What feeders don't grasp
LovesBigMen wrote:
Well, OP, while it's a great thing that you and her share the same kinks, there is more in a relationship than jus the carnal portion of it. I'm a feeder and, while feederism is what gets me going sexually, a relationship wouldn't go anywhere if all a guy and I did was solely sexual. I believe no relationship, being based on a fetish or not would work out in that way.
I second that !
There has to be a real relationship not only based on sex if it is really destined to hold for long ^^.
But i guess it´s a nice way to first contact someone through some real desires so u are at least sure about those things which make your sexlife happy and i guess you will find out if the person itself and her cahracter matches up for a realy love relationship ...:-)
But you can´t know that before even if your relationship is not based at first on sexual desires i guess !
Just be yourself, share what you are as a person without abandoning the feeder part of you, but not being only about that. That way, both of you will grow as a couple.
Of course, there's the chance I'm just spouting crazy talk, as I have never been on a feeder/feedee relationship in real life. Good luck for you both!
Well, OP, while it's a great thing that you and her share the same kinks, there is more in a relationship than jus the carnal portion of it. I'm a feeder and, while feederism is what gets me going sexually, a relationship wouldn't go anywhere if all a guy and I did was solely sexual. I believe no relationship, being based on a fetish or not would work out in that way.
I second that !
There has to be a real relationship not only based on sex if it is really destined to hold for long ^^.
But i guess it´s a nice way to first contact someone through some real desires so u are at least sure about those things which make your sexlife happy and i guess you will find out if the person itself and her cahracter matches up for a realy love relationship ...:-)
But you can´t know that before even if your relationship is not based at first on sexual desires i guess !
Just be yourself, share what you are as a person without abandoning the feeder part of you, but not being only about that. That way, both of you will grow as a couple.
Of course, there's the chance I'm just spouting crazy talk, as I have never been on a feeder/feedee relationship in real life. Good luck for you both!
12 years
Question to female feeders
LovesBigMen wrote:
Myself, I love seeing strained buttons and too-tight shirts, indicating someone has been putting on a few pounds lately. I've had this teacher whose dress shirt's buttons looked like they we're ready to pop off at any time. He had also outgrown belts, having to wear suspenders. My friends didn't quite get why he wore them, but I did. Gosh, what a crush I had on him.
I do agree that, while some belly tease here and there is awesome, the clothes should be clean and in an overall nice state. I don't care much for holey and stained clothes. Unless it's a recent food stain. That I like.
As for playing and teasing a belly in public, that's something I definitely could see myself doing. I'd have to restrain myself from grabbing wobbly bits, since I'm a very grabby person on things I find cute. But I would be careful enough not to embarass or offend the person I'm with, I'd feel terrible for humilliating someone in public. The furthest I'd go it's lots of hugging and feeling.
Myself, I love seeing strained buttons and too-tight shirts, indicating someone has been putting on a few pounds lately. I've had this teacher whose dress shirt's buttons looked like they we're ready to pop off at any time. He had also outgrown belts, having to wear suspenders. My friends didn't quite get why he wore them, but I did.
Gosh, what a crush I had on him.I do agree that, while some belly tease here and there is awesome, the clothes should be clean and in an overall nice state. I don't care much for holey and stained clothes. Unless it's a recent food stain. That I like.
As for playing and teasing a belly in public, that's something I definitely could see myself doing. I'd have to restrain myself from grabbing wobbly bits, since I'm a very grabby person on things I find cute. But I would be careful enough not to embarass or offend the person I'm with, I'd feel terrible for humilliating someone in public. The furthest I'd go it's lots of hugging and feeling.
What you are saying sounds so lovely warm and nice ;-)
would love that if i ever get a belly worth having that done to ;-) ^^
12 years
Exercise...?
AskDrFeeder wrote:
Just make sure the gym buddy isn't a feeder or it could backfire pretty badly.
foxglove wrote:
Or, before I could afford that, I got nearly as good results with a gym buddy.
Or, before I could afford that, I got nearly as good results with a gym buddy.
Just make sure the gym buddy isn't a feeder or it could backfire pretty badly.
Oh hehe what an evil and sexy idea havinf a bit of a belly going to the gym and trying to train with a (beautiful cute and fit personal femal trainer only to get teased until i decide ok you decide what i eat ^^....and get chubbier by the day lol
that would be a so sexy backfiring ^^ hehe
12 years
Little changes, big gains!
wretty222 wrote:
so... i don't know if any of you read those silly magazines like cosmo/elle/marie claire that have diet tips?? i usually don't (diet? PLEASE) but i was flipping through one the other day and noticed their section on how to lose weight... they talk about making SMALL changes to get BIG results. such as cutting out chocolate, switching to diet soda, etc etc.
well... i thought... why can't i apply that philosophy to getting FATTER??? though i love a good ~3000 calorie binge and i love stuffing myself, i've been trying some tactics that are so easy i can do them every day.. and almost forget about them, at least until my next weigh-in
for example- i take the bus to work, so every day this week, i've eaten a normal, small breakfast at home (2 eggs, 2 pieces of buttered toast) and then as i walk to the bus stop i pick up 1-2 donuts at the convenience store- maple glazed fried donuts usually
i eat them in about twenty seconds flat, and it feels like i didn't even eat ANYTHING. it's a small change with a big impact, considering it averages about 350-700 calories (depending if i eat 1 or 2).
it's almost scared me how easy it's been to slip small, fattening things into my daily schedule.
i use cream instead of skim milk in my tea...
i use full fat cheese on my eggs, and butter instead of margarine...
my little secret donut habit of course - which is fun, because i can eat as much as i like at home but the person at the shop of course has no idea that i've already had breakfast.. i think i might try getting 3 doughnuts soon! i love when doughnuts are light and fluffy and fried so they just feel like sweet air- i feel like i could chow down a half dozen if i was told to
i've tried to stop at a fast food place on the way home most days just to pick up even a side dish- such as cheesy potatoes from taco bell or french fries. even if i don't feel up to eating a full burger meal, i get the sides to pack in extra calories.. plus, they're yummy!
do you guys do this- small changes in your diet/activity to make sure the pounds start to pack on??? i think it's working, considering i'm ALMOST to 250 pounds - i'm becoming quite the porker that'll be almost a 100 pound gain in 2 years!
tell me more tips if ya got em
so... i don't know if any of you read those silly magazines like cosmo/elle/marie claire that have diet tips?? i usually don't (diet? PLEASE) but i was flipping through one the other day and noticed their section on how to lose weight... they talk about making SMALL changes to get BIG results. such as cutting out chocolate, switching to diet soda, etc etc.
well... i thought... why can't i apply that philosophy to getting FATTER??? though i love a good ~3000 calorie binge and i love stuffing myself, i've been trying some tactics that are so easy i can do them every day.. and almost forget about them, at least until my next weigh-in
for example- i take the bus to work, so every day this week, i've eaten a normal, small breakfast at home (2 eggs, 2 pieces of buttered toast) and then as i walk to the bus stop i pick up 1-2 donuts at the convenience store- maple glazed fried donuts usually
i eat them in about twenty seconds flat, and it feels like i didn't even eat ANYTHING. it's a small change with a big impact, considering it averages about 350-700 calories (depending if i eat 1 or 2). it's almost scared me how easy it's been to slip small, fattening things into my daily schedule.
i use cream instead of skim milk in my tea...
i use full fat cheese on my eggs, and butter instead of margarine...
my little secret donut habit
of course - which is fun, because i can eat as much as i like at home but the person at the shop of course has no idea that i've already had breakfast.. i think i might try getting 3 doughnuts soon! i love when doughnuts are light and fluffy and fried so they just feel like sweet air- i feel like i could chow down a half dozen if i was told to i've tried to stop at a fast food place on the way home most days just to pick up even a side dish- such as cheesy potatoes from taco bell or french fries. even if i don't feel up to eating a full burger meal, i get the sides to pack in extra calories.. plus, they're yummy!
do you guys do this- small changes in your diet/activity to make sure the pounds start to pack on??? i think it's working, considering i'm ALMOST to 250 pounds - i'm becoming quite the porker
that'll be almost a 100 pound gain in 2 years! tell me more tips if ya got em
thanks for this tip lol even if it´s easy i have never tried this
i will see what happens if itry this for some weeks^^
12 years
