Even though I prefer larger women, thin women are OK. However, I am not the least attracted to women body builders. So, it is nice when they soften up and look so much more feminine.
7 years
I think in the non-feedee world, people keep their small clothes forever because they are "going to lose weight," but when they lose weight they throw their large clothes away immediately.
7 years
Tell her about FF, so she can find a boyfriend like you.
8 years
Sometimes people do not know your gender until they look. Or perhaps you posted something, and they want to know where you are from, etc. It does not mean if someone looks at your profile they are romantically interested in you.
8 years
If someone is 130 and they think about getting to 300, it's frightening. But if you do it 10 or 20 pounds at a time, it's just a few more pounds.
8 years
I get a kick out of it on Feabie. A few of the ladies tell the men not to write to them unless they give them money. How rude! Can you imagine if a store did that. "Welcome to WalMart. Get out of here if you are not going to spend money."
8 years
My ex-wife was complaining that she was now a 50 inch waist and was complaining that she would have to order some larger pants. I had such an erection in my pants, that it was impossible for her not to notice, and she got really mad that I was excited rather than sympathetic.
8 years
Don't forget that people lose muscle and fat, but usually regain only fat. That is going to change the way someone looks. Also people don't lose from the same places they gain.
8 years
johnxyz:
Get another job. You would not be doing yourself or the community any favors by being unable to do your job safely. (assuming you want to gain a significant amount of weight)
alabamakmg:
Original post is gone, but let me assure there are plenty of fat firefighters. I passed the CPAT test ( urban firefighting physical ability test) and most years get my red card with an arduous WCT ( 3 mile hike in 45 min wearing a 45 lb pack or vest) at 6-3 and 270 though the stair master about killed me. ( I'm a Vol FF, the CPAT isn't required)
However as you get older if you don't pay attention to your health, you are putting your self at huge risk. As a career, it's a fairly sedentary job until you put on turnouts and and a SCBA, add a 50 lb hose pack and start climbing stairs.
I totally believe that anyone of any size should be able to hold any job they are qualified for. I am assuming that most fat firefighters are naturally fat, and are not trying to gain.
But if someone is trying to gain, especially if they are trying to get as fat as they can as quickly as they can, being a fire fighter may not be the best career choice. As long as they can do their job and not put anyone at risk, that is fine.
8 years
Why not post all of this in the personals section?
8 years
