Become morbidly obese? live a normal life?

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m not saying this to be mean or to be rude or discourage you at all, it’s just an observation but you seem to be posting the same questions over and over again and the answers aren’t really going to change man.

Karenjenk:
Thats ok if they dont change.
just move on if what you read doesnt interest you. Is your life that busy that you are angry that you waisted a minute a similiar post?
you and Munchies are two of the biggest downers on here.


Love how I'm not even involved, and yet I'm still mentioned.

Pray tell, my love. How am I a downer? How is Morbidly a downer?
3 months

Question for vagina owners

MickRidem:
I have a female friend who is too embarrassed to ask herself, so on her behalf I'll paraphrase her question:

"I hit my highest weight and wanted to bring it down a little. I started keto this summer. I've been finding my crotch having more burning sensations. I talked to my doctor and it's not a yeast infection. I did some research and I'm wondering if it's rubbing from being heavier and more sweat down there, or if the keto diet is changing my vaginal PH balance. Or both? Using Penaten to help, but this is awful. Does anyone else experience this?"

Any experience you might have had would be appreciated.

LuvsChub04:
Um... why are you asking for a 'friend' shouldn't the friend be asking...yet ya chub rub six


Hun, the situation has been resolved months ago. Calm your tits.
3 months

Question for vagina owners

SumoSized:
True this is a pretty chill corner of the Internet. But my god the other social media sites are a warzone right now


And I stay faaaaaaaaar away.
3 months

Necroposting question

SumoSized:
I feel like if you're just continuing the conversation it's fine. Even if half the accounts previously in the conversation are now dormant, it lets the conversation carry on and maybe new people will add their opinions to the mix.
Necroposting gets problematic when people just do it just to horny post. The relationship forum regularly gets bombarded with guys (and it's always guys) spamming a post created by a woman months ago. Hell I saw one the other day where the original post was long deleted but guys were still commenting on it thirsting after getting a F feeder.


That happens a lot, lol. But I think that, for some of those, they think someone else is the OP or they only read the title.
3 months

Question for vagina owners

Dabrow1991:
What an odd way to describe women

SumoSized:
Not all women have vaginas and not every person who has a vagina is a woman. Op may have been referring to a woman in his post but he was seeking advice and a trans man or a nonbinary person who has that particular body part may have first hand experience that could help the situation. There's no point in excluding them from the conversation.
Besides it seems like the issue was resolved, I don't know why you're digging it back up

Munchies:
Facts. Plus, seeing that Mick is gay, it makes sense for him to use more inclusive language.

It's always weird when people necropost to stir up shit.

SumoSized:
Sadly after the last US presidential election people have been a lot more emboldened to stir shit when it comes to gender and sexuality. Obviously this has always been an issue online, but it seems like there's been an uptick in it since he's back in the Whitehouse


Well, they are welcome to try, but it won't end well. Not only will there be community backlash, but admin will ban bigots.
3 months

Necroposting question

Karenjenk:
Is commenting on an older post a bad thing? A good thing? Just a thing?
Maybe someone is trying to stir up an issue where no issue exists


Any time someone tries to stir up shit when there were no problems, it is a bad thing.
3 months

Question for vagina owners

Dabrow1991:
What an odd way to describe women

SumoSized:
Not all women have vaginas and not every person who has a vagina is a woman. Op may have been referring to a woman in his post but he was seeking advice and a trans man or a nonbinary person who has that particular body part may have first hand experience that could help the situation. There's no point in excluding them from the conversation.
Besides it seems like the issue was resolved, I don't know why you're digging it back up


Facts. Plus, seeing that Mick is gay, it makes sense for him to use more inclusive language.

It's always weird when people necropost to stir up shit.
3 months

Chat update 27/01/2025 - report bugs here

Hiccupx:
Yes, we'll be working to iron our these glitches over the coming days. The chat has been completely re-written, so the code's in much better order.


This is exciting
3 months

Have a job outside the home when very big

Bigwideland:
I am interested in find if members have held down a job at an external to the home work place, if more than 500 or 600 lbs. What job industry full or part time, what was your max weight in that job, any particular restrictions or methods to make it work?


I used to work in a call center with a 500 lbs lady. Lovely woman.

As far as I am aware, her only accommodation was getting a special chair. She could still get around on her own - albeit very slowly.
3 months

Necroposting question

JN_TumLover56:
So here’s my two cents on the matter.

I think that it really depends on the subject post and what the intention is. Like let’s say for example the thread about why so many people are mad about BP/FA movements, it maybe an old topic and the OP is long but gone… but the overall subject is still very important to be worthy discussed. Especially if someone wants to say something that’s still within the “theme” and actually has something that’s pretty thought out, then so be it. But if there’s a new updated 2025 (and onward) discussion about a certain topic, then that’s where I feel like a fresh post would be necessary.

Of course it could also be because some people have been waiting to comment on something that they have been wanting for awhile now but couldn’t due to life getting in the way or having that mental blockage to think clearly to write/type something. I mean I could’ve said something when this particular thread was still fresh but it ended up taking me 5 days to write something because of everything I just said above! It ain’t always fun when you work a physical job that sometimes takes a lot out of you. It’s especially true when you get worked up and stressed about something that happened causing you to can’t concentrate on knowing what you’re going to write.

Now I can see the annoying part when someone bumps an old post without taking any effort. Sometimes I wonder if they thought it was an interesting idea for everyone to see the old comments for a future reference?? I could be wrong, but that’s what I think.

Finally I’ve seen some people bump an old post in the Personal Ads section. I get that if the OP is still available/looking I would imagine that they would want to do so, that way their post doesn’t get lost in the void. But if it’s someone commenting on a Personal Ad topic that was a decade ago then yeah… they are clearly wasting their time.


Makes sense.

Personally, I don't consider making a comment on a 5 day old post necroposting. Now, sometimes, I will see a comment that I missed from 3 or 4 days ago responding to something I said.

I usually respond to those unless the person is talking smack and the thread is long buried. No point in doing that, imo. That's just being messy.
3 months