Fantasy Feeder

Dumb gaining question

Snivvels:
You should also consider *what* you eat. There is tonnes of research on how the body processes food. (Mostly to help people diet ironically.) Eat some fats fairly obviously. But excess carbs also get stored using different mechanisms, so have excess carbs too. And if you don't worry about your health you can consume products containing Fructose as this gets processed in a different pathway (IIRC.) I believe that in the US at least 'High Fructose Corn Syrup' is added to loads of stuff so is hard to avoid. (Someone correct me if I'm wrong.)

Limit your sugar intake if you feel attached to your teeth, beloved. Dental pain is common in reckless feedees and gainers.

Protein is also important, so don't forget that either.

3 months

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Growth

Kx500:
I have always been a feeder and into larger women.

Nothing has turned me on more than seeing a slim fit woman turn into a big, thick, luscious curvaceous goddess. Her fitness dissapearing under layers of beautiful, soft fat. Seeing an already beautiful larger woman also add some extra sand to her figure has also been a massive turn on.

However in recent times I have been told by a plethora of people that I myself am remarkably underweight and that I need to thicken up myself.

One person told me that I need my own personal feeder! Another began expressing the changes they would love to see to my body and that it would help me become more attractive. My ex girlfriends have all told me they would love to see a thicker version of me.

Having said that I am at odds whether or not to go down this path.

I'm sure many a person on this forum has been in the same position.

Can anyone offer any form of insight into this

I tend to see thin men as delicate. It's like if I'm too rough, I could accidentally break them.

This has not happened, but they do not like it when I pick them up and hold them like a princess.

That said, if you really are underweight, you should put on some weight for health reasons. I used to be underweight. Gaining was the best thing for me. I stopped being cold all the time, I didn't get sick as often, and putting on muscle has made me a power house.

It's great.

You don't need to be fat, but at least on enough to be in the healthy BMI range.

Your bio says you are 123 lbs and 6'2". I am 5'7". I could princess carry you. My biceps are more than likely double yours. I do not say this to mock you. Rather, I am pointing out the severity of the problem.

You need a nutritionist, not a feeder. If you are more than likely missing huge swaths of nutrients and are probably at risk or have health issues from these deficiencies.

3 months

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Dumb gaining question

Ultimateaaron12:
So I’m really skinny with a fast metabolism and desperately want to put on weight I still don’t fully understand how weight gain works but from what research I’ve done it takes about 3,500 calories to gain a pound let’s say I wanted to gain 1 to 2 pounds a month would I have to eat 3,500 a day every day for that month to gain the full pound or will it add onto my weight in a shorter period of time

Maybe not every day, but most days. Just be patient with yourself.

Your bio says you are 23. Do not be shocked if it takes you a few years to start thickening up and your metabolism can take a bit to slow down. Not saying you'll have to wait, but it is a possibility.

3 months

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Struggling with the plus sized body image

Morbidly A Beast:
I’ve never had a body image issue but sometimes I have a very intense frustrating horny desire to become absolutely huge these periods never last long I get really really stuffed once or twice and it never accumulates anything it’s when I least anticipate when I make the biggest strides.

I’m not sure if this relates to what some have expressed here and not sure if it just an aspect to our kink or what even is that

I think that this specific kink an compound body image issues if you aren't careful.

Most feedists have some kind of transformation/body modification kink. We love a good weight gain journey. And for many of us, the journey doesn't have an end.

You hear a lot of feedists constantly dissatisfied with their bodies. And when that isn't properly managed, it can screw up your mentals.

3 months

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Struggling with the plus sized body image

Snivvels:
My Mrs has recently lost a lot of weight and now has a bit of body dysmorphia. It's like her brain needs time to catch up with the change in reality.

Good shout regarding standing in front of the mirror and calling out something good. I'll suggest that to the Mrs.

Sudden body changes can be a struggle for the mentals. One moment, your body looks like it always does, and then the next it doesn't. Your brain has a very strong sense of self for better and for worse.

It is my hope that your wife gets to a point where she loves what she sees in the mirror. In the mean time, I cannot understate how healing it is to hear your partner praise your body as it is.

On the flip side, this is also one of the reasons I warn non-fat people about rapid gains. It's very common to trigger a wicked case of body dysphoria that way. Slow gains give your brain a chance to adjust. It makes the process much less stressful.

3 months

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Struggling with the plus sized body image

ChubuffElly:
Hio, I'm very anxious to write about this but here we go.

For a very long time now I have had difficulty with my own body image. I love gaining, the lifestyle and I'm definitely happier but.

When browsing on here or whereever else I can't stop comparing, pinching and padding myself down. I know this might be a general problem but I was not sure if it fit there since it is very much fat related. Being trans might also add negatively to the issue. I'm worried that no matter how much or where I put on weight it's not going to be enough.

Has anyone else felt this way and has some advice on how to ameliorate this terrible mindset?

Munchies:
I'm not trans, but I have body dysmorphia. For those who don't know what that means, it's when you have a distorted view of what you look like. Mine isn't so bad right now, but it used to be terrible.

I used to be underweight due to having a health issue. I hated how I looked, so I started gaining. However, even when my scale and clothes told me I put on weight, I kept seeing my old underweight body. On top of all that, I was in an abusive situation and couldn't get therapy.

What worked for me was standing naked in front of a mirror and telling myself something I liked about my body. I kept it up until I liked what I saw most days.

Enas:
Munchies i didnt know you suffer from it, im really sorry to hear that :c

I see that you have developed a coping mechanism to deal with it. I thought that perhaps i could help you with sharing some material relevant to it. I havent read them fully (looked the first pages of them) but i think they might prove helpfull because i saw they examine it from a psychoanalytic point. And psychoanalysis is what is needed here more than anything.
(i hope the Links work this time!)

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And here is some explenation of how psychoanalysis can help, in case youre not familiar with it:

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While I appreciate your offer of assistance, it is not needed for me. Maybe OP will get some use out if it

That said, don't offer link unless you know exactly what's in them as a general rule of thumb.

3 months

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Are there any dominant feedees/gainers?

SumoSized:
I wonder if the size of the feedee plays a factor, I'm a switch so my opinion may be biased but I feel more dominant as Im currently more muscular and just a hair over 220, but I could definitely see myself being more submissive as I got bigger and less mobile. I feel like by the time a feedee gets to immobility it would almost be impossible not to be the submissive one as your entire life would be dependent on your feeder. Though those are just my thoughts

It depends on the dynamic. If you've ever seen an episode of My 600 Lbs. Life where the person does not want to cooperate with losing weight, you'll see it's not unheard of for the immobile one to boss everyone else around

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What i expect from heavy cream?

Shereds1988:
If you consume a large amount of ice cream in a short period of time, you may gain weight quickly, but it also depends on your body's absorption. www.nutritionaspect.com/drinking-heavy-cream space waves

This is funny to me. This article praises all these things about heavy cream while emphasizing you should only have moderate amounts

3 months

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Struggling with the plus sized body image

ChubuffElly:
Hio, I'm very anxious to write about this but here we go.

For a very long time now I have had difficulty with my own body image. I love gaining, the lifestyle and I'm definitely happier but.

When browsing on here or whereever else I can't stop comparing, pinching and padding myself down. I know this might be a general problem but I was not sure if it fit there since it is very much fat related. Being trans might also add negatively to the issue. I'm worried that no matter how much or where I put on weight it's not going to be enough.

Has anyone else felt this way and has some advice on how to ameliorate this terrible mindset?

I'm not trans, but I have body dysmorphia. For those who don't know what that means, it's when you have a distorted view of what you look like. Mine isn't so bad right now, but it used to be terrible.

I used to be underweight due to having a health issue. I hated how I looked, so I started gaining. However, even when my scale and clothes told me I put on weight, I kept seeing my old underweight body. On top of all that, I was in an abusive situation and couldn't get therapy.

What worked for me was standing naked in front of a mirror and telling myself something I liked about my body. I kept it up until I liked what I saw most days.

3 months

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