My wife did the same thing when I grew a noticeably big gut....her hands always seemed to be touching or grazing it.

Damn....just when I thought I was sort of normal with this exciting sexual arousal thing called loving Fat and weight gain.

It is kind of true....not many people would think we were totally normal especially if we let out our totally true kinks with weight gain other than diluting them down so much. For example my wife knows I like her heavier and like seeing her gain weight.....which we don't discuss all the time...but she knows and she already thinks is kind of weird .....but if I told her I would love for her to get to 300 or 350 Lbs. (gaining 100-150 Lbs.) ......she may not only think I am really weird but .....well you get the picture.

That's why this board is pretty cool to discuss our totally real feelings with regard to this interest of weight gain.

So through reading stories you have changed to liking the mutual gaining stories better than even the female weight gain stories?

GrowingLoveHandles:
You make some great point, voluptuouslover (love the name!).

One other thing is that in many cases people are just too darned polite to even say anything. Weight gain in our culture is still a somewhat taboo subject. If someone does say something, they will either be someone close who will mention it in private. Or they will be the kind of loud-mouth say-it-all sort (think the Kramer character in Seinfeld) who will just blurt it out in a crowd. What happened to me was an old woman from my church who hadn't seen me for a while. At potluck after church, she practically screamed "Wow! You've really gotten fat!" And others around kind of skulked off in embarrassment. I had no idea what to say![/quote]

Thank....and I love your name as well!

On the same subject.....I myself as a FA and very into weight gain....the other day when I was at a clients office happened to see another employee there and said to my woman client...wow I didn't even recognize her (completely talking about how much heavier the employee was I guess in a caddy type way....but simply bringing up the obvious)....My woman client said yea I had to do a double take myself earlier because she seems to have gained a lot of weight all of a sudden. The FA that I am....and kind of wanting to keep the conversation going...said "She look's good, she was much to skinny before"....when she probably went from 140 lbs. before to probably 180 Lbs. now based on my keen observation. My lady client who is pretty big really didn't say much after....but I assume she probably knew I liked women heavier at that point.

So.....people notice and talk behind the back more than confronting out in the open but it isn't always bad things....they just notice. Also, it seems like that physical changes are always kind of shocking and create something to discuss......even if it was a skinny guy who now becomes muscular or a heavier woman that loses weight....people notice and are somewhat in shock of the physical changes and talk....mainly behind the back if it is weight gain though.....more out in the open if it is weight lose or muscular gain......just being politically correct.

PinkyDear:
Soooo true.

I like to be stuffed until pain/pleasure and I like to see how much I can eat. Over time I've just been able to eat more and more. What most folks consider a meal feels like a snack to me.[/quote]


This last line is so true......and sexy.
My wife who has always had a sweet tooth but wasn't a big eater seemed to sacrifice finishing meals to save room for her "sweet tooth" and deserts. In the past year and a half that has kind of changed and she has also developed a bigger appetite...not to mention a much more fattening appetite. She would rarely eat a delicious fattening burger and if she did could never come close to finishing it.....but now she seems to eat delicious fattening burgers at least 2-3 times per week and I have even seen her eat 2 for a meal along with other fixings.....so I not only love seeing this but it is like you said what used to be to big of a meal for her is only a teaser these days. Once that stomach is stretched out the flood gates open with being able to really pack some food and calories away. Oh and by the way it has done very Beautiful things to her figure with this appetite increase in the past year and a half.

I think that everyone eventually notices someone that was slender who starts to get pudgy or chunkier. But it all depends on the various people you are speaking about and your personality and relationship with them.

Say for example a co worker....probably won't say a thing especially if your personality doesn't warrant open dialogue about these sort of things in the general sense. A friend depending on how close might jokingly mention something. A family member may take notice and mention something only if it becomes a significant difference and usually because they think it may be health related not intentional.

Keep in mind everyone notices changes and even if they bring a change up doesn't necessarily mean it is bad some might even like it or think you look better with the added weight even if they don't mention it. Also....the initial shock of weight gain that people notice tends to go away or at least it becomes normalcy and not even as big a deal with more weight gained unless of course you end up doubling or tripling g your weight. Keep in mind this is just a tiny hurdle for the pleasure you will probably get with the freedom, discovery and sense of own terms with gaining weight. Like I mentioned after that initial shock of your initial gain and body changing people won't even notice or comment on the
next 30+ lbs. you gain.

Yes I know what you are talking about. Stuffing for many days increases your appetite so much that you can't even get full on normal amounts of food. Also....after a while it becomes a vicious cycle of stuffing and having all your energy going to digest all the food making you sleep and sluggish until your ready to stuff again....it is easy to become Fat this way.

Kinda sorta......I have made the mistake for a few women being pregnant when they were not.

Increasing appetite:

Stuff many days per week for 2 weeks.....try eating fast till you can't eat anymore, then drink a couple fattening milkshakes (which should still go down easy) then follow with 2-3 glasses of full milk.

You will not only stretch your stomach out by doing this but you will surprise yourself with how much you will be able to consume but continuing this for another 2-3 weeks.....you will then need so much food just to stay satisfied and you will get pretty fat in the. Ext weeks to follow. The key to getting Fat is continuing to eat more and more....as you do you won't. E able to deny yourself fatte I g meals or snacks even if you want to.

My wife has gained quite a bit of weight....and I have not noticed this at all. She always smells like shower soap. Although I have noticed with much more surface area on her body that she seems to go through her bars of body soap much much quicker. I guess the same applies to more surface area smelling like more soap on her body because....well there is more body.