Personal training combined with feederism. crazy or genius?

BloatedGymGuy:
What if there was a feeder who would provide you with exercise plan to maintain health and build muscle, and diet plan to bulk up the weight.

In return there could be some content of growing belly and booty?


That's called a personal trainer.

Some of y'all have never heard of a hard gainer and it shows.

Ever see one of those absolute massive units? Super big guy - not lean at all. They goes to the gym and eats a crap ton of food. They're overall great shape, but are clinically overweight or obese.

This is a hard gainer. They are obsessed with gains, but they are the more socially accepted kind of gainer. And they usually don't gain for kink.
2 years

Thinking about transitioning to a female and becoming a bbw

Curiousv:
In this case what would it even mean for you to be a BBW? Just identifying as such? You would still be a biological male, so if it's mostly the body of a BBW what you're after, you won't get it merely by identifying as such. You could do extensive and risky plastic surgery, but even that won't give you the body of a BBW (proponents of such surgeries often over-exaggerate its effectiveness, because it's a lot of money for them in it, so of course they hide the drawbacks and present it as "perfect" ), and it's almost impossible to undo if you later change your mind.

Your fat distribution won't change by just identifying as female.

Would roleplay be an option instead?


For the record, this is what you said. There are trans people in this community who hear things like this all the time.

Again, there's no problem with you telling OP to figure himself out. It's the best piece of advice to give him. It's all the extra things you said that creates the problem.
2 years

Thinking about transitioning to a female and becoming a bbw


Munchies:
Please ignore the transphobe.


Curiousv:
Trying to understand what one really wants is "transphobia"? Not instantly and blindly recommending full-on transitioning when the first thoughts appear about the topic is "transphobia"? Recommending people to first study themselves and their desires a little deeper before they make changes to themselves they later can't undo is "phobia"? Do you even know what that word means?
Don't be a such a jerk!


I do know what it means. My issue isn't with you telling OP to figure out himself before making a choice. Well all told him to do that.

My issue is with you using anti-trans talking points to do it. Do you realize that people say these things to trans people all the time to negate their gender identity. Whether or not OP is cisgender or transgender is besides the point.
2 years

My obesity effects my family

Tellmeimfat:
I was always over weight and put on diets, sent to boot camps/gyms, and dieticians growing up. Well when I just couldn’t keep off the weight and I got older my parents gave up. And I let loose, I used to be maybe 15-20 pounds over weight. Well because of all the restricting over the years, I fattened myself up real good when I had freedom. I’m talking about getting stoned and eating past the point my body begged me to stop. Filling myself up with fast food and just junk. The weight caught up to me, and in 2.5 years I gained a little over 100lbs. It’s all fat, I know it. I’m so lazy, my stomach is never full anymore because of all the stretching as a young adult. I eat on average 3,200 calories a day. I don’t work out whatsoever and my average daily step count is 400 steps.
I’m just a very lazy, unhealthy, obese 21 year old still in college living at home. My parents are disappointed in not my laziness but my weight.
Anyways what I wanted to say was tonight I took a 1L tub of ice cream into my room, I let it melt a bit for 10 minutes then practically inhaled it. I’m still not full. Anyways I went to throw out the tub, and I walked past my parents.
Dad: “Is that the tub I bought two days ago?”
Me: yeah sorry did you want some?
Dad: guess not anymore, geez (my name) you ate it all in one shot though?
Me: I was hungry..
Dad: *clearly disgusted and upset
I throw out the tub and hear my mom say “God look at her jiggling with every step.”
I’m eating a bag of chips in my room now.
Part of me feels bad they are so upset by how fat I’ve gotten, the other part of me doesn’t care, because I know I’m going to get fatter than this, and this is just my life. Maybe if they didn’t restrict me I would have my goal weight set to 150lbs not 400lbs. Anyways I’m not going to stop eating til this chip bag is empty so I can throw it out in front of them.
If you like my content and want to encourage me to get fatter and fatter, than fat shame me under any of my posts🐷❤️


Good luck with your situation.

I will say that, as a courtesy to your parents, do not eat all the community food. That is rude.

Instead, leave enough for the others and get your own pig-out stash.
2 years

Thinking about transitioning to a female and becoming a bbw

Loudsecret123:
I have lived my whole life knowing and being comfortable with my gender as a cisgender male, but this fetish has confused some things. I have eventually come to realise that I may not just be a feeder, but maybe a feedee as well. Though the idea of gaining weight as a male doesn't intrigue me at all, the idea as a female does. I do not experienece genderdyphoria and this experinece of emotions is purely gender envy fueled by sexual desires. I've spoken to many of my trans friends and they say most people don't transition just on the basis of gender envy but also gender dysphoria. But my friends don't have this fetish, and like a lot of people say about feedism 'this isn't a fetish, it's a lifestyle'. So does this fetish make an exception for transitioning without gender dysphoria?


Please ignore the transphobe.

Gender envy is a complex thing. It sounds like you are still figuring things out. My advise is to experiment for now. You already know that femininity arouses you, but you aren't sure if you are trans. Try being girly when you aren't horny.

Start small (growing your hair out, shave your body hair, dress like a woman in your home and go about your day), and move onto bigger and bolder things. As you socially transition, you can decide if you are actually trans or if it's just a kink and go from there.
2 years

Can exercise make it healthy to have a ton of weight?

MrCupeKe:
I just heard from a friend that I could be incredibly healthy if I exercise, even if I have tons of weight on me. Is this true? I wanna gain and grow a huge belly, so would I be able to maintain good health by exercising, and just go home and stuff myself silly? I definitely don’t want to lose any weight, I just don’t want it to be dangerous to gain.

Whitemalehunk:
It’s the fat around ur organs that is unhealthy do cardio to prevent any issues from being overweight


This is only part of the picture.

Yes. Subcutaneous fat (fat under the skin) is healthier than visceral fat (fat around the organs). However, this isn't the only indicator of health. Depending on how you can, you can negatively impact your blood sugar, cholesterol, blood pressure, etc. You can also develop joint issues if you get too heavy.

This is why you should also be mindful of your diet and at least get an annual check up with your doctor to monitor your vitals
2 years

Blackmail or hypnosis?

Fat Heidi:
Has this particular user deleted his/her account? Was it a "I sign up, ask things so that I hopefully get answers I can f*p to and then shamefully delete my account" person?

A rhetorical question.


As a general rule of thumb, I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, but I am not shocked by this turn of events.

We were overdue for this kind of user to swing by.
2 years

What kinda of shakes can i make?

MrCupeKe:
I’m about to go on vacation with my gf, and I wanna know what kinds of shakes can we make to drink? I was thinking about a shake shake, but I’m wondering if there’s anything I can do to make it better with weight and flavor.


Check the recipies forum. Lots of options there. There's even a thread specifically for shakes.
2 years

Can exercise make it healthy to have a ton of weight?

MrCupeKe:
I just heard from a friend that I could be incredibly healthy if I exercise, even if I have tons of weight on me. Is this true? I wanna gain and grow a huge belly, so would I be able to maintain good health by exercising, and just go home and stuff myself silly? I definitely don’t want to lose any weight, I just don’t want it to be dangerous to gain.


It is true to a degree. Yes, exercise can midigate the health risks associated by weight gain, but only so much. If you eat like crap, you are at an increased risk of health issues. And, at some point, if you get too big, you will be unhealthy no matter what you do.

There's a lot of risk with this kink the fatter you get. I would recommend regular doctor visits for monitoring your vitals.
2 years

Blackmail or hypnosis?

Feedme125:
effective to the point where i really couldn't lose weight, kind of like a point of no return.

Munchies:
Okay. So what you really mean to say is "I have this fantasty of being blackmailed or hypnotized to fatten up past the point of no return. I want to make this reality."

Feedme125:
Do you have an opinion on which technique would work?


For ethical reasons, I am not going to answer that question. I will it depends on the person. Best to have that conversation with your feeder.
2 years