Beni:
The most important thing is that you have to like your body. It is your body. If you like to be fat then be fat and dont care what they say. But I understand it is easier said than done espacially if the persons saying it, are friends and family. If they are you need talk to them and tell them you are comfortable in your body and dislike the way they talk about you.
HappyMe:
Thanks !
It's the people I love. They really don't understand... It doesn't matter, I'm just starting to doubt myself. Whether I'm weird because I like having a tummy. That it is nice to always be out of breath and to gain weight every month. They just don't understand the concept of feedee. I understand that my ex broke up with me because I went from 110lbs to this, but I don't think others should get involved.
You can be fat and pretty at the same time. Being fat doesn't bar you from beauty.
As a buff woman, I don't conform to a lot of people's idea of a beautiful woman. I know my family gave me flack for it. I know there are guys that wouldn't dare try to get with a woman stronger than they are.
But that's ok. Because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And so long as I know I look good, that's all that matters.
You'll get to a point where you realize that other people's opinions of you don't matter. Until you do, surround yourself with people that will lift you up
2 years
SATXfeedee:
Is a size 22 considered fat in womens clothes?
Size 22 in American woman's clothing is firmly plus-sized.
2 years
Thiccbell:
So a little late, but I wanted to share this and not opening a new thread.
These last couple weeks have been extremely filled with apathy. falling into the work>home>sleep>repeat routine and all that. Couldn't even be bothered to cook so I would do like 3 minute dinners and try to make them last the week so I didn't have to cook again.
I have still been following up on watching artists and content creators and that does give me a bit of joy. But the other day, since I haven't done it in ages, I decided to splurge and do a stuffing. And I hated it.
It felt like so much food but rather than feeling full I was just bored of eating. This was the first time I ever felt like this, looking down at my pathetic little stomach that wouldn't expand.
It used to be my only comfort and relaxation moment: stuff myself to the brim and enjoy the sated feeling of satisfaction. But not this time. I assume that even though it was only a couple of weeks, my body was already used to the low effort food I was eating so anything fancy was obviously too much.
Making matters worse, the therapist I was seeking just rescheduled our next appointment which was supposed to be today. And this is the third time the appointment is delayed as well which is adding another layer of frustration.
I don't want to end this post on a sour note, but honestly there's little else I can do. Its not like its the first time I felt down, its just this time feels a much heavier burden than before.
EDIT: Ah yes. depresso-o'clock over here lol.
Well honestly, I do feel a bit afflicted, but still, life goes on. I have a whole lot of other things and hobbies that bring me just as much joy if not more. So its not like I'm completely hating myself, I'm used to feeling like this and it will pass. I just need to keep myself entertained in other ways, that's all!
Hey, man. I'm sorry to hear that. I don't know what to say, but I just want you to know that I'm rooting for you.
2 years
Spike:
I am apparently in the opposing opinion. I am fat, i have always been fat, i have lipodema so maybe it is because of that.
You can be fit and fat. I am not weak, i used to walk 2-3 hours a day, 10k steps minimum. I can work and go all day. I can lift semi okay heavy things. I dont run because... no... but i like being able to do things, especially when people assume i cannot because i am fat.
So no XD I do not want to be helpless, i want to be powerful. I want people to never hurt me again.
Hey, that's valid too. It's one of the reasons I got buff.
2 years
Angy523:
I came back with some updates.
1. He's not staying at my place anymore, the month we spent together is over, now he's back at his place because he started work, but we'll see each other often. Anyway, I'm pretty sure he gained some weight this month, but he didn't check the scale anymore so I don't know how much.
2. He wanted to go to jogging together, but I just said I don't want to go and he decided he won't go alone.
3. It seems like he got used to eat much. In the past when we went home late sometimes we skipped dinner, specially if we had a late lunch. This happened this week, but he couldn't skip dinner this time, he cooked himself something (not much) and he got up early in the morning to have breakfast...also, he had a second breakfast that day.
4. He also starts to get horny after he eats, sometimes more than I get.
5. Now it's happening often to take my hand to put it on his belly, but the new thing is that sometimes he take my hand from his belly and moves it on his chest...I don't know why, never did it before.
6. He started to ask for belly rubs and belly kisses 🥰
If he didn't have the kink before, he certainly has it now.
2 years
Fatandflabby:
Hey everyone, I have a specific kink/ weight gain scenario that I enjoy and have been looking for stories everywhere about it but can’t seem to find anything. I’ve decided to check on here and see if any authors or story writers would be up for the task. If interested I can give more info on the type of story I’m looking for in private chat
Depending on what you are looking for, I might be able to assist.
2 years
Morbidly A Beast:
I’m I just a fat man who likes to eat or am I feedist? I have no real desire to be fattened by anyone nor fatten anyone I think I’ve done good on my own in terms of fattening but I don’t really find it all that sexual it’s just something that is inevitable by how much I eat. I enjoy some of the stories on here and even find some people attractive on here. It’s been fun interacting with you all.
Kink doesn't have to be sexual. I do kink stuff on the time with others on the site. It's very rare that I'm aroused when I do that/
There are more aspects to feedism than getting fat or fattening others. For example, you can be a foodie (someone who loves to eat food, but isn't concerned about weight gain) or a fat appreciator (someone who likes fat people and may not care about weight gain).
There are also some people on this site who aren't feedists but enjoy the scene all the same.
You are welcome to be here no matter what you decide.
2 years
Spoop Skerry:
Feeders, foodies, and fatties- Do you find helplessness hot? Like being unable to get up out of a low chair, or getting out of breath easily, and the resulting pity from it. I've gotten pity looks just walking by with a bulbous body.
Mm, to a degree.
My feedee is also my sub. So helplessness is sexy. But more along the lines of my feedee being completely at my mercy. Outside of play, I will tease him, but I'm not turned out.
Of course, this often leads to other things that will turn me on ~
2 years
Munchies:
Archive of Our Own exists and it is free.
It's also a formatting wet dream.
Jiggle Junkie:
Thanks, Munchies! Just spent the last hour or so there, reading about site basics and the formatting options. Looks like almost exactly what i was requesting: assorted file format upload options, including HTML, with a lot of control over CSS.
I’d been pointed to AO3 before, but always got stuck at fandom. Fat joy/sexuality/feedism didn’t seem to fit there. But i guess like looking at the DeviantArt home page, a person has to know where to look.
Any tips on relevant AO3 tags?
Fat - Freeform seems to return a lot of results, but i found it by chance. I suspect you (Munchies) know the optimal ones, and look forward to your thoughts and suggestions for finding the sort of lit which gets posted to the other sites discussed in this thread, on AO3.
Lol, just saw this.
I personally check out the Belly Kink and Weight Gain tags. There's other fetish tags on there (including feedism) but these are the ones you are more likely to find things and stuff.
You have the ability to include and exclude stories. If you want, you can exclude all fandoms and check look at the original works. Those do tend to be much kinkier than their fandom counterparts.
2 years
Who designed this travesty? It is vile.
I normally use dark mode, so I'd forgotten how much I hate light mode on this site. But it really is ugly.
There's no contrast. White on light grey. It's harsh on the eyes. Last night, there was a site-wide glitch, so FF on desktop mode was stuck in light mode. My entire monitor lit up the dark room I was in. It was that bright.
You need to darken the grey text to black and change the header background to another color besides white. Something that will give it contrast - preferable a bold color to break things up.
For real, FF light mode reminds me of 2000s futurism where everything is monochromatic white with a sprinkling of other color values in there from the PFPs and text.
2 years
