Lovingyourgain:
So, for those of you who have sought therapy for feedist-related issues, were there any particular services or online platforms that worked better or worse for you?

Long story short (and I might write the long story here later), it's becoming clear that long-standing and deep-seated feedist urges and desires are taking over my life, impeding my love life, and likely compromising my wife's mental health. We both practiced a feedist lifestyle together for many years and she gained a lot, but she's now tired of it and wants to lose weight and I'm lost and overwhelmed trying to adjust in multiple ways.

I've had bad experiences with therapists either being out of their depth or straight up villainizing me and trying to guilt trip the feedist desires out of me. I'm becoming aware lately of my bad habits and how much I'm in over my head, but I don't want to spend an arm and a leg just to feel bad about myself *again.*

Any productive and preferably judgment-free suggestions or advice would be appreciated. Thanks everyone!

Morbidly A Beast:
I didn’t have the fetish growing up, I avoided a lot of the awkwardness in it as an adult coming to terms with my body… I am sorry y’all had to deal with ***s!

I’ll say as I got fat it didn’t feel like it was the end of the world like a lot of other people might think - I didn’t feel like I NEED TO LOSE THIS or ELSE more like, this feels right and this feeling just grew and developed more as I grew.

RobertsonMailer:
Whiskey, rum, cocktails, and beer. Taco Tuesdays, office birthday lunches, and pants become tights. I know I have a sweet tooth and am no stranger to basically drinking loaves of bread. What food has taken you by surprise?

Ateitall:
I often think about pre-mealing...and would like to do it more often.
This weekend I ate a peanut butter and banana sandwich about 30 minutes before eating dinner. Now I know why Elvis liked them!

Km3244:
When we first met she was maybe around 130, this was November. Now were closing in on end of feb and shes around her personal heaviest of 150. She said that was during corona, and I know alot of her clothes are getting snug presently, she likes to tease me and say im a feeder, or Im trying to intentionally fatten her up (no idea whereshe knows that term from), but tbh its been all just us enjoying going to dinner and getting to know one another..part of me thinks shes curious that if she got heavier would I still be just as interested, but another part thinks shes wants to label me as food obsessed 😆 what you think from a womans perspective hopefully about what is she truly deep down thinking here

Rachhole:
So since I can finally post about it now. I'm so stoked to say Em and I did an episode of Sex Actually with Alice Levine on feedism and fat fetish. 😱😱 So if your in the UK come peep us out. It streams on All4 tonight and the actual episode airs on TV on March 13.

I'm just really happy to be able to put our story and perspective on our fetish/kink out there in a way that hopefully will make regular people put some respect on it. And also super in awe to share the episode with Ivy Davenport and Reenaye Starr who I admire from afar.

The clip for the series is on my insta story if you follow me there

Also just wanna say thank you to FF in general. This is the place where I discovered it all. Without the team and the community I'd still be unhappily ignorant and I wouldn't have the opportunities or have met some of the most awesome people I know.

Nofbar:
I prefer a book but will consider articles.

Kushandtush:
Well of course content creators would need to block more often. As the valuable models that get all the attention, it doesn't take data analyzing to discern why they would need to use this feature more than, say, me.

The decision of whether one person does not want to deal with someone anymore is their own. It's extremely strange that number of blocks would be limited to a small number like 15 because it would be "no fun". If someone feels the need to block someone, they are not interested in a third parties' definition of what fun is, they are interested in making the harassment stop.

I know, it would be be pretty tragic and un-fun if someone exercised their right to choose who to interact with and blocked someone who didn't deserve it. I'm really glad staff is making sure such an awful thing can never transpire.