Fantasy Feeder

Too old?

ILuvChubbyChix:
No it's not just you. There really is something seemingly juvenile about roleplay and make believe. Adults are expected to understand the cold, hard reality and if they'd like to do something, to actually make it happen. There's daydreaming and being lost in thought, but that's different.

Hell, it really reminds me of when folks used to refer to "cybering" online. Mostly amongst those who are officially too young for this site (and I'm duty bound to ban if I discover any). I think the kids call it "sexting" now.

That said, I suppose you might find some folks of all ages who might do this if you search long and hard enough. While not too common, there's some adults who still have a sense of being a child at heart. I never had the desire to engage in online roleplay, and I completely outgrew any notions of make believe after I turned 12 or so. Even roleplay questions at some job interviews irritate me and make me think less of the company. But, some folks never really do outgrow this stuff at all.

If you aren't into RP, more power to you. No shame in not enjoying it.

However

Role-playing is as juvenile or adult as you make it. It can be a lot of fun if you do it well. People do it in a committed relationship as well.

Also, the name of the site is Fantasy Feeder. If we are hostile to the mere idea of participating in fantasy, what is even the point of this site?

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Fattening boyfriend

Nikola090:
And what about you? Have you been able to slow your gain?

Angy523:
Well, yes, but I'm still gaining and I would say it's 70% his fault

70% his fault? Why do you saw that?

2 years

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Fake doxxing profiles

Papayaanaiah:
They were mad I wouldn’t talk to them after seriously suspect demands and behavior. I blocked them. Then he made a profile of my Feabie name, listed my actual name, phone number and things about me on the profile. Quite a few men reached out on my phone until I got it taken down.

Gross. Did you report them? And are they on this site as far as you know?

2 years

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Fake doxxing profiles

Papayaanaiah:
Hey peeps. I'm super furious because someone made a fake profile, doxxed me and even put my phone number! Gotta love asshats who think that is okay.

Context?

2 years

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Feeling bad

Chubster87:
I've recently gained 30 pounds in 3 months. The majority of the time I love every pound but in order to gain so much weight my diet was really bad. Double(heavy) cream every fay with a few days break every now and then. Mcdonalds breakfast, chicken fillet rolls for lunch fast food/pizza for dinner and beer at night. Ive gained a lot of weight and I love the weight gain but the diet makes me want to stop. I Have brain fog and I can feel it depressing me and every now and again I regret it..I have a fast metabolism so I have to eat a crazy amount of calories to gain weight...I want to keep gaining weight but i want to feel better about it, any suggestions

It sounds like in your quest to get as fat as possible, you forgot about nutrition. The reason you feel so gross is that your body doesn't have everything you need to function.

If you aren't already doing it, I would start taking a multi-vitamin. I would also encourage you to eat more healthy foods in addition to your more calorie dense foods. Also, don't forget that healthy foods do not need to be low calorie foods either. Nuts, avocados, fattier meats, dairy, and other foods are high in nutrition as well as calories.

Changing your approach to eating can help too. Eating before bed, drinking your calories, and having smaller frequent meals throughout the day are all good ways to get in your calories for the day without pushing yourself too hard.

You can also lower your metabolism as well. For example, eating at irregular times is a good way to lower your metabolism.

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Feeling bad

Harryfatterpig:
I’m fatter I don’t get down about other things sure cheer up man

Actually, what OP is talking about is a well documented phenomenon. Research shows having a poor diet can lead to mental health issues like depression. This is why a lot of doctors recommend a healthy diet for people suffering from mental health issues no matter their size.

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Blood tests results

TacticalMilk:
Currently I'm around 275 pounds and trying to gain to 300 while trying to be cautious around health problems by working out and staying away from too many sweets. A few days ago I got my blood tested to see if I had pre diabetes and the results came out negative for both pre diabetes and normal diabetes(thankfully).The thing is that my hemoglobin levels came out as 5.6 percent while the pre diabetes level is 5.7 to 6.4 so what I'm thinking is that if I put on any more weight I'll eventually get pre diabetes.

So my question to you guys is if you had your hemoglobin levels checked and came close to my number.Did you stop gaining or kept going?If you kept going,did you eventually get pre diabetes?

Also if anyone has any professional medical knowledge I would greatly appreciate it

Munchies:
I've been type II diabetic for most of my life - and clinically underweight for the most part too. Weight, as I have seen, is more about correlation than causation.

From my personal experiences and observation, weight is more of an indicator of a lifestyle that is likely to develop diabetes that a direct causation. Diets high in sugar, refined carbs, not drinking enough water, not drinking enough water, and not exercising contribute to an increased risk of diabetes. It is also a good way to get fat.

When you develop healthier habits to prevent or control diabetes, you are also likelier to lose weight. That said, it is possible to gain weight without having such a diet. Nuts, dairy, avocados, and high fat fish are some examples of things you can eat instead of the more common weight gain fair. The trade off is that you will gain at a slower pace and may not gain as much.

TacticalMilk:
Thanks for your input
As of now I tend to avoid high sugar stuff most of the time but I would be lying if I said I'm perfect at doing that

Also I would much rather gain weight slowly than reaching 300 immediately with diabetes so thx for info

If you wouldn't mind me asking btw,how and what kind of diet did you have to have type 2 diabetes?

I'm type II diabetic.

My diet isn't conducive to weight gain, but that is because I am not trying to gain weight. I eat what I want, but I prefer to eat healthy foods over junk food. I do eat sweet things but in moderation. For example, if I want cake, I'll have a small slice of cake - usually scraping off the frosting.

2 years

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Blood tests results

TacticalMilk:
Currently I'm around 275 pounds and trying to gain to 300 while trying to be cautious around health problems by working out and staying away from too many sweets. A few days ago I got my blood tested to see if I had pre diabetes and the results came out negative for both pre diabetes and normal diabetes(thankfully).The thing is that my hemoglobin levels came out as 5.6 percent while the pre diabetes level is 5.7 to 6.4 so what I'm thinking is that if I put on any more weight I'll eventually get pre diabetes.

So my question to you guys is if you had your hemoglobin levels checked and came close to my number.Did you stop gaining or kept going?If you kept going,did you eventually get pre diabetes?

Also if anyone has any professional medical knowledge I would greatly appreciate it

I've been type II diabetic for most of my life - and clinically underweight for the most part too. Weight, as I have seen, is more about correlation than causation.

From my personal experiences and observation, weight is more of an indicator of a lifestyle that is likely to develop diabetes that a direct causation. Diets high in sugar, refined carbs, not drinking enough water, not drinking enough water, and not exercising contribute to an increased risk of diabetes. It is also a good way to get fat.

When you develop healthier habits to prevent or control diabetes, you are also likelier to lose weight. That said, it is possible to gain weight without having such a diet. Nuts, dairy, avocados, and high fat fish are some examples of things you can eat instead of the more common weight gain fair. The trade off is that you will gain at a slower pace and may not gain as much.

2 years

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How does someone who's having to work a majority of the week start gaining?

Munchies:
Actually, so long as you are alive you are burning calories. It's just that when you are asleep, you don't burn as many. As such, it is more likely the food you eat will be stored as fat.

Tentacles:
This is what I think when people say exercise isn't good for losing weight the calories burnt by exercise are on top of what you are burning just to stay alive.[/quote]

Exercise doesn't necessarily equal weight lose. You can lose, maintain, or even gain weight depending on how you approach it.

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Relationship advice

InfamyUnderdog:
I apologize in advance if this post is a mess

For some background: I dated my girlfriend for almost a year and she put on roughly 30 pounds passively during that time (from 180 to 220), but she has always struggled with her self confidence and got better with appreciating how she looked over that period of time along with my help reassuring her that she is beautiful and attractive no matter her size. she knows that I'm a feeder and how I enjoy indulging in feederism, but never wanted to gain intentionally. we broke up for roughly 6 months which was my fault, and which I regret because I do love her and care for her. Come to now, are we are trying to get back together because we both still have very strong feelings for one another but she is taking things slow to build before we start dating again to trust in me just incase if I will leave again (which I do not plan to do).

She is aware that I find fat women attractive and beautiful, including herself, and my desire to want to be her feeder, but she doesn't want to gain more and now wants to start losing weight because she claims that it will make her happy. However she claims that she always want to make me happy, knowing that a feeder/feedee relationship will make me overjoyed, but still doesn't want to practice it. It seems like she has tendencies that made me initially question if she was a closeted feedee when we first started dating and still do such as: belly rubs, eating lots of food at once, and feeling full. Just recently she has agreed that I can do a small feeding/stuffing with her in order to satisfy my fetish and when we are intimant she likes to let me verbally indulge in the kink such as talking about the fetish and how I want to feed her because it turns her on if I'm turned on. I get upset afterwards because I know the talk is just for show and she doesn't want to act on it and she is aware of this as well.

I do want her to be happy and I will do my best to make her happy because I love her, but I have no idea if she will ever want to try gaining in the future if she feels more comfortable and safe with me. I'm not sure if I'm looking for advice or affirmation, but I guess I'm looking for other peoples opinion on my situation. Feel free to ask questions if you have them or if I need to clarify anything.

Sounds to me like she's doing her best to accommodate a fetish you have that she doesn't have. She has body issues, but she's still trying for your sake. You don't come across as appreciative of her effort. You come across as being upset she isn't doing more for you.

She clearly still loves you, but you've hurt her before. This is why she wants to go slow.

You have to put the person first and your fetish second. And if you can't do that, you'll never be in a happy relationship - even if you date a full-blown feedee.

2 years

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