I'm on the spectrum, so I don't like most noises. But I do enjoy hearing a fat belly getting smacked or a belch to free up some room for more food. Not keen on farts. Or belching for the sake of belching.
2 years
swoledaze:
When you word it like that, I agree. It seems like interaction has become more and more difficult to where I even put my guard up. I wanna say it's possible, it's just seems like an uphill climb to find it.
Exactly. You have to put the person first and the fetish last. And on a site where everyone has similar interests, you have stand out from the crowd. That's where that personal connection comes into play.
Don't come into my inbox, give me your government name, and tell me to hop on kik. I don't know you enough to trust you. Instead, take the time to get to know me. Let me get to know you. It's a give and take kind of deal.
2 years
I don't think the fetish is the issue. People with all kinds of fetishes and kinks find love all the time.
The problem I'm seeing is how people approach the fetish. Mind you, not everyone on this site is like this. A lot of you are perfectly lovely. Still, there is a sizable chunk of people who do not know how to interact with others.
I've personally dealt with people who are terrible conversationalists, too pushy, do not respect boundaries, do not listen, are manipulative, etc. So, when I interact with others, my guard is up. Add to the fact that a lot of us have our own personal traumas? Oy vey
2 years
I'm the proud owner of a 36D rack. A bra is a support item. It doesn't do a whole lot besides that.
Bras come in many styles. I personally adore wire free bras with lightly lines cups.
If you find sports bras constricting, you may be wearing the wrong size. Your typical low impact sports bra should be no more constricting than a tank top. They also come in several different shapes, so you might need to see which one you prefer.
I don't mess with bralettes because they offer no support for me. I'm a very active person. But if you live a more sedentary life, you might like them.
2 years
Eirtae feedee:
I'm waiting for a call from the doctor today. I think he will tell me that I have diabetes.
Will I be able to continue gaining weight?
Just wondering what other people in the same situation do
GainingLear:
Can you continue gaining?
Yes, but it takes a lot more work to not throw everything off.
If you are diagnosed I suggest holding off on continuing gaining til you're getting stable numbers. Once you have meds that work to keep your blood sugar even you can test the boundaries and figure out how to gain again. Everyone is a bit different, not everyone's system will be spiked by the same foods so some testing is necessary.
You won't have particularly rapid gains, because all the good calorie bombs are high in sugar. But you can continue gaining.
Diabetic here. Been one for all my life. I second what he says. You can gain, but you have to be very careful how you do it.
It is best to stabilize your blood glucose levels because that can work against you. Not just the whole insulin spike thing either. If your sugar gets too high, you can actually lose weight.
Get your levels right. Find out what your boundaries are. You may need to switch to healthier alternatives like nuts and avocados. Takes longer to do, but it's a journey, not a race.
2 years
I've never been fat, but I have gained a considerable amount of weight. I went from 115 to 168-ish pounds in about 5 or 6 years. Most of that is muscle.
My mom and grandma freaked out and told me I was getting fat (which makes no sense because I have abs.) At some point I decided enough was enough and made it clear their comments won't be tolerated. I don't think I changed their mind about my body, but at least they've since shut up.
2 years
I love men with all body types. Fat, thin, muscular. Doesn't matter. Personality is more important.
2 years
makethatgirlfatter:
Flattering. I have a lot of PTSD from an abusive ex, so negative comments can be very triggering.
I'm sorry you went through that, hun. You didn't deserve that at all. I am glad that you are in a better place now.
2 years
The idea is being pregnant is very hot to me. Especially the idea that my pregnant belly will look so much smaller than my feedee's.
Being pregnant on the other hand ...
2 years
FFA here. I've loved fat bodies as long as I can remember. I recently discovered I was a feeder too when I met my current feedee. Looking back, it seems a little silly I just figured it out. I'm a very bossy woman who love to cook for others (and in general).
I used to identify as a gainer, but once I went from underweight to curvy, I lost interest in gaining.
2 years
