I enjoyed your candid post on all levels. I was wondering because it is always funny to me outside of this website and community how people that have gained a bunch of weight or that are heavier say they don't even eat that much or they eat very healthy and so much less than people that are skinny. Now I have gained weight intentionally a couple of times and my wife gains mostly because she adores food and Loves sweets. I can almost tell when my wife is going to gain a good amount of weight because I see her appetite increase for a week to two weeks and I know 10-15+ Lbs. will surely show up in another week. Sometimes her appetite continues like this for longer periods and she starts to really pack on the Lbs. For myself I was intentionally gaining and as I was stuffing myself for the first 2 weeks I had to make much effort to continue to keep going and keep adding more food......most of it was really fattening food and deserts and sweets (which I never had a sweet tooth before this). After a couple of weeks I didn't even need to try and force feed it was like I needed so much more food to even feel full....and I craved deserts and sweets after every meal all of a sudden. As I continued I basically got to a point where I never really got full anymore....or even if I didn't feel hungry if my wife put a plate of food in front of me I could just keep eating and eating.

Tell us a little about how your appetite has increased as you have gained at certain stages r has it been after a certain weight you just can eat way more now and require so much more to get full....or where you like me with not really ever getting full and can just keep eating. I think in my case the forced stuffing really did a number on my stomach and appetite changes.

Yes...just like most have replied...I have had this desire and fetish since I was young. I remember liking the chubbier girls in elementary school with the pretty faces. They were all just a little chubby as far as their arms and faces and little fuller belly than all the skinny girls. I was on a family vacation at around 9-10 yrs. old and I remember seeing a mother that had on really tight jean shorts that were short and her thighs were Tan, really Fat and riddles with cellulite and I really liked it. About the same time over summer I was at the beach with a friend of mine and I had never met his Mother which drove us and stayed with both of our families at the beach and as she took off her large sundress she was in a gold one piece bikini and she was Big and Fat with the hugest thighs, butt, belly and breasts and I couldn't stop starring and I was totally turned on and fascinated by how she looked......and I specifically remember how she struggled to move all her extra weight walking in the sand and how she seem to jiggle and bounce and I was addicted with the fascination of all her Fat.

As I have grown up so has the interest in more and more weight on my girlfriends and now wife and basically on what really turns me on. Weight Gain is a very big fetish for me.....not just the Fat itself....seeing the changes in so many ways. The changes of all the extra weight with movements, how much more my wife eats as she is getting heavier, the more vulnerable care free attitude and even the loss of control with eating is so appealing and arousing. Also, the weight gain fetish has grown in other areas of my life.....a couple times I intentionally gained and became very aroused by it almost as much as witnessing my wife fattening up before my eyes....I guess part of that was I was actually able to do something about it to accelerate it faster by stuffing myself....where as my wife doesn't try to gain she just over indulges for periods and loses control of her appetite and tends to pack on some Lbs. fairly quickly.

I am not sure but have read many things about why we may have this fetish....but I think what is interesting to me is how much this fetish varies upon individuals. Some may like fat on themselves and not others and vise versa, some may like it on both.....and some the fetish can change and add more into ones life as they get older. I mean....if someone would have told me when I was in High School when I considered a 5' 3" girl/woman at 150+ Lbs. to be Fat and my ideal......and then today which my wife is 5' 3" and I would love to see her weigh 300 Lbs. or even 350 Lbs. I would have never imagined that. Not to mention would I have ever thought I would have enjoyed myself growing a big Gut a couple times.

Also.....I tend to wonder where my wife is concerned....based on what someone else mentioned above about this fetish. She happened to be a chunky and overweight kid.....and all her relatives and parents friends would always tell her she would be so Beautiful if she lost weight. She never told me any of this until after we were dating for a while and I mentioned to her that I wouldn't mind at all if she gained weight and encouraged her to eat big meals and allow herself her favorite treats and deserts. That was when she said she worked really hard her junior year in High school to slim down because she was a Fat kid and got even fatter when she first started High School. So she has always seemed to enjoy her food and definitely her sweets but doesn't like it when she starts to gain a little to much weight. Fortunately for me that attitude has subsided a lot over the years and what she considers Fat on herself before is like 40-50 Lb difference than she use to. But what really got me thinking is when I was intentionally fattening myself which added 40+ Lbs. to mainly my Gut in only 4 months she seemed to be really into it and turned on......so I feel like she does have a hidden desire for weight gain mostly on me but even a little bit on herself at times......not to mention she seemed to try and feed me fatter without ever mentioned how big I had gotten...only a couple of times when she was slightly intoxicated....and in an soft teasing endearing way. So there are so many differences to this fetish and how open everyone is about it.

A while back my wife was on one of her unintentional gaining patterns and she seemed to keep gaining for much longer than she usually does. We often make love with her on top quite a bit....but like you for some reason over the last several months we were in other positions.

Oe night after she got out of the shower and cam to bed she climbed on top of me....and the first thing I clearly noticed was how much heavier she felt when she settled on top of me not to mention all of her warm soft Fat flesh engulfing me.....as she slowly slid me in she started slowly thrusting I was brick hard and her moaning made her thrust slightly faster and shortly after she became very out of breath and even started to sweat which she doesn't typically do. With every heavy thrust her fat soft belly would slap into mine and her big thighs and ass would jiggle so heavily and sexy. Just a few more moments went by and she was even much more sweaty and breathing even heavier. She suddenly stopped and braced herself with her arms on the head board above me with her huge breasts right in my face smelling like sexy bath soap. As she rested....trying to catch her breath....I asked her why she was stopping.....and she said...."your Fatty wife is to out of shape to keep going and needs a break". Hearing this drove me crazy with arousal and as she started thrusting agin and breathing and panting heavily it kept turning me on more an more......until we both came and she rolled off breathing like she just ran a marathon I watched her massive breasts jiggling with each heavy breath and her now huge soft belly going up and down rippling with each deep breath.

It was pretty sexy seeing how out of shape she had became during sex and the fact that she noticed it and expressed it to me drove me to all new arousal levels.

Sorry ...I am not a woman.....but I knew a best friend of my girlfriend a while back who was on it and she gained a bunch of weight in like 3 months and she always seemed to be eating a ton. I estimate she probably gained 30+ Lbs in that 3 months. I have read some negative reviews other than just weight gain.....so you might want to research it and see if it is right for you before you decide to go on....and weigh out the benefits (Pun intended). There seem to be conclusive evidence that a lot of women gain a lot of weight while they are on it. Keep me posted I would love to hear what you have read with regards to how much weight other women have gained.

Yes....this seems to be a common theme.

When I first new I liked chubbier girls when I was younger I thought girls with some meat on their bones was so much more appealing aesthetically. I also discovered I liked seeing girls gain weight fairly early. I can still remember probably 7 grade when a couple of the prettiest 8th grade girls came back from summer having gained weight. All the guy's were talking as if they got Fat and were not even as hit anymore....and I thought the total opposite that they became so much hotter gaining probably what was 20+ Lbs. but they looked so much prettier to me. From that point every 2-3 years plus I seemed to like more and more weight on the girls/women I desired. By college I actually dated a couple young women who I thought were Fat at the time or at least by all my friends standards were Fat. The type that my friends would say "she is so hot if she only lost 25-35 Lbs. when I actually seemed to crave more weight on them.....both of these girls had goo appetites....actually a little bit of a food addiction now looking back and that was not only sexy to me to watch how much they loved eating but how much food they could consume. Both women were fairly short at 5' 2" and 5' 4" and both were probably around 190-210 Lbs. max.

Today I find myself desiring 300+ even on a shorter woman.....where as a long time ago 150 Lbs. would have seemed Fat on a 5' 3" woman. So yea this extra fat on women has certainly increased over time. I also think the normalization of this site and others alike make the bigger size and higher weights seem really normal....and this even carries over in everyday life......plus there seems to be a lot more younger women that are a lot fatter or heavier these days that carry themselves in a confident and attractive way.....they way they dress and flaunt there curves......it's almost like being heavier may become the ideal again in many years....wishful thinking.....possibly?

I know it is a tough conversation to have....but you need to have a better understanding of what he really likes with regard to weight gain and upper limits of gaining etc.

Also knowing things you can do that really get him going like most other people that have a weight gain fetish like i.e. tight clothes you don't fit into anymore accentuating your weight gain, talking about how fat you are getting while you can't control how much you keep eating etc. etc. are things that go a long way without actually having you gain but you are feeding into his desires with the fetish.

Everyone with this fetish has different levels of how much weight gain they like and or what really is what gets them going most. One guy might like his wife to be your height and only 180 Lbs. where the next guy likes same height at 230 Lbs. I would say that it is somewhat more rare for someone like your husband to want you 500-600 Lbs. but that is not the main issue....just a different twist with insight. You do need to do what you think is right but it seems like you have played around with gaining and or losing pretty far already.....but I for one as well as other guys here usually don't really like our women losing weight after they have gained it.

My wife knows I like her heavier even though she doesn't like it when she gets heavier. She is your same height.....she has a big sweet tooth and at times develops a pretty big appetite and tends to pack on the Lbs.....and look's so incredible to me the heavier she gets. She used to lose a little bit by dieting and trying to control her appetite and It would totally bum me out. In the last two years it seems she really cant lose weight anymore and I love it. With that said I have dreams of her being 300 Lbs. but that is kind of only dreams because she has only been over 200 Lbs. after being pregnant sevral times and currently is around 185 lbs. but I seriously think I could never ever get bored of how sexy she would be at around 230 Lbs. especially if she played into the fact of her being fat and heavy and wearing tighter out fits she has out grown intentionally to tease me and turn me on. Hope this helps

Full or stuffed sex is great....but you need to just take it a little slower and allow the appeal of the bellies pushing into each other struggling with your movements a bit take over and be the slower sex appeal. Having a bit more of a struggle for penetration is always exciting to me because the bellies being bigger and getting in the way.

That is pretty funny! I know what you mean....and I think it is people don't want to bring it up....I am sure you have had double takes from friends and others that know you when you were slimmer though?

I myself intentionally packed on 40+ Lbs a while back after unintentional gaining initially. I mostly did it to get a reaction from my wife....She never reacted or commented so I kept blowing myself up. I did however notice couples friends etc. that would do double takes but not any comments as well. It was crazy because I grew a gut where I looked 9 months pregnant. My wife seemed to like my new big gut even though she didn't bring it up.

I think people definitely should be able to tell your gain and are simply being PC or nice. Possibly if you get bigger yet....you may get some comments or an intervention. I too thought my wife was going to have an intervention with me ....with my huge gut sticking so far out in front of me but all she did was feed me more and more during that time.

Yea....It was extremely obvious to me one day after she had gained a good amount of weight.....like a light bulb went off. For the next several weeks after after a paid close attention and she definitely carried the soap aroma from her morning shower throughout the day....and when she would shower in the evening her bath bar soap being somewhat mild really lingered on her skin and she smells like soap so much more these days.....which I love anyways....so it is a very big win win (pun intended). I guess it has to do with the overall surface area as well as even when she slightly perspires possibly it reiinvigorates and activates the soap smell on her skin.

We were each 400-500 lbs at the time! We really hit it off and have stayed in touch since then.

There were soooo many questions I wanted to ask him about gaining (was his wife a feeder too?) but couldn't - and I still don't feel I know him well enough to.

If I had to guess.....I would say his wife has had a lot to do with his weight gain. What does everyone else think?