Weight gain goals for 2023?

Fatmanrocker:
I’d like to put on 100lbs if I can


100 lbs in a year? An impressive goal to be sure.
2 years

Breeders and gainers, a mythical combo?

Mattcy23:
I would love to fatten someone up with pregnancy and then just keep making them fatter who’s interested?

Munchies:
Gotta remember there's a big difference between having a breeding kink and starting a family - especially a family. Having a baby takes a lot of time, money, and energy. It's at least an 18 year commitment. Plus if things don't work out with the parents, they will still be involved with each other because of the kid.

Bellyempire:
Sigh. The lines we blur between fantasy and reality. Something tells me many of our kinks are survival and reproduction instinct.


I, a ciswoman, like pegging and stuffing greedy pigs until they their manhood is buried in their fat.

I don't think that kink has anything to do with survival or reproduction.
2 years

Why are you into feederism?

Slim:
I think humans are often compelled by a conflict of attraction and fear. I think eating disorders and attraction to fat have a strong link in all directions. We also tend to like somebody else we love enjoying what we deny ourselves, and I haven't really figured out the fear to attraction thing, but it seems to be rather common across all fetishes. Feedism is just another form of BDSM. But tastes better.


Feedism? Is not BDSM? Lol, you've been here for 12 years, man. You should know better.

It pairs *well* with BDSM, but it isn't in and of itself BDSM.

And what fear or eating disorder are you talking about? Yes, some people have internalized fatphobia or deal with eating disorders. But it's not endemic to this kink.
2 years

Feedist/gainer cookbook

Boundandfeed:
Can you upload this cookbook and/or the information on it.

You would think that such a book would be here on site.


Because it's not free. This is something that OP made. If you want it, you have to buy it. She posted the link to do so.
2 years

Too big for a bath.

Snorlax8:
Recently I wanted to relax and have a bubble bath but when I sat down in the bathtub I found out I was too fat felt good honestly.

Andromeda:
Unfortunately if I get in, it's too hard to get up. My building was built in the early 1900s. I'm not sure if the tub is small or if I'm just a fatty, but my rolls bulge over the sides, and my tummy is above the water line. I need a wider, deeper tub. I look like an overflowing cupcake in mine.


Consider:

It's both.
2 years

Veterans day belly rubs

Bellyempire:
Its veterans day and to honor those who have served our country please allow a veteran to rub your belly.


Like ... just *any* veteran? No dinner and a movie first?

So lewd ~
2 years

Outsiders just don't get it - a rant

YumNom:
So what would be a good way of accurately portraying feederism? I agree as I'm not a submissive or dominating person.


I'd say the basics.

A feeder likes to feed and a feedee likes to be fed.
2 years

Outsiders just don't get it - a rant

Doublefrosted:
Given the site this is on it was likely written by a member of the BDSM community with a BDSM audience in mind, and it's likely their only real exposure to feederism has been in a D/s context.

I agree that better representation is needed, but a lot of people also aren't that interested in learning about it if they don't already have an interest in it for themselves.

Munchies:
Even so, there are dominate feedees and submissive feeders. So it's still wrong.

Doublefrosted:
I've yet to find a generalised kink/fetish site that manages to get the definition of feederism right.

I don't like it either, but I try not to get too worked up over things being wrong in spaces that barely accept feederism.


Tis but a rant. Besides, it's so bad that Urban dictionary does it better.
2 years

Outsiders just don't get it - a rant

Munchies:
Was browsing the interwebs and found this:

www.fetish.com/feederism/

Tell me you aren't part of a community without telling me you aren't part of a community.

This page says that feederism is a part of the BDSM community. It also says that feeders are dominate and feedees are submissive. This page is riddled with inaccuracies.

Doublefrosted:
Given the site this is on it was likely written by a member of the BDSM community with a BDSM audience in mind, and it's likely their only real exposure to feederism has been in a D/s context.

I agree that better representation is needed, but a lot of people also aren't that interested in learning about it if they don't already have an interest in it for themselves.


Even so, there are dominate feedees and submissive feeders. So it's still wrong.
2 years

Outsiders just don't get it - a rant

Was browsing the interwebs and found this:

www.fetish.com/feederism/

Tell me you aren't part of a community without telling me you aren't part of a community.

This page says that feederism is a part of the BDSM community. It also says that feeders are dominate and feedees are submissive. This page is riddled with inaccuracies.
2 years