The game is afoot

MickRidem:
Update: talked to my therapist last night. This behavioural conditioning is one of the best things I've ever done for myself.

My OCD has calmed significantly because I "can't control everything", for starters. All of my previous ED "rules of eating" are not only being broken, I'm swinging HARD in the opposite direction. Add more body confidence, mental and emotional freedom, and of course...

The sexy part. đŸ”„ Finally allowing these desires to come to fruition in a safe way. I am gaining as much as I can, on purpose, without being careful about fat/muscle balance and without careful food balance. I have never allowed myself reckless abandon. I am loving getting FAT.

After the 2 month Game, I'm probably going to settle in the middle, hopefully, for the sake of my heartburn. đŸ˜‚đŸ˜â€ïž

All is good. Very, very good.


Happy for you!
2 years

Ssbbw/feedism songs?

Boulder27:
Does anybody know any songs who's subject matter is about ssbbw or feedism? I doubt there are many, if any, but I figured I'd ask.


This is the the most feedist song I know:

2 years

Sexuality in search.

ILuvChubbyChix:
+1

I think this should be an overall improvement.

Orientation is already even in profiles, albeit within the "Dating" section that most can't see. Building on this, a suggestion might be to move orientation to the "About Me" of a profile.

The main advantage of doing this, that I see, is that for the most part, less undesired attention from other users. Straight folks don't want potential romantic attention from LGBT members, and vice versa.

As a bonus, as far as interaction in general, anti-LGBT bigots who don't express this position (they'd likely end up violating web site rules if they do) would also leave the LGBT folks alone.

The only downside I can think of is this could mean some straight women might end up with even more attention, but I have the impression the ones who stay and can deal with it, are already used to it, and I can't imagine it getting much worse than it already is.


I am a straight woman. I am one of the rare people who completely filled out my profile - including my sexuality. Most people haven't paid attention to it.
2 years

I can’t break my plateau

Rio67:
Heavy cream works really well smiley right before bed a pint a day in 2 weeks you’ll need new pants I bet

Docp:
I can’t drink heavy cream by itself without gagging. It would also be tough to bring so much heavy cream in the house without raising suspicion (I live with family) idk, maybe I should just go to the store and buy heavy cream+chocolate milk and just down them at the end of the day

Munchies:
Again, if you tend to put on muscle over fat, this may not have the intended effect.

What are you already doing?

Docp:
I haven’t been doing much besides overeating what food is already at home. I stopped actively gaining after I quit my fast food job a while back. The only way I have gained is when I made myself addicted to fast food for a month and had a lot of edibles which gave me the munchies. The reason I don’t continue to gain with fast food is because it’s super expensive and if I eat too much of it in a short time span, I won’t crave it anymore.


Ok. What sorts of foods are you eating? What does your fitness regimine look like?
2 years

I can’t break my plateau

Rio67:
Heavy cream works really well smiley right before bed a pint a day in 2 weeks you’ll need new pants I bet

Docp:
I can’t drink heavy cream by itself without gagging. It would also be tough to bring so much heavy cream in the house without raising suspicion (I live with family) idk, maybe I should just go to the store and buy heavy cream+chocolate milk and just down them at the end of the day


Again, if you tend to put on muscle over fat, this may not have the intended effect.

What are you already doing?
2 years

Who are the doms and who are the subs?

Munchies:
Two doms in the bedroom fighting for domination. Welcome to the thunder dome.
🍿

Bru029:
Looks like one of us will become the ultimate đŸ· and the others true dominant nature takes hold. #🎈time


Or a mess of unsexy pain.
2 years

I can’t break my plateau

Rio67:
Heavy cream works really well smiley right before bed a pint a day in 2 weeks you’ll need new pants I bet


Except, there is a catch. Hard gainers (people who put on muscle mass) already use heavy cream to help them put on more muscle mass.

So, if he does that without controlling for anything else, he may just get more muscular.
2 years

For fat art, do you prefer fanart or original characters?

EmilyW:
But what if it is fan art of your original character? Then what?

Oh, I'm so lost today, I think I need some milkshake to help me think.


I mean, if you think about it, just about every fandom is centered around OCs. Star Trek, Star Wars, Avatar: The Last Airbender ... all OCs.

I've got a friend who makes comics. His OCs get fan art all the time.

So, if you own the character and commision someone to draw fat art, it isn't fan art. But if someone is a fan of your work, and draws fat art of them or commissions someone to do it for them, then it is fan art.
2 years

Who are the doms and who are the subs?

DollyXXDimples:
Dom feeder, worship me 😘

Bru029:
Worship
 you have to earn that
 😉 the bigger I get the more I’ll worship smiley


Two doms in the bedroom fighting for domination. Welcome to the thunder dome.
🍿
2 years

I can’t break my plateau

Docp:
I need tips for trying to get past my plateau. I have been stuck around the 250-260 range for months now and I can’t gain anything without loosing it in a week. I build muscle extremely easily which I think is why I can’t gain (as muscle burns more calories). I would prefer not to drink soylent meal replacements to get rid of muscle. So I either want to just be able to bust through my plateau or lose enough muscle to let me get fat without spending so much money on food. Any tips?


Ex-hard gainer here. I am curious to find out what you are already doing. It sounds like you are working against your body, not with it. But I want to be sure.
2 years