Why are people so angry at fat acceptance movements on the internet?

Baby Princess 23:
Hey I dont really know if this topic belongs here but I am so confused why some people on the internet, making videos or comments, on how they hate fat people.
Everything now is just "gloryfing obesity". When bigger people share what they eat in a day, the comments are full of hate just cause they ate a piece of white bread.

I would love to hava a little discussion on this and mabye you can share some thoughts on why the online culture is so strange nowadays


The internet is a megaphone for hate, and shopping.
1 year

What can ff do to make you come here more often?

BBWcreator82:
Charge a dollar for every story.

It would encourage the talented writers to write more and an better stories.

Split each dollar. Half goes for the site, half for the author. If people learned that if they are talented enough they can make some cash they might come back as well!

Sure the site is great, but people do put a lot of effort into it with writing, stories, videos and pictures and they too never ask for anything in return.

The site expects everyone to pay for stuff and it generally treats people as the product. You want to talk to more people, pay more, you want to do this and that with more people, pay more.

It's not a lot of money, sure, but it's like paying for a lottery ticket. You might get lucky but more often than not its a bust.

I would think that if you had a chance to make some money for the stuff you put into the site, you'd really want a chance to try it and I imagine lots of people would come here.

Of course there would have to be a standard of quality for the stories you paid for vs the ones that would remain free.

This could be a great help to the site and the community both.

People aren't willing to pay for the big upgrades. Maybe they'll be willing to support their favorite authors instead.

Payments could be made once a month or something like that.

But quality would be extremely important. Who ever controls that would have a heck of a lot of work to do

FF needs some kind of an edge if it is to keep on living.

This could help out.

Providing we could get people to part with their dollars.

:-D

Also, Video Chat. I've never been to a website that made you pay to view other people's cams in a chat room besides this one.

I think bringing that back would make people happy.

Also, games. We literally need something to do a reason to come back so maybe we can look into making a casual E-sport FF team for Mobas and what not across all the platforms to meet once or twice a week, that could be fun to organize.

Or make our own RPG system. I used to RP in a place called Dragonsmark. I know Role playing is popular here. Maybe some organization on that front. People would show up more if they had a character to maintain.

Community projects. Not sure for ideas on this yet but I think we need to try to include as many as we can on community wide projects..maybe a movie, or releasing another book. I know we did something like that but I don't know how it went.

Maybe themed events. Different months, different things to do.

Participation is the heart of any community and if we only come on here to go into the chat room and act like robots, it's all pretty pointless.

Also, put the shouts back on the main page like it used to be.

I don't know why they were ever hidden to their own separate page but I think that was a bad idea.

MrOverstuffed:
Literally every word you said I completely 100% agree with! This site feels difficult sometimes to remember to return to, but with everything you’re suggesting, this site would be a community hub possible! Like a version of new grounds or something. I love the idea of paying creators for the work they do as long as its quality. I personally haven’t paid a penny to the overpriced upgrades, I’m not on here enough for them to even be worth it, but if I knew creators (of games, stories, etc) would be getting that money, I’d pay a subscription or something in a heartbeat!
I also love the idea of games! So far any feedism games are porn related, but I can’t express how obsessed I am with the idea of a regular normal fun adventure filled feedism game that was just enjoyable and not arousing.
Literally anything to bring the community together would be a huge win, and you’re talking about everything that would make it all work! That’s all I’ve ever wanted for this community too


If you subscribe using the link on a premium story or pic/video the creator gets a cut. The renewal cut is total crap, though, so if you really want to support content creators, don’t let it auto renew. You can support one author you like or spread the money around month to month.
1 year

New relationship

Chinchilla:
Thank you everyone for your advices !

Well, some things happened since my last post. When I went to see him, I brought with me a bag of chouquettes. When we started eating them, my boyfriend handed me another one each time I finished one, it felt like he was feeding me and I truly enjoyed it ! Then the next day, we were eating candies and suddenly, it really surprised me a lot, he told me to open my mouth and put the candy in it !

After this, I really thought that he might have guessed what my fetish was, but of course I couldn't talk to him. But when I went home and saw the posts of everyone here, I sent him a message. I told him that it made me feel shame, but in a way I still wanted him to know because it's an important part of me, and I just didn't want to hide it to him.

So I tried to give him clues so he could guess, but he didn't find. He didn't know after all. However, playing this game made me gain some confidence and finaly I told him everything, in a way that it didn't make me feel as ashamed as I thought I would be. And... He accepted it ! His only concern is about health issues, but for the weight gain he doesn't care as long as I'm happy. He reassured me, telling me that it changed nothing to our relationship (that was one of my concerns).

I'm so happy for having told him, it's thanks to you all. Before posting here I had decided to never tell anyone. And now that he knows, I don't feel as ashamed as before, I wasn't expecting this. Now I can get fat in peace haha


That’s very nice!
1 year

I don't care if i get banned.

Angelette:
Thanks everyone. I did talk to 988 weeks ago. I might again because work has gotten worse for me. I wish to quit my job right now. It makes me miserable.

MarshmallowMinotaur:
I didn’t see if you mentioned having a doctor but if you do they can very likely certify you for temporary state disability. I occasionally have to do it for my back (failed lumbar fusion). Depending on how long you’ve worked and paid into the fund by employer withholding you could be eligible for a couple of months. No promises but it’s something to consider. Contact your state’s unemployment office.

Angelette:
Thank you but I am not physically disabled. I hope your back healed though. 🙂


It’s possible to get FMLA leave for mental health conditions, but you would need to be working with a doctor who could write the letter. It is possible though.
1 year

Should be a place to easly report scammers on here

Would it be helpful if users could report individual posts or threads? The spam bots that have been coming through lately are all over the place, and you can report the account but not the posts. On the other hand, I can see people reporting slap fights and stuff like that and just making a lot of work for the admins.
1 year

Recipe suggestions?

FaireShade:
My fiance brought home 15 lbs of Casey's maple pumpkin spice cappuccino mix. Obviously mix it with milk for drinks, but what else should I put it in?


Vanilla or tapioca pudding? That’s a lot of cappuccino mix
1 year

Monetization

Abyssal Mind:
I'm considering trying to make some money from this hobby/passion, I'm very naive on how I'd go about it. I have low self-esteem so I've been scared to try because I'm worried that I'm in over my head or that I'm not good enough. I'm not necessarily trying to go premium but if it's a good start then I'll try it out, otherwise selling my stories in general might go well for me.

I have a hard time selling myself so any help or tips would be appreciated, I've never done anything like this before and I want to try to take the next big step.

Always Grateful, A.M.


Pros about premium stories:

1) It’s very easy to do, just takes pay pal and a form of ID

Cons:

1) don’t expect to make a lot of money, at least not quickly. A few bucks might trickle in from renewals down the road, but not a lot. Some premium stories don’t earn any money. Some do!

2) you’re restricting who can read your stuff, it’s a much smaller audience, fewer likes and comments, etc.
1 year

🦇november story club - a pleasurable hunt🦇

November is coming to an end if there are any suggestions or volunteers for December
1 year

I often come off too strong too soon and scare the other person away; please help...


Letters And Numbers:
Not trying to be rude or dismissive, but maybe a fetish website is not the right place to learn how to express yourself online. Why not start with a space that’s about hobbies or something less heavy?

Estil17:
Because I do feel passionately about my eh, special interests in my profile (I don't know if "fetish" is exactly right). I already have a couple of forums I frequent for my "normal" hobbies.


My guess would be that trying to learn how to communicate one-on-one with people on a fetish website is doing it on hard mode. Just get used to the idea that people get cold feet and disappear off this site, or will think you’re into weird sex shit in a different way than they’re into weird sex shit and get spooked. Or that fundamentally there are people on here because they can’t have this fetish be a part of their real life and don’t want to blur those lines. The word fantasy is right in the title.

I guess my one other tip would be that you’ve made your grief (which I’m very sorry for, I can’t even imagine) the main character across half a dozen threads this morning. That’s heavy stuff, man. Posting in the forum is fun, post more often about stuff that isn’t always so heavy. You don’t need to hide your loss but it doesn’t have to be so up front. I know it’s harder around the holidays. (You can post in the Story of the Month threads whenever you like! They’re nice!)
1 year

I often come off too strong too soon and scare the other person away; please help...


Munchies:
I have ASD and PTSD. I struggled a lot with relationships because of it. So I took a 5 year dating hiatus to work on myself. I struggled to understand social cues, so I learned what they were and how to communicate effective to smooth out misunderstandings. I have PTSD, so I learned healthy coping mechanisms as well as dealing with my trauma.

I'm not 100% better. More like 60% to 80% depending on the day. And I am always trying to improve.

It doesn't sound like you are ready to date yet. It's not because of your mental illness. Instead, it doesn't sound like you've learned to self regulate.

Estil17:
Oh I'm nowhere near the "dating" part yet...for right now I'm just trying to find to get good at the online part!


Not trying to be rude or dismissive, but maybe a fetish website is not the right place to learn how to express yourself online. Why not start with a space that’s about hobbies or something less heavy?
1 year