the depressive void, it won't help you to better deal with it/fight it?
Nyarlep:
Both? Like aaaaaa I really like the idea of being a girl on one hand but on the other that would immediately set my marriage/best freindship on fire and I’m also completely unsure of weather that is the source per say. I lack most of the telltale signs and don’t really seem to fit but on the other hand I don't really seem to lay claim to being very cis. So probably something else but I have no clue.
I don’t like the answer but it also fits like a square peg in a round hole.
Are you working with a therapist?
1 year
NoMoYoYo:
My wedding ring is very stuck right now. Its always been tight. But now its really tight. I can't get it off.
Does anybody have any suggestions on how to get it off? It needs a good wash and I should get it re-sized.
I've tried the string trick and greasing it up, but it isn't coming off.
I can still rotate it on my finger so it’s not completely stuck, but I can not get it over my knuckle.
Did you try first thing in the morning?
1 year
