Are you crowd sourcing your diet or are you looking for a feeder?
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MariaAlive:
You could also do both, make sure your weight is able to be carried. Looking buff and having a pooch is honestly the sexiest form of fat in my opinion.
It makes sure your health stays in check, that you could shed the weight if something happens but you still indulge in your fetish.
It's how I do it or my knees wouldn't be able to handle it for example.
This is what I did starting out. Put on I think ten pounds at first. Felt a little heavy (I was really underweight starting out) and put on some muscle to make it easier on me. In fact, anytime I started to feel heavy, I'd put on some muscle.
That being said, at some point, I decided I'd rather be muscular than fat. So now I'm 50 pounds heavier with abs. Of course, I wouldn't have the body I do now if I hadn't gained.
2 years
quiver:
Wow, that sounds like fun. How on earth did she gain over 100 pounds in two years?
Could be done even sooner. I've seen some feedees and gainers really pile it on. Mochii Babii comes to mind, actually. And she's on the site, so you can see how quickly she blew up.
2 years
I mean, there's always a way back. It's just the further you go, the harder it is to lose the weight. It's one of the reasons I said to go slow.
2 years
Fatroundbelly20:
i don't mind of you be my forever feeder if you don't mind kindly text me on ***-***-****
Bruh, don't give out your number like that. That's beyond dangerous.
2 years
Just say "Don't be mean to yourself. You look amazing. I won't let you say otherwise."
2 years
Imma tell you what I tell everyone. Go slow. Put on a few to see if you like it. Keep going until you don't. But above all go slow. Give your body a chance to adapt.
2 years
Girdles? What do you mean by that?
2 years
Bicepsual:
The enzyme aromatase is located in fat cells. Its converts testosterone to estrogen. The more fat you have, the more imbalanced your hormones are going to be due to this conversion.
Your estrogen levels are almost certainly out of control which also have serious health complications for men outside of your dick not working.
Why would you be against popping an anti-e pill if your future partner wants someone with a libido and sexually functional?
Have you had issues with gyno?
Bellywaves:
Wow. Thanks for contributing.. to answer your question, I’ve heard about some of the side effects from taking some of said pills. I feel like adding medication is potentially adding more unseen problems, I guess I try to resolve things naturally as best as I can. If there’s a way to resolve it naturally, that’s what I’m hoping for. Or finding a woman who is perfectly happy with my situation. I’m a good man who will treat her right.
Hey hun. You need to see a doctor about that. If you can't get it up, that's a sign of poor blood circulation. Which means there is probably an issue with your heart. And unless you are fine with a heart attack, that's a huge concern.
Sure, viagra might help you get it up, but that really just treats the symptoms. And even then, there is no shame in taking viagra. Some doctor's prescribe it for people with severe heart or circulation issues. It might even be covered by your insurance as well.
2 years
I'd get her comfortable with the idea that you find her fat sexy. Be chill about it. But also, be consistent. Do not give mixed signals.
If it were me, I'd wait until an intimate moment. Maybe while cuddling, making out, or during sex.
I'd say, "You are so sexy to me." Start off with what I like about her personality. Then move into more benign traits like her eyes, hair, and laugh. From there I'd wax poetic about her fatter parts - touching them as I talk about them.
After that, make it your mission to show her how much her fat drives you crazy. Don't make it the main focus. But make sure it's clear.
If you are wanting her to be fatter, maybe even stuff her, I'd wait a few more months at least. Changing your body to please your partner (especially if she isn't into it) is a very big deal.
That being said, if you do get to this point, be casual. Let her know you wouldn't mind if she puts on a few. That you'd still find her sexy. Let her do her own thing for a bit. See if she starts piling on the pounds and flaunting it for you.
Make food an intimate thing. If you cook, cook for her. No secret fattening. Nothing super unhealthy. Just her favorite dishes with generous portions.
If you do not know how to cook, learn how. Sign up for couples classes or learn alone. Have her be your taste tester. Then you can cook her favorite things.
Work up to hand feeding and belly rubs. At this point she should have figured out you're a feeder - even if she doesn't have the words for it. But she should be comfortable with it at this point.
Tell her everything, but make it clear she has the final say. Do not influence her decision or make her feel bad for whatever she chooses.
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