Napolex:
My wife gained slowly about 45 pounds over 10 years since we are a couple.
She knows that I like her beeing chubby btw.
Lately she began to like her curves more and gained about 10 pounds in the last 3 months. I enjoy her new chub so much. And she also likes driving me crazy with her growing body.
One thing I think about is now that she noticeably got bigger and may continue, how should I react if someone mentions her gain to her when I am with her or if someone "asks" me if my wife has gotten a bit rounder.
Second case even happened to me some time ago as a friend mentioned that my gf has gotten a bit chubbier over the time and I just said "yeah might be" or something as I didn't want to say "Yes, great right? It's because I bring her food to make her fatter"
I just felt a bit uncomfortable and asked myself what would be the best reaction of that bit bold comment.
Cause it's obviously not a positive reaction in most cases and my wife is just getting used to her new curves and could be a bit insecure about reactions of our family.
I just don't want to react weird or make it even worse for her.
Someone has any experiences?
The first big guy I dated was insecure about his size. His mom threw a party so both our families could meet.
He'd actually lost a good chunk of weight by then. (I didn't tell him about my kink, but he was just as sexy to me either way, so I didn't care.) My mom knew he was chubby, but I guess she thought that meant only slightly. But when they met, he was 5'7" and about 250.
She (thankfully) waited until he left to help his mom with something, turned to me, and said,"He's a fat one, isn't he?"
I scowled at her, hissed "He's sensitive about that," and left it at that. I guess that must have spooked or something because she hasn't said anything about my preferences since.
