F2crs:
I've always wanted to share my experience and hear that of others with this fetish and i guess this is the right place, so...
I'm a straight male 33, decent looking and with some reasonable success in my dating life
My fetish mostly involves lighter takes of overeating/stuffing and weight gain (of my partner that is), I'm not entirely cool with it due to the health issues it may cause- i never manipulate anyone, i'm mostly targeting women that would (over)eat and gain anyways so i won't have any negative effect on them...
Without this fetish i'd have been satisfied from my personal life as i do get sex just not the kind i want... why?
1)I tend to attract women a bit too small for my tastes, pretty self explanatory i guess...
2)Regardless of size most women i'm dating will constantly be on a diet, always assuring me how they're losing weight (even if they're already in normal range) and will generally try to impress me by eating as little as possible.... suffice to say that's a downer for my libido...
3)Women will avoid getting intimate when full... which is kinda ironic as it's when i most want it...
4)Women will avoid getting intimate when they're at their peak weight, same deal as above... we had an awesome holiday she gained 4 KG and now she's starving and avoiding sex.. then she'll be on her period and then poof- back to normal...
5)Generally they're disinterested in mixing food and sex, even when they actually like both... this one always puzzled me
6)They'll never believe that i actually prefer them a couple of sizes bigger, let alone that i find it sexy when they (over)eat...
7)They seem to want to be touched in all places except the ones they're curvier and pretty much all of them do not want to be touched on the belly unless they have a 6pack and haven't eaten anything the entire day...
And here i am often having to fake erectile dysfunction because everytime i get intimate with a woman she decides to go on a starvation diet to impress me, despite me assuring her how this is unwanted and offering her all kinds of treats... but no just a salad it is...
Do you have similar experiences and how do you handle it?
Female perceptives are also welcome of course, it's an open topic feel free to add whatever you wish
This can all be avoided if you date a bigger girl who is comfortable with her size. She doesn't even need to be a feedee.
If you prefer big girls, then go after big girls who enjoy or are indifferent to their size.
