There are a number of reasons to be fat and a number of reasons to be thin, but getting a GF is not one of them. There are women who like all different sizes. If you can't find anyone when you are thin or fat, it may either be bad luck, you're not looking in the right places, or something else that is turning them off.

Seems like ALL of the women in the room get attention, since there are so few of them.

It's her decision whether she gains or loses, and her decision to buy whatever clothes she wants.

You can't worry what is "normal," only what you like. I pretty much get turned on only thinking about someone gaining weight.

People just have preferences. If someone prefers blondes, they don't try to figure out why.

You like your wife's growing belly and she hates it. MISMATCH! It's her body, not yours. And it is no fun being with someone who hates being fat. Either get used to being with a smaller woman (sounds like she wants to lose the belly she has) or find someone who enjoys being fat.

I find gaining women attractive, but I don't want to gain. I find fat very feminine, and I don't want to be feminine. Also I am older, have HBP and diabetes, so I couldn't gain anyway. If anyone is going to gain, they should do it young.

That is hundreds of pounds more than the fattest woman on record, so that is not a reasonable goal. It might be a nice fantasy to be immobile, but do you really want to marry someone who will need someone to bathe and clean her, and change her diapers? Not having children, not going anywhere in public?

If you want to stop following someone

There are a lot of fat poor people.