Seems like you've already made your choice, my friend. At least you know what weight you are no longer comfortable at. Why not gain until you get to that point and then reassess?

Make a table, and write a list of pros and cons. No one can choose for you, but this should help you make it for yourself.

Also, there's nothing wrong with the occasional stuffing session. I'm not actively gaining. In fact, my weight has been stable for some time, and I have no interest in putting on more. But from time to time, it's nice, just full of delicious food.

After a stuffing session, I like to heap on the praise. Tell him how happy I am with him. How well he did for me. This is especially important if I made him go hard or I was particularly mean. Just make him feel warm and fuzzy until the inevitable food coma takes him.

Most of y'all are sleeping on the muscular-fat contrast. Muscular-fat contrast, in my opinion, is the most erotic contrast of them all.

Consider the following:

Muscular partner eats a lot - perhaps as much as the fat partner. It could be a fun challenger for the fat partner to eat more. Or have occasional stuffing sessions with the muscular partner who will turn either burn it off or get more muscular later.

Fat partner is muscular partner's living weight. The fatter the fat partner gets, the stronger the muscular partner becomes.

Fat partner getting so big and heavy that they need the muscular partner to help them up, hold their belly when it gets too heavy, move it out the way during sex, etc.


It's practical and sexy.

Aw, thank you.

It depends on my mood. If I want to be entertained, I want a story. If I want to get off, give me the me the smut.

I will say this. The best weight gain stories I have read are the ones that properly weave the story with the kink. I have seen a lot of stories that feel like they are telling two unrelated stories at once. The kink should enhance the story and vice versa.

I always keep at least three things in mind when I write: the start, the end, and the general flow. I'm a firm believer of letting the story go where it wants. I can't tell you how many time I had a plan, but as I wrote the story, I realized doing something different would be better. This goes for any kind of story.

For the weight gain part, it helps to have references. I can't tell you how many stories I've read where the writer has no idea about basic anatomy. For example, thinking a woman is super fat when they are 5'7" and 150 pounds.

On the flip side, don't be that writer who has a precise image in their heads and dictates that image to the audience. Don't give the proportions unless it makes narrative sense to do that, and accept that your reader will not imagine this character the exact way you do. Always show, don't tell.

If you want to be a better feedee to your feeder, then talk to him. Find out what he likes or doesn't like. See if there are any fantasies he wants to try. Tell him about what you want to try too. Stuff like that.

Went from 115 to 168 at 5'7". Not interested in gainer more because I feel happy with how I look now.

I'm an FFA and a dom feeder. I love it when a man gains weight under my care. It's two fold for me. I love the look, and I love doting on people. Every bit of flab is proof of my affection.