Oceanseyes:
I’ve been lurking and reading stories on FF for years (as you can tell by how long this account’s been active.)

I always wanted to give in and gain weight, but was a triple sport athlete. Though, after unknowingly gaining 40 pounds since dropping team sports/cardio in less than a year — I think I’m ready to let go.

Do you have any advice/encouragement/stuffing ideas for this new (potential) feedee?

Anjou:
Right now his diet for the last month, in which he packed on 25lbs of delicious fat, had been as follows:
6am:Coffee with a pint of cream and a 1/4 cup of sugar.1,800 Kcal
9am: breakfast. Eggs, toast and bacon usually. About 1,000kcal.
11am: Another 1,800 kcal coffee
1 pm: Lunch was usually light soup and sandwich with some nuts. About 800
4pm: Dinner varies a lot. Anywhere from 600 to 1,200 kcal.
6pm: This is wear things got serious. He started drinking his beers (about 1,000 kcal worth) and he just stuffed himself with chips, peanut butter sandwichs, literally eat a family size box of muesli over the sink. Guessing he put down about 3000kcal here.
8pm: drinks the rest of the quart of cream and a glass of red wine.
So I am guessing at least 10,000 kcal a day.
Am I wrong to think that he should have had a bigger gain?

Munchies:
It's only been a month 25 lbs in a month is a large amount of weight in a short amount of time - especially for someone just starting.

For context, when I first met my feedee, he was 270. We went hard the first month we met. My big boy was eager to impress me and would eat about 10K calories a day before we slowed down a bit. He put on 26 lbs.

Don't rush the gains too much. Rapid weight gain is sexy, but unsustainable and demanding on the body. Don't be so eager to get to your destination that you forget to enjoy the journey. Your boyfriend isn't going anywhere, after all.

Zampano708:
He don’t reach the 300 lbs?

YAYBANANA01:
Currently at 79kg, which for my height is bordering on the overweight/healthy weight bmi. Right now I'm still visibly skinny unless I purposefully stick my gut out, but I was wondering at what bmi/ body fat percentage would I need to be so that it's basically impossible for me to hide the fact that I'm fat? Can anyone speak from experience, for how heavy they got until they could no longer hide it in public?

Angy523:
A little update: my weight is now 184lbs. I can't even blame him this time, I ate too much when he wasn't home and skipped gym. But he buys me many sweets anyway...and he started to play with my belly. As far as I know he doesn't like fat girls so I don't understand why he always makes me eat more.

Idk his weight rn because we didn't see each other for some days, but I hope he also gained

Karenjenk:
OR
keep it unsaid.
that sounds like it would be at least if not more exciting that putting it all out there

Munchies:
All secrets come out in the end. It is better to be upfront so you can resolve any complications or misunderstands than saying nothing only for it to swing in like a wrecking ball.

And besides, why would you want a relationship where no one can be honest and everyone keeps secrets? That's not healthy.

CuppaJoe:
/\ This is the best advice. Keeping a secret is exhausting, and eventually erodes trust.

Karenjenk:
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Ok so....
" i think she knows that i like her chubby body."

Sheesh. Just throwing it out there. Sometimes the mystic or edge of unknown can be fun.
kind of like the dance we do when we think/know that we like some one more than a friend.
That undercurrent of excitement of whats to come... or whats suspected to come.
I'm not saying never tell and to ruin her...
just play it a little

Gushloader:
The problem with me is that I cannot properly launch a convo. If I manage to do, then its fine. I feel something is wrong with me

Munchies:
Well, how do you interact with people?

Gushloader:

Gushloader:
The problem with me is that I cannot properly launch a convo. If I manage to do, then its fine. I feel something is wrong with me

PhoenixChimera:
Does anyone else just feel that they don’t belong here?
I’ve been here a long time, only really spoken to a handful of people in that time.
The last couple of years have seen a lot of health problems and in that time I needed friends, which I don’t have in the physical world, but have only found that I am nothing more than a belly to most.
It is a part of me, not the other way round.
I wonder what I’m doing wrong.