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LoraDayton:
I've noticed this happen to me as well but it's often when I see people in the chat. If that's the case, that their profile has been removed, then how would they have access to chat? Or when I am browsing profiles and can see them populate based on my search criteria?


I'm stabbing in the dark here, but I think they may have their profiles set to private.
2 years

Annoyed when people who aren't a romantic interest mention my weight.

BlackjackandBerries:
Such a complex topic for me and I am aware everyone feels different.

I feel aggravated, turned off, and annoyed when co workers, counselors, strangers, etc. Bring up my size or egg me on about me being fat. If I'm treating myself to second helpings and people comment on it, I am immediatley turned off.

Someone (kinda recently) pointed out the size of my belly asking if i was pregnant, and I was appalled and ashamed. I would think that is a normal thing to feel.

If a love interest or woman my age did or said these things to me though, I'd be red in the face, turned on, and trying to contain myself. Thats also normal I'm assuming.

I've gotten noticably chubby after previously being known by everyone as the "thin athletic muscley woman." But I am still under 200 lbs and considered tiny in the world of fat fetishism.

I'm still very active. But chubby. The scale says it. My clothes show it. People notice it. People comment on it. It's a fact now.

I wish that people would mind their own business and not comment on my body, nor perceive me, and just ignore me altogether and let me be fat in peace. But I really really want the exception of that to be cute women being the only ones to point out my body. Idk. I know I can't pick and choose and that it's unrealistic.

What I meant to ask in this post was, how do you cope with the frustration of strangers egging you on or intentionally being weird by commenting on your weight?

Or how do you "deal with it"? I've tried owning it, but then they just awkwardly keep going and it makes me uncomfortable because being fat in itself feels like an act of fetishism that I don't want strangers or co workers to participate in.

And this might sound weird but it's almost like they're invading my "personal fetish space"... even though it's just normal for society to just point a finger and go "FAT!".

Maybe I'm just making it weird. Idk.


I think it comes down to intent. Being fat is stigmatized. So, unless it was coming from someone who you knew found you attractive, you will assume negative connotations.

Super normal and natural.
2 years

Who are the doms and who are the subs?

CookNFeedin:
Every relationship I've ever had wanted me to be a dom, so that's what I've had to be, but if I'm being honest, I'd really just rather sub. Something about just being told what to do to pleasure the other person seems relaxing and I get a bit turned on with humiliation.


If you want that, you should talk to your partner about your needs. Take turns being the sub.
2 years

First stuffing

HeadMaster:
Captainbexx, tell us, how much you ate for Thanksgiving.


Sir ... OP is Australian.
2 years

Skin feels super soft and warm

Friendly Admirer:
I’ve been binging the last few days on heavy cream, canola oil, and ice cream. I noticed I finally grew my first fat roll on my tummy. It feels super soft and really warm. Is this a normal feeling to get when gaining? I love the smoothness of the skin


Super common. High fat diets do lead to excess seabum production as the body struggles to do something with all of the fat you'v3 consumed. And, expessially if your skin care game is weak, this will lead to softer skin. Be careful, though. If you do it for too long, you may get acne breakouts.

As for the warmth, it's a two fold thing. Fat is insulating, so any warmth you have will stay in you longer. The other reason is your body is working extremely hard to process all that fat you've been consuming.

It also seems like you are gaining subcutaneous fat (fat under the skin). As your body creates new fat cells, it also creates new capularies for the blood to reach it. That blood makes everything warm.
2 years

Feeder turned on by his own weight gain

Ohbig:
My husband and I have been enjoying my weight gain ever since we got married, but I believe he may be starting to enjoy getting fattened up as well.

After his second helping of Thanksgiving dinner, he was very full and went to lay down. I laid down next to him and started rubbing his belly, and he instantly got hard. This has become a common occurrence, and I’m wondering if my feeder hubby is starting to enjoy his own weight gain as well.


The feeder to feedee pipeline is *strong*. Talk to him about it. There may be mutual gaining in your future.
2 years

First stuffing

Captainbexx:
I have been looking in to stuffing for years but never actually ever tried it, worried in a way if I try it I won't go back but I want to try it so bad.

Munchies:
I'm very curious as to what you mean by that. Do you think that once you start stuffing, you'll never stop stuffing? Or that you'll love it so much that you'll get fat?

Captainbexx:
That I will want to keep stuffing for every meal & I will get so fat so quickly.


The first one is not happening. You'll either run out of money or get sick if you stuff yourself every meal - especially in the begining.

As for getting fatter, exercise exists - assuming that your wallet doesn't stop you first.
2 years

First stuffing

Captainbexx:
I have been looking in to stuffing for years but never actually ever tried it, worried in a way if I try it I won't go back but I want to try it so bad.


I'm very curious as to what you mean by that. Do you think that once you start stuffing, you'll never stop stuffing? Or that you'll love it so much that you'll get fat?

Unless you can afford it, your wallet will stop you from constantly piggy out. Plus, you'll naturally want to give your internals some rest after packing your belly to the brim.

And unless your bio is wrong, you are already quite fat for your size. Are you worried about getting fatter?
2 years

Belly warmness?

PleaseTeaseMe:
My belly feels very warm, to touch. Is it a sign or symptom of something? Anyone who knows? Thankful for response. (I have been stuffing, also some heavy cream)

Blimp Bizkit:
I have a confident guess that you get warmer by your body digesting and working through a stuffing or a big meal

Practically everytime I went to bed after a day of eating, I would just be like a walking furnace and could not sleep well. I was practically heating up the room by myself at that point 😅

Best way to keep warm during winters if anything 😊👍


You don't have to guess. It's true. It takes energy to digest - even more if you've been pigging out and/or consumed something that's difficult to process. Heavy cream is one such thing.

Heavy cream is high in fat, and lactose. If you consume a lot of it (as most people on this site do) your body will have to work hard to process it. That makes you even warmer than normal.
2 years

Belly warmness?

PleaseTeaseMe:
My belly feels very warm, to touch. Is it a sign or symptom of something? Anyone who knows? Thankful for response. (I have been stuffing, also some heavy cream)


People tend to be warmest at their core. It's closest to the heart, and there isn't much room to lose the heat. You get even warmer if you are fat or digesting. The fat is insulating, and when you digest (especially after a big meal), your blood redirects to handling the digestive process.

Your belly being warm is only an issue if there's localized warmth and maybe some pain or swelling.
2 years