justanotherfa wrote


"Ugh?" What do you mean by, "Ugh?" If this thread is not something that interests, intrigues, or appeals to you. . .why did you feel the need to post a snarky comment? Yes, you're entitled to your opinion, as we all are. But having the "right," or ability, to speak your mind, does not necessarily mean you should. What exactly was gained by expressing your distaste/disdain, aside from maybe feeling smugly superior at someone else's expense? I'm sorry, but I just don't get it. Coming across gratuitous, needlessly negative responses in an otherwise interesting, enjoyable thread (at this site, of all places) can be like a slap in the face, and just - pointlessly unpleasant.

So, why? What's the point? Why inject petty meanness, however slight, into Fantasy Feeder? Don't we all face enough hostility "out there" for our preferences and/or appearance, so that this is a little oasis of acceptance & comradery? Why pollute it with negative vibes when there's no valid reason to do so?