Get another job. You would not be doing yourself or the community any favors by being unable to do your job safely. (assuming you want to gain a significant amount of weight)

Yes, the administrators here do a great job. What I don't understand about Feebie, is how can they expect the guys to pay for premium membership when most of the contact is with people asking for donations. It would be like gofundme to ask for payment to read the requests for money.

That wasn't the point I was trying to make at all. The point is that when you like someone thin, you should not let her know that you are on websites where men prefer larger women. I have dated thin women too. Nothing wrong with that.

It would be the same for any situation. If the person you dated was the same race as you, and you spend a lot of time on interracial dating sites. Or if your girlfriend was younger, and you spent time on web sites that was for older women, etc. etc.

Is the file too big? Is it the right format? If you don't get an official answer here, post it to the website feedback section at the end. Sounds like a nice height/weight combination, so I am looking forward to seeing your picture.

I can't say what would work best in your situation. And if I was single and dating a thin woman, I would probably want to keep coming back here. It just seems to me that if she knew you were here, she would feel inadequate to what she knows you like.

I should also add, that while FF does a good job in containing requests for money, another major website has turned into a GoFundMe page for feedees, and fake feedees.

On some sites, I have seen women promising to meet men for sex if they contribute to her. Last time I looked, that is prostitution.

If two people meet, and are boyfriend/girlfriend (or same sex) then they can decide based on who can afford it better.

If a person has a hobby or interest and can not afford it, then they either need to find another interest, find a way to do it more cheaply, or find a better job.

This ruins it for me, not because I am a cheapskate, but because I love to chat with women who enjoy being fat and/or loves gaining. When people do it as a money-making business, I am not an online friend, I am a perspective client.

I don't think you can use your experiences as the absolute truth. Perhaps you have seen two large people and just assume they are together because they are both fat. However, any kind of feederism is rare IRL, and mutual gainers are even rarer.

If she is not into it, she's not into it. If you tell her you are into it, it is a rejection of her size. You either have to choose between your girlfriend, or choose between the feederism community.

I don't know, but if you post it at the end with website feedback, an admin can check it out and tell you why or fix it.