Prey987654:
I love IT. Being havier than my husband or other men in my life.

My husband is round about 100 lbs lighter than me an it's a turn on, that he dominante me if he want , although he is lighter.

Sureley the mainstream prefers small, skinny girls , but in real life there are a lot of men, that love bigger woman.
My husband says , a woman has to be soft, chubby, warm and an a litle bitt weak ( by can't say no to sweets for examble, or with lower muscles) outside and in her soul.
A man has to be strong and hard outside and he hast to have INSIDE the talent to controll a woman, without her recocnizing it, independent from his size.
How weak is a thin or normal man, that can't stay behind his fat woman because of the mainstream opinion. Many stupid people think , fat girls only have to date fat men or fat men only have to date fat woman. But I think , these guys often have a relationship without deepness.
When the mainstream is aloud to tell you, WHO you have to love, you are lost!

Enlargingssbbws:
I just want a feedee that is not scared to get fat so I can pump her up

Morbidly A Beast:
Oh the good ol Cheesecake Factory, overpriced stuff that you pay 3 times as much you can get at Applebees! I am absolutely flabbergasted when people mention it or something like Olive Garden or Red Lobster as something fancy… clearly don’t get out much lol Cheesecake Factory does have really good cheesecake but the other food is nothing to write home about imo

it’s them probably trying to show how they had a good time and wished you were there, I don’t know your friend dynamic or anything but I know food/going out to dinner/getting drinks has been one of the few things we get together to do, and especially nowadays being that I’m 2 to 4 times bigger than the Guys I hang out with it’s something agreeable that isn’t to strenuous so long as the table doesn’t fight me

Ditzy:
Maybe its time you did something to increase your income?
I remember having no money and living in a van.

Angelgluttony:
So a few of my friends invited me to the Cheesecake Factory and I’m so jealous because I couldn’t go because it’s just too expensive for me, and upon telling them that they decided to start sending me pics of all the stuff they were having. Does anyone else get jealous when friends do stuff like this or is it just me? Or am I just over reacting? And this isn’t the first time they’ve done this. But I feel like I’d be wrong if I told them to stop mentioning their outings knowing that sometimes I may be unable to join.

Munchies:
Have you had an adult conversation about the situation with them?

Angelgluttony:
I have spoke up about to a few times but I’m not sure they take me serious. I have goofy friends and I too can be silly at times but it’s like if someone’s seems uncomfy with it and they mention it I’d stop and wouldn’t do it again.

Angelgluttony:
So a few of my friends invited me to the Cheesecake Factory and I’m so jealous because I couldn’t go because it’s just too expensive for me, and upon telling them that they decided to start sending me pics of all the stuff they were having. Does anyone else get jealous when friends do stuff like this or is it just me? Or am I just over reacting? And this isn’t the first time they’ve done this. But I feel like I’d be wrong if I told them to stop mentioning their outings knowing that sometimes I may be unable to join.

Morbidly A Beast:
There’s a lot of people who do this a lot of the keto people do it. One of the times before I just embraced being fat I tried keto diet and put butter in the coffee I didn’t find it very appealing at all but it did give you a bit of energy especially if you’re in a state of ketosis

Kacchan:
This is such a nicely written moment of admiration/optimism for a moment of enjoyment, comfort, and body confidence - thanks for sharing with us!

I agree that body positivity and fat confidence seemed to take a big step forward in the past decade. Younger people seem to be so much more comfortable with their larger bodies - FAR more confident than the average youth in the 80s and 90s would typically be. There has been a noticeable increase of advertisements with mid and plus size models included, and I applaud all who have worked so hard to bump the fashion and entertainment industry toward greater inclusion of bigger sized bodies.

I hope that more and more people are able to be confident in their bodies at any size. Little moments like this give me hope for younger generations who hopefully can embrace fat beauty and self-confidence.

ATLFeeder1:
So I've always been more of a feeder than feedee, but I've come around to the idea of trying to gain 10 pounds to see if I'd like the experience. I'm 6 ft and 190 lbs now, so I would only be slightly overweight. I've fantasized about gaining to 221 pounds which would make me technically obese, but I think I want to take it slow.

For those who have gained intentionally, what was your everyday diet like? Is there a way to hit my 10 lb gain goal in 3 months without gorging myself every day?

Munchies:
What's the hurry?

ATLFeeder1:
I want to finally give in and have the body I've always wanted.