secretdesires wrote:
Okay, so we're all here because we love big squishy bellies, but how many of us have other major fetishes? Am I the only one whose main and only fetish isn't a fat-related fetish?

My main fetishes are Daddy/girl RP, rape RP, and I have a huge @ss fetish. (heh I made a pun!)

foxglove wrote:
I love it when a boy tells me their weight or measurements. It doesn't even matter if they're skinny or fat, tbh, it's just the fact they're telling me something personal and maybe a bit embarrassing. The biggest frisson I get is if they are expressing some kind of inner conflict about their weight/size - I totally adore hearing about their efforts to lose/get back in shape. Especially if they try and fail... mwahaha

LovesBigMen wrote:
Well, OP, while it's a great thing that you and her share the same kinks, there is more in a relationship than jus the carnal portion of it. I'm a feeder and, while feederism is what gets me going sexually, a relationship wouldn't go anywhere if all a guy and I did was solely sexual. I believe no relationship, being based on a fetish or not would work out in that way.


I second that !
There has to be a real relationship not only based on sex if it is really destined to hold for long ^^.

But i guess it´s a nice way to first contact someone through some real desires so u are at least sure about those things which make your sexlife happy and i guess you will find out if the person itself and her cahracter matches up for a realy love relationship ...:-)

But you can´t know that before even if your relationship is not based at first on sexual desires i guess !

Just be yourself, share what you are as a person without abandoning the feeder part of you, but not being only about that. That way, both of you will grow as a couple.

Of course, there's the chance I'm just spouting crazy talk, as I have never been on a feeder/feedee relationship in real life. Good luck for you both!

LovesBigMen wrote:
Myself, I love seeing strained buttons and too-tight shirts, indicating someone has been putting on a few pounds lately. I've had this teacher whose dress shirt's buttons looked like they we're ready to pop off at any time. He had also outgrown belts, having to wear suspenders. My friends didn't quite get why he wore them, but I did. Gosh, what a crush I had on him.

I do agree that, while some belly tease here and there is awesome, the clothes should be clean and in an overall nice state. I don't care much for holey and stained clothes. Unless it's a recent food stain. That I like.

As for playing and teasing a belly in public, that's something I definitely could see myself doing. I'd have to restrain myself from grabbing wobbly bits, since I'm a very grabby person on things I find cute. But I would be careful enough not to embarass or offend the person I'm with, I'd feel terrible for humilliating someone in public. The furthest I'd go it's lots of hugging and feeling.

LetMeFeedYou wrote:
"Mmmmm baby, that was so good, go get me some more". Now THAT is what I like to hear, it gets me so giddy!

BoonahFace wrote:
I remember putting pillows under my clothing and pretending to be fat at a young age. I loved it but it was very innocent at the time.

AskDrFeeder wrote:


Just make sure the gym buddy isn't a feeder or it could backfire pretty badly.