What are the sexiest fatty professions?
I know a fat fitness trainer. She famously won a suit against a big name fitness company for discriminating against her. 
And I've been teaching for 20 years and I had no idea there were FAs perving. Intriguing!
For me, the idea of a big fat male chef is incredibly hot. As is someone I get to see frequently during the day, like an office worker... Yum.
And I've been teaching for 20 years and I had no idea there were FAs perving. Intriguing!
For me, the idea of a big fat male chef is incredibly hot. As is someone I get to see frequently during the day, like an office worker... Yum.
15 years
How do you feel about bdsm?
I disagree. I think there CAN be a very intense overlap between feeding and BDSM. And it can work in lots of different ways. The stereotype is feeder=dom/me, feedee=sub, but if you look back in the threads on the BDSM forum, you'll see one about dom/me feedees, which makes perfect sense to me.
While I'm very conversant with BDSM communities and practices--you can't be a lefty in the SF Bay Area and not have lots of friends in those scenes--I'm not especially interested in more than a bit of light play.
For these reasons--a) it's very movable, and
not everyone feels it--I don't think it's *inherent* in feeding to be overlaid with BDSM. Rather, I think power play is a common part of sexuality: for some, a major component, for others of us, a minor one. And I think that's why it maps so readily onto feeding.
My two bits, Jx
While I'm very conversant with BDSM communities and practices--you can't be a lefty in the SF Bay Area and not have lots of friends in those scenes--I'm not especially interested in more than a bit of light play.
For these reasons--a) it's very movable, and
not everyone feels it--I don't think it's *inherent* in feeding to be overlaid with BDSM. Rather, I think power play is a common part of sexuality: for some, a major component, for others of us, a minor one. And I think that's why it maps so readily onto feeding.My two bits, Jx
15 years
All you can eat buffet??
Here's what I think about all of this:
There are obviously people here who just wanna be about the fantasy, and don't wanna be bothered knowing about who we are and how we live, us fat folk. Drag, but so it goes.
But for people who genuinely want fat partners? I think it would be a great idea to chase the stereotypes out of your heads and learn some things about us. Some of us eat a lot, some of us don't. Some of us are active, some of us aren't. Some of us enjoy being fat, some of us don't. Some of us like gaining, some of us don't. Etc.
No matter how much you think you can tell something from looking at us, I promise you you can't. We're varied, just like any other group. And thank the gods and goddesses for that
There are obviously people here who just wanna be about the fantasy, and don't wanna be bothered knowing about who we are and how we live, us fat folk. Drag, but so it goes.
But for people who genuinely want fat partners? I think it would be a great idea to chase the stereotypes out of your heads and learn some things about us. Some of us eat a lot, some of us don't. Some of us are active, some of us aren't. Some of us enjoy being fat, some of us don't. Some of us like gaining, some of us don't. Etc.
No matter how much you think you can tell something from looking at us, I promise you you can't. We're varied, just like any other group. And thank the gods and goddesses for that
15 years
