Quiver:
I agree with Munchies here, there could easily exist a future where you say “both? Both. Both is good.” Obviously, not recommending doing anything without his actual knowledge and consent. But with a wink in your eye you could say, “you need more protein for all that muscle!” when he thinks he’s full. Because athletes do fully need that calorie intake…. But, you know, so do sweet soft boys ☺️ Hope you had a nice day with him yesterday!
Angy523:
We had a nice day, yes, but I was also disappointed...I expected to see my growing boyfriend, but this time I saw the opposite. He also checked the scale yesterday...he only gained 1kg since last month. I think it was more at some point, but he lost a little those days. He didn't eat that much, idk what's happening...well, maybe because we had a fight just the day before (I also find out he went fur a run after we fight that day...the nice part is that he wasn't able to run as much as he used to). Anyway, he still enjoys when I play with his belly...he let me do this almost all day.
Couple possible things:
Exercise makes him feel good, so he turns to it when he's upset
As much as he may enjoy his new body, he's largely gaining to please you. So when you guys fight, he has doubts and works out.
Either way, I recommend you have a conversation with him. Not about him losing weight. Instead, ask him about how he feels about gaining weight. Say something like "I just wanted to check in with you. I think it's sexy the way you are putting on weight, but I wanted to see how you feel about it."