Miachu:
What would do/feel if you woke up one morning, 200 pounds heavier then when you feel asleep the night before?

Fanedfox:
Great article! Sound advice that I will keep mind as one of my favorite eating holidays approaches.

Royalties:
Whoa. No pleasure for you?

Royalties:
I’ve gotten to a point where I stay mostly within my pubic pad, and even when I get excited or aroused, my erection doesn’t achieve enough length for reasonable penetration. I’m finally coming to peace with it, but I want to share in case some other men have experienced the same?

I still want to love the right woman when she comes into my life

MitchHedberg:
There's a technique for staying soft while orgasming that read about.

You basically only pleasure the penis while it's soft and if it gets hard, you neglect it until goes back down. Eventually this gets you to the point where you've edged for so long that, given the right stimulation, you can cum while soft. Using a vibrator to finish the deal helps with reaching a climax before the penis gets hard again.

Do this enough times and the body slowly begins to learn that getting hard is not the proper response to sexual stimulation, but that staying soft is instead. This makes the dick even more like a clit because now it stays small and sensitive when you play with it, penetration is impossible and cum just leaks out during an orgasm.

Laidback70:
Its ok, everybody has their bounderies and limits and other people should respect that. I agree here, people some of them are all not there. I learned sometimes to sort past the online freaks and just go along with it as long as its not too raunchy or bad. Nudism like feederism has its bounderies.

Morbidly A Beast:
No one wants to feel hunger it’s terrible and stops you from getting Fat(ter) unless your uncomfortably full you can eat.

TheStoryteller:
I started seeing this woman a few months ago. She’s the first girlfriend I had that’s above normal weight by a large margin.

All my exes were either skinny or normal weight. Weight isn’t a deal breaker for me - I can enjoy sex with people regardless of their weight and I find all sorts of body shapes attractive. I don’t even feel like fat alone can define my attraction - a person can be overweight and still have a body type that’s unappealing to me.

But I’ve always had this fascination with fat. I don’t act on it because I understand that most people dislike being overweight, feel unattractive when they gain weight and such. I feel that way about my own body.

I’m crazy about how big my current gf is.
I wanna grab every inch of her body, is so beautiful. I love seeing her belly spill over when she lies on her side, I love how soft and large her hips are, how her behind is so big I have trouble reaching around it. It’s very apparent I’m enjoying all of this, so much that she even asked me if I’m into bigger girls. I told her the truth, without going into the details.

She’s gained weight since we started dating. Can’t be more than a couple of pounds, but her work outfits are evidently tight and I can’t get enough of it. She isn’t happy about the new poundage so I avoid bringing it up, but damn. I’m conflicted between being happy about her tightening wardrobe and being sad about her getting further away from her desired weight.

I encourage her to lose the weight if she feels unhappy about it. I’m relatively active myself, so I told her she could join my workouts if she’d like.

But I feel like a hypocrite. How can I encourage her to lose weight while I’m fantasizing about popping the buttons on her blouse? I want her to be healthy and happy. My desire for her to gain is part of a fantasy I never thought I’d come close to fulfilling in real life, and I’d never actively pursue against someone’s wishes.

Should I tell her about it explicitly? Is there a good way to explain it without sounding like a freak? I see how FAs are depicted online and in the media and I don’t want her to get the wrong idea. I also feel like the odds of her finding out by accidentally stumbling upon an open ff tab are relatively high. How do I say “I love how big you are and I find it sexy that you’ve gained weight” without making her self-conscious about it?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.