YAYBANANA01:
Currently at 79kg, which for my height is bordering on the overweight/healthy weight bmi. Right now I'm still visibly skinny unless I purposefully stick my gut out, but I was wondering at what bmi/ body fat percentage would I need to be so that it's basically impossible for me to hide the fact that I'm fat? Can anyone speak from experience, for how heavy they got until they could no longer hide it in public?
It really depends on body comp. I'm technically overweight, but since I'm very muscular, I don't look it. Also, the taller you are, the harder it is for the pounds to show up.
So, the BMI you are looking for will be wildly different depending on the person. But most people look obviously fat once they reach clinical obesity.
2 years
Angy523:
A little update: my weight is now 184lbs. I can't even blame him this time, I ate too much when he wasn't home and skipped gym. But he buys me many sweets anyway...and he started to play with my belly. As far as I know he doesn't like fat girls so I don't understand why he always makes me eat more.
Idk his weight rn because we didn't see each other for some days, but I hope he also gained
You awakened a love of fat in him. He loves it when you feed him and play with his growing belly, so he wants you to enjoy it too. And clearly you love being fat and cuddly with him because you aren't doing anything about it.
You're an athlete right? You know how to get in shape. You haven't gained very much, so you could quickly slim back down. But you haven't. Why? Because you love stuffing your face and your boyfriend playing with your belly. Eating, fattening each other up, and playing with each other's bellies is a bonding experience for you guys now.
I hope you two have fun.
2 years
Karenjenk:
OR
keep it unsaid.
that sounds like it would be at least if not more exciting that putting it all out there
Munchies:
All secrets come out in the end. It is better to be upfront so you can resolve any complications or misunderstands than saying nothing only for it to swing in like a wrecking ball.
And besides, why would you want a relationship where no one can be honest and everyone keeps secrets? That's not healthy.
CuppaJoe:
/\ This is the best advice. Keeping a secret is exhausting, and eventually erodes trust.
Karenjenk:
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Ok so....
" i think she knows that i like her chubby body."
Sheesh. Just throwing it out there. Sometimes the mystic or edge of unknown can be fun.
kind of like the dance we do when we think/know that we like some one more than a friend.
That undercurrent of excitement of whats to come... or whats suspected to come.
I'm not saying never tell and to ruin her...
just play it a little
Yeah, but to what end? They are already at that stage. A little bit of mystery and intrigue can be fun. But that's only at the beginning. After a while, it gets toxic.
Besides, telling her about this is only the start of things to come. It's not an end to the excitement.
2 years
Well, I am not the best in this. I try to be nice, I try to ask about interests...
Gushloader:
The problem with me is that I cannot properly launch a convo. If I manage to do, then its fine. I feel something is wrong with me
Munchies:
Well, how do you interact with people?
Gushloader:
Well, why do you feel like there's something wrong with you? Feel free to PM me if you don't wanna get too public.
2 years
Gushloader:
The problem with me is that I cannot properly launch a convo. If I manage to do, then its fine. I feel something is wrong with me
Well, how do you interact with people?
2 years
PhoenixChimera:
Does anyone else just feel that they don’t belong here?
I’ve been here a long time, only really spoken to a handful of people in that time.
The last couple of years have seen a lot of health problems and in that time I needed friends, which I don’t have in the physical world, but have only found that I am nothing more than a belly to most.
It is a part of me, not the other way round.
I wonder what I’m doing wrong.
I haven't been here as long as you have. And I am a feeder/fa instead of a feedee. But, I do know a thing or two about being objectified.
I have to say that when it comes to friends, it's quality over quantity. Most people on FF are not here to make friends. They are here to get their rocks off. There are decent, selfless people on here. Unfortunately, a lot of them are driven off the site by toxic members.
Idk if you are doing this, but I also encourage you to seek friends not just on FF.
2 years
I suppose it depends on how they carry themselves. It's all about confidence, really.
I will say my feedee has gotten more confident since I started fattening him up - and he was already super confident when we met. In many ways, it feels like I tamed a bear that only submits to me.
2 years
Karenjenk:
OR
keep it unsaid.
that sounds like it would be at least if not more exciting that putting it all out there
All secrets come out in the end. It is better to be upfront so you can resolve any complications or misunderstands than saying nothing only for it to swing in like a wrecking ball.
And besides, why would you want a relationship where no one can be honest and everyone keeps secrets? That's not healthy.
2 years
ILuvChubbyChix:
Very interesting. This suggests one's ability to handle cream (or large quantities of dairy fat in general) might depend on the person, and maybe also depend on timing.
You know those quick-fix pasta packets? (e.g. Knorr brand) Despite the instructions calling for optional margarine, of course I use butter. The instructions also call for "low fat" milk. It seems if I use cream, the taste seems no different but without getting into way TMI, let's just say I have to run for the bathroom soon. Using half & half instead seems to prevent that.
It's a little frustrating and disappointing. Because man, if I could suck down a quart of cream every day consistently, I would. Maybe I jumped into it head first when I should have taken it slow first. I don't know.
Munchies:
A lot of people forget fat has a laxative effect. If you get a bottle of mineral oil, it even has instructions on how to use it as such.
Some people tolorate it better than others. Mixing the fat with carbs helps, but I always advocate going slow.
Someguy6299:
Personally, I don’t have to leave my house at all with the work I do, I essentially have the perfect lifestyle for a feedee. I remember one day I downed about nearly two quarts of ice cream…I did experience repercussions for said actions…if such repercussions do occur ( u know being stuck to the toilet) does that mean that your body was incapable of absorbing the fats u consumed they the ice cream?
It's not just the fat. Too much sugar and dairy can also send you to the toilet.
2 years
