People just have preferences. If someone prefers blondes, they don't try to figure out why.

You like your wife's growing belly and she hates it. MISMATCH! It's her body, not yours. And it is no fun being with someone who hates being fat. Either get used to being with a smaller woman (sounds like she wants to lose the belly she has) or find someone who enjoys being fat.

I find gaining women attractive, but I don't want to gain. I find fat very feminine, and I don't want to be feminine. Also I am older, have HBP and diabetes, so I couldn't gain anyway. If anyone is going to gain, they should do it young.

That is hundreds of pounds more than the fattest woman on record, so that is not a reasonable goal. It might be a nice fantasy to be immobile, but do you really want to marry someone who will need someone to bathe and clean her, and change her diapers? Not having children, not going anywhere in public?

If you want to stop following someone

There are a lot of fat poor people.

I get notified up top. I thought everyone got it.

Even though I prefer larger women, thin women are OK. However, I am not the least attracted to women body builders. So, it is nice when they soften up and look so much more feminine.

I think in the non-feedee world, people keep their small clothes forever because they are "going to lose weight," but when they lose weight they throw their large clothes away immediately.

Tell her about FF, so she can find a boyfriend like you.