Tile:
Having lurked and been active around the FA and weight gain community for over 20 years I have gained some interesting perspectives on my own desires and am curious if anyone else experiences the same. Quick background - thin all my life, athletic (when not injured), but attracted to fat as early as 1st grade. I dated and had relations with a few BBWs when in HS and college - pre internet so I thought it was me and I was alone in my kink. Thanks to the internet I learned that I wasn�t.
I married a thin woman, who�s mother was very fat. On my honeymoon I had my urges to eat to gain weight. This repeated a week or more at a time once or twice every other year, but I had a high metabolism and nothing would really happen. I would certainly get super aroused at the thought of getting fat, I would stuff my closes when alone, but would always get tired I having to eat a ton of food for little or no impact. Bi never shared my interest in my gaining, but overtime slow encouraged my wife who has thankfully put on 50 lbs since we got married.
I have always had a consistent attraction to very large and curvaceous women and over time I have begun to become an admirer of Men�s fat bellies, thought I have 0 male attraction. I think it�s and interst in imagining myself like that.
As I�ve gotten older I have notice that the brief weight gain forays have begun to leave their mark with more and more subcutaneous fat staying for the long term. Also when the desire comes it come with greater and greater erotic energy where I furiously eat and stuff over a longer period to the point that I feel I am finally gliding into full on obesity and I find it super erotic. I find it now super hot to think of a male gaining buddy to mutually gain together. I have a strong belief that if I found one in person I would not be able to stop gaining anymore.
With all they said, has anyone else had the on-again off-again desire like mine? I would be curious.
I too have had a similar experience. My wife was a bit overweight when we married, her mom was obese. She wore a bikini on our honeymoon. She's now up over two hundred pounds. Which I love, but she doesn't. I check out men's bellies also, thinking how I would look that big.
My gaining comes in spurts too. It seems I gain more in the summer than the winter. I like to binge and now that I'm older I gain very easily. Most of my fat is visceral, so I have a firm bulging belly. I do sit ups to have some control over my bulge. I retired from the military reserves five years ago and I have put on between fifteen and twenty pounds. I enjoy looking in the mirror and admiring my belly, which I stick out as much as I can. My wife has not mentioned my weight gain, though I strive to make it obvious to her.
When I have put on weight, I got up to 230 lbs., last summer I really notice it when I do my sit ups and run, which I do daily. Someday, I will just let myself go (hopefully). Great thread.
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I have worked in offices with a lot of women, many of whom gained weight. I do remember a few years ago we had some young women start working, pretty much right after high school, they gained weight faster than the older women did!
6 years
I still run in the mornings, do sit-ups and push ups, though I'm around forty pounds overweight. The last twenty of those, coming in the past few years. I certainly don't lose weight the way I could in my younger days. I old, so gaining is easy, losing is hard, but maintaining hasn't been an issue.
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I have put on nearly twenty pound in the last five years, since I retired from the military reserves. I do not have any stretch marks. I think, as pointed out in this thread, you are prone to them or not. I have very smooth skin with little or no hair on my body. I did not use any oils or creams either.
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I have put on five pounds in two days. I'm old, so I can very easily. I did it eating 2500-3000 calories at each meal. I was even fairly active and still put on weight.
Your metabolism really dictates how much you can gain and how fast.
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Oh yes, it would be noticeable. If you weigh 175 and then to 225 lbs. Your waist will gain several inches, not to mention double chin, thicker thighs and butt. Adding fifty pounds is a 28 % increase in your weight. Really hard not to notice.
6 years
Oh yes, it would be noticeable. If you weigh 175 and then to 225 lbs. Your waist will gain several inches, not to mention double chin, thicker thighs and butt. Adding fifty pounds is a 28 % increase in your weight. Really hard not to notice.
6 years
I seen information, mainly on the internet the average passenger on a cruise gain 7 lbs. a week. I have written stories about couples taking cruises and gaining huge amounts of weight.
6 years
Silver72:
I'm stuck with a job that doesn't pay very well for the moment, and after rent and basic necessities I'm not left with very much, and body got ideas?
Check around, many bakeries and donuts shops will sell their "day old" stuff at a substantial discount. Some of the big baking companies will have thrift stores that sell the older stuff that didn't sell in stores that their route drivers bring back in.
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womansbellylover348:
Is gaining weight better for you as the gainer if you LOVE the gain and do it voluntarily or is it better to be force fed or tricked into it?
It has to be voluntary. Tricking someone into doing anything is not unethical, but cruel. I admit to being a subtle encourager, but that is as far as I go. I also believe that your SO is heavy and you enjoy that, you should be as heavy. I have been gaining since retiring from the military reserves, now that I don't have to be in shape any more, I'm gaining, as much for my own pleasure as gaining to support my wife.
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