Refeed:
It's s double standard. I'm a creep without one but women can be like this even though I feel nervous about doing it. I always get the so what? Answer, so like most things it depends on the people involved.

Mikig1:
What do you think about it when woman is quite chubby it fat with big belly, thighs and fat ass but still very small boobs?
It happened to my girlfriend, she always has small boobs, gained quite a lot, doubled the weight but boobs didn't grow almost at all. She doesn't like the gain and boobs make it even worse for her unfortunately but I like her boobs very much so she feels better being appreciated all the time ❤️
Did you have such experience?

Miachu:
Decided I'd make a quick forum to see what other people have to say on the topic

I'm sure a lot of us have experience talking with someone, then very early into the conversation they ask to see what you look like

What's people's views on this? Do you view this as a normal thing? Or do you think it is not etc etc

SilverRaven:
Done. Will you share your findings on the site BlackBarbie108? It could be quite interesting 🤔

Malvineous:
Personally, I'm not bothered with women making a girls only club if they want to. Although, I think the objections Munchies raised are all valid.

Bumble has a mechanism for preventing men from messaging first. There are also women-only facebook groups, subreddits, forums, etc. Maybe the safe space you're looking for already exists in some form?

That's not meant to discourage whatever this project is. I'm still not sure what someone is supposed to do on the site, other than feel safe. Is it for discussion, microblogging, networking, dating, or what? Knowing what it's specifically for could change your method of moderating it.

Even good men won't be allowed because they should know how people like us suffer from creepy men!

AnotherLonelyAgingNerd:
No good thing ever started with exclusion.

Krystal Saphira:
I had realized long ago that there is no such place as a "safe place". Some places are just safer than others and we all do our best to keep our own selves safe.

I have known Ditzy for many years. I have never felt unsafe around her. Understanding can go in more than one direction. Thank you.

Brodop:
this is so oddly specific and personally im not really into burping at all, but i figured this would be the place to ask: can anyone else just not burp? i can chug a liter of coke, do a handstand and jump on a trampoline or eat mentos and for the life of me, i just cant burp. never have, and at this point i doubt i ever will. must be my innate superpowers or something.

CuppaJoe:
I agree with Animus - congratulations on making the decision to potentially risk rejection and to share something deeply personal in your relationship.

How many times do you see the advice (even in these forums!) to talk with your partner and openly and lovingly communicate about your emotional and sexual needs and desires? (Heck, I feel like Munchies must have a copy/paste file at this point - lol)

Part of communication is active listening and ensuring that you are sensitive to your partners needs and desires as well. As with anything new, start slowly and check frequently with your partner- explain that you are so excited that they are trying something that you love, and that you want to ensure that they are also okay...

My first few times feeding someone new to feederism were not to max stuff to the point of discomfort, but simply to introduce some fun decadent treats into the bedroom. Cake, brownies, ice cream, eclairs, donuts - these are all pretty great starters that you can start/stop depending on how your partner is doing. Let him/her/them dictate to you how far to go, and provide a LOT of verbal and physical feedback to let him/her/them know how much YOU are enjoying what they are doing.

Good luck!

Credomiles:
Hey I think I've seen stuff about this before and the general answer was "just change jobs", but any tips on gaining, while wanting to stay active?

I'm planning on working field research jobs that would require hiking rough terrain for miles a day. I also really enjoy outdoor hobbies and would like to get involved with sports like rock climbing and mountain biking. Unfortunately, these things don't really mesh well with being bigger bodied. It seems any weight I gain disappears quickly when I start hiking again during the summer.

Simple solution would be to eat more do less, but food is expensive, and it's difficult for me to eat even a little more calories than normal, especially without my roomate noticing. Anyone dealt with this problem or have some ideas? Or is this just a matter of me accepting I can't live out a chubby fantasy while also living my life doing things I enjoy?