We usually all eat the same meal together while at home. It is really kind of fun to watch my wife’s appetite get close to mine as far as finishing as much food as I do. Being almost a foot taller than her and knowing she probably has eaten more than I have throughout the day already and probably had more snacks.

One thing that is kind of a tough thing that I have to reprimand the teenage kids....primarily my daughter is when I do the grocery shopping g and buy an obscene amount of Ben n Jerry’s pints for my wife......making sure that my daughter knows they are only for Mom. She sometimes complains and say’s “but there are 8 of them”.......I say don’t eat those please. And they are usually done easily in a week and a half to two weeks. The daughter doesn’t touch them. When they are in the freezer my wife just can’t resist them......”the girl loves her some Ben n Jerry’s”

Yep....Closet gainer myself the two times I gained a lot. It was a secret from my wife and kind of what drove me to intentionally gain was feeling so aroused by the thought of my wife teasing me, scolding me or even having an intervention as I got pretty big and into it at the end. Turned out she only commented twice near my fattest and it was after she was slightly intoxicated and it was flirtatious and endearing as if she liked it. In fact I think she definitely liked me Fatter.....but I don't now for sure the reason or the combination of reasons. She ended up over feeding me and I just ate it all trying to prove to her I was a good fatty trying to get her to comment....instead my seconds turned into her stuffing thirds on my plate and making huge bowls of ice cream for me when I didn't even ask for them etc etc.

Early on when I was only dating my wife I let her now that I wouldn't mind her gaining some extra weight....and then I took it a little deeper as she gained.....and then when she became what she called "FAT" she called me crazy for liking all the Fat she gained....and I stood up for all us FA's and said I wouldn't mind you gaining even more. Obviously this was all very little in the big picture in my eyes......meaning even though she knows I like her to be heavier or the look of heavier women.....I think she probably thinks it is way less than I would desire for her to get......I mean she thought she was absoutely huge at 200 Lbs. .....where I would love to see her at 300 or even 350 Lbs.

Ok....I am chi I g in late to the party....7 months late.

My wife as she gains Weight seems not only more enthusiastic about sex but doesn’t mind throwing around her weight more in bed. I remember back when she was dieting and felt very thin to me... (she wasn’t really thin but definitely a lot thinner) while on top she would hold her belly from bouncing or jiggling even though it was so much smaller in size. As she gained back all her weight and then some .....her belly was actually big enough to get in the way and she seemed to be much more comfortable with it bouncing, jiggling even slapping into me (with clapping sounds) as she really started going at it. It was almost as if her dieting made her more concerned, reserved and overall less confident in bed. While she is heavier it’s almost as if she is allowing herself to just enjoy anything she wants and not be reserved.....and that certainly goes without saying her appetite and eating. Big appetite for food makes her nicer, happier, more vulnerable in such a cute way and less reserved and much more sexed up.

I myself as I gained weight because I am so into this fetish.....found that it only increased my sex drive. I pretty much was horny all the time. Whether I was surprised by how fat my gut was getting or how much I Could actually eat.....both of those things fed off of each other just making me even more horny. I did however become more submissive which I didn’t ever think I would be.....but I actually liked it because I had always been the initiator of sex between my wife and I. At this time not only I was gaining Intentionally as mentioned several times in other posts.....at first to get done reaction from my wife...either teased, humiliated or scolded for gaining a big gut....but then I became fixated on myself gaining almost more than my wife gaining. Which by the way during this time she was gaining along with me.....it was tough for her not to...it was a mutual gaining relationship except I was intentionally gaining and I think she was actually trying to make me get fatter as well without really ever saying so.....and she was fattening g up pretty good herself. The fate I g meals she was cooking us were doing a number on both of us.

She was so sexed up and initiated sex almost 4-5 nights a week as a opposed To once a week before we both were getting Fat together. Like I said she Became accustomed to me not doing as much missionary (not only because our bellies started getting in the way quite a bit) but I was lazy and submissive and after giving her oral I was usually so bloated, fast and stuffed I would roll over on my back and she would climb her huge ass, big thighs and bloated belly on top of me and start riding me while she palmed my huge gut....which she s need to love.....what she thought she created all on her own.

My wife also enjoys food a lot and has the biggest sweet tooth. In fact she sometimes sacrifces eating all her meal just so she has room for desert.

She tends to feel sick if she over eats or eats to much. But what I have found out is that she needs to slowly increase her food intake and amount she eats over a lengthy period of time and then after a long while she is not only eating double the amount at meals but still having room for deserts and most of the time multiple deserts. It's all about stretching out the stomach to not have that discomfort or full feeling. Once her stomach is stretched out is when she really starts to put on weight.....and at this stage it is hard to eat to much less than what the stomach wants and is used to. It's the same as when the stomach is not stretched it is hard to increase how much you eat and it is easy to keep the weight off or from piling on. My wife doesn't want or try to put on weight....her appetite just increases over various times of the year and she can't hold back piling on some weight.

From my experience though the best way to make someone or yourself a bottomless pit if they are willing. Stuff yourself with food you like and fattening stuff always allowing maximum carbs and sugar.....then what I found was the real secret....once you feel so stuffed from eating in the day......drink several milkshakes or you may even want to start with just several big glasses of milk. For me it is easy to get down even after I feel I couldn't eat another bite.....inn fact it actually settles my stomach a bit and you will have the biggest bloated belly you could imagine. It's definitely something you have to be determined to do......and after 2 weeks I guarantee your appetite will increase at least double if not triple. After the next couple weeks you are not even thinking about trying to eat more .....you will actually just NEED to eat more because your stretched stomach will require it....and you will get hunger pangs if you don't eat as much or more than what your stomach is used to now. I got to a stage after this stuffing all the time....that even though I had been eating all day huge amounts I would come home for diner and my wife would make an amazing home made Lasagna and have the hugest plate laid in front of me for dinner.....I wasn't even hungry in the slightest but the minute I started eating I just kept bringing fork full after fork full to my mouth and before I knew it I had three huge helpings. This is at the point where one can really get Fat.

Recap: I would say in the first few weeks after one is completely full from eating at the end of the day to consume dairy liquids...this will help stretch the stomach and if always done continue to stretch. If one can't consume dairy lot's of water at the end of the day of stuffing will help stretch stomach but just won't add the extra calories at the same time.

Great description! I was wondering my wife and I have never been on a cruise.....I have heard that most people gain a bunch of weight while on them.....but you bring a new thought to me. Even after the cruise with all the over eating it will continue after you get home because your appetite will increase so much. It would be really cool to see my wife come back from a long cruise knowing she gained a bunch of weight and thinking....Ok ...I will go on a few walks and lose some of this weight in a few weeks to a month but the reality is her appetite will be so much bigger that the Lbs. she gained on the cruise will actual double or triple in a a few months after.

How much do you think someone could gain on a longer cruise 10-15 days?

How long was the one you were on that jump started your weight gain?

I have heard....don't know if they are tall tales....but on a longer cruise.... a woman not even fitting into the same clothes she brought on the cruise....not even being able to get them on as toward the end of the cruise and needing to buy bigger clothes on the cruise ship....just wondering your thoughts....if that could be true?

Some say some male feedees were originally frustrated male feeders who couldn't find someone to share it with.
Mutual gaining/fattening is an even deeper niche.



This is what kind of happened to me. My wife is a foodie and loves sweets......she tends to gain from this alone if she doesn't workout or otherwise try to contain her eating. Working out gives her the license to eat what she wants and sometimes get a bit out of control (which I love).
WHen she doesn't workout and her appetite takes over she can pack on the lbs. pretty quickly other maintain a curvier softer figure with working out.
After 3 pregnancies back to back to back.....she blew up nicely becoming what I envision as my dream girl..."ex cheerleader with a Beautiful face, shorter at 5' 3" great voluptuous body that gets Fat. That's basically what she became and I was so content and happy. While it did take her several years to lose the weight but kept some.....I all of a sudden craved for her to be back to her heaviest weight....if not just to gain a little more again. This would happen in 5-10 Lb. increments and then her lose it again for the next several years. I accidentally put on a belly myself and developed a sweet tooth out of no where and when I finally noticed my own gain decided to intentionally gain to see how big I could get.....and I was interested in my wife teasing me, scolding me or discussing how Fat I had gotten. I do believe that I had this interest because of the void of weight gain with my wife. Crazy thing was as I was intentionally stuffing and bloating myself all day for several weeks with tons of calories and fattening foods I would come home looking 6-7 months pregnant and not a single peep from my wife. This drove me to increase my efforts since she seemed to not even notice. After about a month and stuffing myself all day with massive amounts of food, snacks and deserts I would come home and my wife would have a massive portion of a fattening meal of lasagna or the like....an before I would even be finished she would grab my plate and plop on seconds that were usually even bigger than the first massive plate full. This was kind of a struggle for me because I had been stuffing all day and didn't even feel hungry but I wanted so much to get a reaction or comment from her I persisted through and finished everything. This behavior continued both on my part and hers...she would stuff me with fattening dinners and always refill my plate before I could say no and then after my second plate was about to be cleared she would come over with the pot or pan and say just finish the rest of this off so we don't have left overs and it would usually be like a whole third massive plate. She also would then bring over a huge bowl of ice cream as I resided to the couch where we would settle in and watch television munching away. The great thing was that I only picked up over time was because I was so concentrated on my eating and gaining all of a sudden and trying to show her what a Fat pig I have become to get some remarks or teasing from her......was that she was also eating seconds and enjoying pints of Ben n jerrys almost every night and she was gaining as well.....although she wasn't gaining nearly as much as I was because I was doing this all day and all night.

So ....this kind of sealed the fact that a Mutual Gaining relationship was my ideal.....even though we didn't verbally discuss it like a fetish. I was the one intentionally gaining and I think she thought she was being a good wife and fattening up her man. Sex was absolutely the best ever and her hands always seemed to find a way to rest and touch my massive "Muscle Chub Gut" that looked like it was 15 months pregnant by this point.

Very true.....definitely!

I appreciate your response. It seems there are so many differences and similarity's with regard to this Fetish (Desires, appetite, how easily or fast one gains, how much one appreciates on themselves or others etc. etc.)

The fatter my wife gets....I just keep loving giving her oral more and more.

Her puffy FUPA now and her huge belly crease with her slightly hanging soft Gut to move out of the way jiggling with her huge soft thunder thighs spread and bouncing with ecstasy as I slowly lick and then rythmically speed up.....Her fatter outer lips swell even more as she gets closer to orgasm....and then finally explodes sending gyrations and ripples through her Fattened soft belly and thighs and she remains breathing heavy for many minutes.

This is almost a pre requisite before intercourse as she comes over after her shower and gets into bed with the intoxicating aroma of Dove Soap permeating off of her skin and filling the room as she then looks at me as she climbs naked into bed and seductively spreads her massive thighs for me to assume position.

This is a Great question:

Talking about and showing how big you want to get for him....while being on top of him cow girl you can show with your hands how big you want your belly, butt and hips to get for him. You can use a soft but serious voice and then ask him if he would like that and then hold his hands and help him show you how big he would like for your belly to get with your hands still on his. Gently ask him won't I be to big and heavy for you at that size? I am sure he will say NO...and be completely brick hard....and then say "I will be so heavy and big and Fat you will be my prisoner underneath me and you won't be able to even move and I will just keep making love to you all night....and if you complain that I am to heavy I will bounce up and down more and more until I am so out of breath because I will be your huge Fatty and so out of shape and then just lay on top of you where you feel all of my luscious skin and Fat engulfing you and breathing so heavily.

Whoops...I may have got kind of carried away....but this would work on me every time. Also...this kind of seducing with weight gain talk is so Hot.