@Munchies:

*sips coffee - a superior beverage to tea in any known metric *


You have a valid point. I obviously misread some of the dynamic here and I may be on the wrong site for what I'm looking for. Do you have any suggestions for alternative social sites?


Everyone's self worth is tied up in their sexual expression. That's just human nature. But I acknowledge your point. I just expressed a possible scenario where some of the women here (men too, I assume, just to show my inclusive nature) feel pressured to post pics, and are scared to express their opinions on the subject. I think the reaction I got speaks to the accuracy of my supposition.


I do not hide my attraction to bigger women. Everyone who knows me at all well knows I like how bigger women look. I certainly do not consider it a "shameful secret", as many of the people here seem to assume.



If you want to make internet friends without the sexual nature, you can go to any social media platform and make friends based on your non-sexual interests. If you want to make friends based on your sexual interests, don't be shocked if you encounter people being sexual. That's just common sense.

For some people, their sexual expression is tied to their self-worth. However, this is not the case for everyone. I also find it curious that you take issue with the women expressing their sexual nature and not any other gender. Why is it wrong for women to embrace their sexual nature but not anyone else?

The reason everyone is piling on you is that you're slut-shaming.

As to you being open or not about liking bigger women, I was not talking about you specifically. If you re-read the section, I said that it was in response to another user saying that men who do not have a picture of themselves are often shamed by their sexual inclinations.

I was making a general statement about how I empathize with people who do not have a picture of themselves. I then made another general statement about how there are men out there who are ashamed of their sexual inclinations do exist. In other words, I was adding nuance to the topic. And I find it curious that you latched onto that topic the way you did. Either you lack reading comprehension or this *does* apply to you.

I also want to remind you that no one here knows you. We can only go by what you present to us - which isn't making you look good.

It's nice that you are showing skeevy men irl what's what. However, that doesn't do anyone a hill of beans if you are perpetuating a misogynistic mindset online. You came to a fetish website and told women to cover up. Do you realize how silly that sounds?

To answer your question about why people on here like me but do not like you, it has everything to do with our approach.

You slut-shame women and say "Leave those skeevy men alone. I'll treat you better." You're a Nice Guy. No one likes a Nice Guy.

Meanwhile, I'm not looking for anyone. I have a partner I talk about all the time, and he also has an account here. When I'm being horny, I'm talking about this fetish or my partner.

In addition, I'm pretty well-known and well-liked on this site. I mostly post advice, talk about my experiences, and offer general encouragement. The only time I say something that upsets people is when I am pushing back against things such as misogyny, homophobia, transphobia, racism, abusive behaviors, etc.

As a stalking survivor, I do hold some empathy for people who don't post pics of themselves online.

That being said, you are 100% right about guys who are sexually attracted to big women but treat them as a dirty secret.

*sips tea*

You're on a fetish site, man. This is like going into Burger King and getting mad they sell burgers.

Have you considered that maybe these women post these pictures because they like doing this? That maybe their sexual expression isn't tied to their self worth?

If you *really* want to be productive, turn your ire to the skeevy men you mentioned earlier.

It is a sport that requires commitment, but isn't that the case for most sports if you want to do well?

Self love for the win!

I'm not going to say it's super popular, but it's gaining a decent international following.

Skin care is super important. Make sure you use lotion or body oil to keep your skin soft and supple as you grow. Depending of how fat you grow, you're skin will be put through the wringer.

Times a changing. I won't say it's popular in your country, but there are sumo wrestlers in England. They only question is if there is a dojo in your area.

There's a lot of that on this site. I can't tell you how many times I've run into people (mostly feeders) who slide into my DMs to treat me like a play thing because they look at my weight and think I'm chubby. But once I tell them I'm actually muscular, they treat me a lot differently.