Slasher92:
I feel this is an extremely underrated act/form of intimacy, especially in Feedism.
Literally fattening up your partner until their belly provides a new source of pleasure. Reminding them what a good, greedy piggy they’ve been, that they’re so gluttonous that their belly is a new hole to fuck. And then leaving a nice, warm, dripping mess in their belly button.
10/10 would do again and again
It's a dream of mine to fatten a man up so much that I can peg his gut.
Alternatively, a man being so fat he can use his own fat as a new hole? Utter perfection.
2 years
finickyfeedee:
I have a lot of stress in my life but I’ve never been able to stress eat, instead I tend to end up barely eating at all when I am badly stressed (sometimes just a few hundred calories a day). When I am stressed, eating becomes agonizingly miserable and it can take me hours to eat a tiny portion of crackers when I’m in that state, and then I don’t feel like eating again for ages. Obviously this is not good for someone who wants to become fat, and it is severe enough it isn’t even safe.
I know stress eating is very common and it causes many people to gain weight, even unintentionally. If I could learn how to do it then it’d help me a lot. Is there anyway to teach yourself to stress eat or is it just a case of your natural tendencies?
Big time stress eater here. For me, I associate food with comfort and love. So, eating good food is something that takes me back to simpler times. Doesn't matter if it's home cooked or not. That being said, I do gravitate to certain foods more so than others. Carbs and dark chocolates are my favorite.
I suppose you could associate certain foods with comfort or joy. From there, you could train your brain to eat.
Another option is drinking your calories. I assume you get thirsty and drink even when you are stressed. You can also switch to something with more calories when you are feeling stressed out. See if that helps.
2 years
It's fine. Sorry if I made you feel uncomfortable.
But that being said, you might want to stick with padding until you decide what you want to do. When you do feel comfortable taking the plunge, it's great. You feel like your body is finally doing what you want it to do.
I can't speak for everyone, but I felt more comfortable when I started gaining. I became bolder too. Honestly, I've got no regrets.
2 years
Curiousicey:
I mean im not a feeder or a feedee, thats an option too..
The thought of gaining and letting go turns me on, I sometimes stuff to feel that.
However my mental health and eating disordered tendencies cant take it and I get super anxious.
Sure, if they enjoyed being that way I would be okay with it and im into it but even a bloated stomach is enough and does the trick for me.
I guess I just got lucky because they look totally slim if starving, but once bloated its a totally different story.
Noname078:
Thanks for your reply! In the morning when my belly is empty I look quite thin too, but in the evening especially after a larger meal I can look quite fat.
For me this can have two effects on my mood:
A) I enjoy it and fantasize about getting fat
B ) I panic because even at my lightest weight, I still look fat. I panic bc I think people always see me like fat and don’t appreciate me bc of it (I have a very bad self image).
I get that for some people the occasional stuffing session can be enough to full fill their desires.
For me, I’m most anxious about the first kilos/pounds. You know, the ones everyone will notice and will try to get you back to being skinny. I’m most curious to how life would be if I was overweight. Somehow I have this ideal image in my head that if I were that heavy, I could finally relax and not stress about food and my body bc I would already not answer to society’s ideal and a few kilos more or less wouldn’t be that visible on an already fat frame.
A lot of people tell me to just try gaining a little, but again I don’t think I will enjoy it untill I’m already fat. Also just trying it doesn’t feel like an option, bc I fear that if I didn’t like it and had to diet, I would still be stuck in that body for a while and that along with dieting would trigger my anorexia
I don't know what to tell you man. The responsible thing to do is wait until you make up your mind. If you're slim, you gotta start gaining to be fat.
No judgement, but it low key sounds like you want someone to tell you to be fat. To kinda force feed you into blowing up so you can kinda have someone else to blame for it. And don't get me wrong, it's a hot fantasy. But my main concern is your mental welbeing when you start gaining. If you can't handle the the first few pounds, then you can't handle the first 50.
If you really want to be fat, you need to work on those issues holding you back. You'll be paralyzed with fear until you do.
2 years
I want to fatten my big boy nice and plump. At least double what he weighs now. However, I also want him to lug all that weight around without feeling too uncomfortable.
We live in different countries, so I can't be there to help him. I love exercise myself, but I don't think my routine will work for him. Especially because what calories I don't burn off become pure muscle.
What's the best way to do this?
2 years
Noname078:
Hi, I have a question for feeders:
How do you know that you like others gaining, but not yourself?
People who check out my profile posts can see that I’m very conflicted about gaining myself.
I’m bisexual and while I like men and women getting fatter, I don’t know if I would like getting fat myself. (The fantasy of it turns me on and I enjoy padding but I have a history of anorexia and I often panic about the little fat I already have)
I guess my question is mostly directed to gay and bisexual feeders. In my case: how do I know if I simply like fat women or if I want to be one myself?
For those of you who are into mutual gain or went from feeder to feedee: how did you decide to start gaining?
For me, I initially wanted to be a gainer (not feedee). I went from 115 to 168. And then I just ... lost interest. Plus most of the weight I gained is muscle because I couldn't jive with being sedentary.
I realized I was a feeder when I stumbled up the right feedee. Everything kinda clicked after that.
2 years
Noname078:
a few people have told me to just try and gain a little because there’s always a way back.
But for me that ‘way back’ feels hard. Losing weight is always hard, but for me, I fear it would trigger bad feeling from when I had anorexia and that I would easily slip into my old anorexic patterns.
Speaking as a person with mild body dysmorphia, talking the plunge help me. I took it slow, and took the time to just admire my body. I would go out of my way to find things I liked about my gain.
I do want you to know that gaining weight doesn't mean you will become as big as a house. You may be like me and decide being thick is enough. Or you may decide to be fat. Just focus on the journey. It's more fun that way.
2 years
It was pretty simple for me. I put on 50 pounds and was satisfied with my weight. I went from 115 to about 168, and moved my goal weight several times prior to this point. I switched from actively gaining weight to just enjoying food.
I realize that I am nowhere near as big as most people talking about this. But I'm just maintaining at this point. I eat enough not to lose the weight, but I work out enough to to pile more on. It works for me.
2 years
FF Team:
Hi Munchies,
Thanks for the suggestion. I can certainly pass this forward as a suggestion to the site oner for consideration.
On the story search form, you are able to filter your search by selecting the genre and, tags / themes. However this is not multiple select so depending on what you are looking then currently multiple searches may need to be done to find content.
We can certainly look into adding multiple selection on the search form to make this easier and functional search.
Thanks,
c00kie
FF Team
Yes, I an aware. And I use it religiously. But, I've spent the bulk of my life on sites that has an exclude option, so this is a little jarring.
2 years
Is it possible to include an "exclude" feature for story tags? There are some things that I am not interested in, and it would make for a better browsing experience if I could simply filter them out.
2 years
