Somewhere I have read that many diabetic medicines make you gain weight where as others help you maintain or lose. Possibly you are on one that helps you maintain.....I am sure you may have already looked into this but I thought I would throw it out there in case you were not aware. I mean for you take the right medication for diabetes and actually gaining because of your medication would probably be a side effect that you would love.

I have always loved my women gaining weight and that weight has only risen over time. While I was stocking the freezer and pantry with my wife's favorite deserts, snacks and ice cream in hopes she would pack on a lot of her lost weight.... I realized in around 2 month's time I was partaking with her in a lot of her extra eating as well ....and discovered I gained around 14-18 Lbs.

I was not only turned on by it by I became totally aroused by it and decided to intentionally gain as much as I could....mostly to get my wife to notice and either comment, tease me or scold me.

What the others have said is true. I myself stuffed to the maximum for a while and after a while you won't even feel sick when you are extremely stuffed. After that all of a sudden you will notice that you need as much food as you were stuffing with to even feel full or satisfied and the belly will grow and the Lbs. will show up....eventually you will need to consume so much you are in a steady progress of gaining and getting fatter and your brain starts to work as a fatter person.

being into weight lifting for a long time I happen to have this figure....pretty big and muscular with a big ball gut.

Yes.

I got aroused from my wife noticing my gaining...and in turn the thought of her liking my gaining.

And vise versa with her.

I had a really tough time trying to stop gaining more weight .....as I intentionally gained a few years ago.

Mine was mainly because I was stuffing all the time and eating so much .....I completely grew my appetite so huge that I had a really difficult time trying to control my appetite when I eventually tried to stop gaining. Another thing is as your gaining you are eating so many fattening things and actually crave fast food and sweets. Trying to give up those things was almost impossible. It took a long while to readjust my eating and appetite.

I do think that it depends on how long you were gaining and eating like this....in my case it happened to only be 4-5 months. It if you were doing this over the course of several years or longer I imagine it would be even longer to adjust eating habits and appetite if at all.

If you have a "base weight" or size preferences of a woman that you wish to be with maybe shoot for girls like that?

Idk I'm just thinking out loud here.[/quote]


This sounds like simple advice.....but
it is totally true. You should look for women that are heavier and attractive first and then see about the many other characteristics as you get to know them. It should be kind of easy because what generally attracts most guys or girls for to the opposite sex is the physical first and then you can find out all the other important stuff you are looking for.
So aim "not high". .......but heavy!

Continue hanging out building a relationship that is usually the best way but still taking things slow not committing anything g to her full force so she doesn't get the wrong idea.

Not knowing your exact preference with this fetish. Do you just like a little bit chubby girls, do you like them overweight and cute or would you really like it if you found the girl like you mentioned and wish she was chubby already and would get nice and Fat over time?

Girls/women typically gain weight as they age a bit but if it is a deal breaker that this smaller and thinner girl that you like on a many levels never gets any bigger....I say tread lightly. I just know from experience that I like my women plump to overweight when I was a bit younger and that has only gone up as I aged as well as many other guys on this site and now I like my wife Fatter and fatter....which is a good thing if your wife keeps getting fatter but if she is skinny and only gets a little chubby it leaves one craving for more and more weight.

So knowing what I know now.....my wife happens to be heavier than I thought I wanted or liked many years ago....but currently she is probably 100 lbs. less than I would love to see on her figure.
Keeping in mind I used to think chubby to chunky girls were my ideal....my taste has certainly gone up and up and up over the years....just so Ethan g to honk about.

[quote]Oliver Hardy:
Speaking of elevator fun : always great when it opens its doors when its pretty crowded. People already sighing while there's enough room for a few more to enter, according to the limits on the sign. But then I step in and immediately the buzzer goes off and the overload light on the display lights up. Such a shame that I can't hear the comments of the crowd once I step out to their relief...[/quote

This is quite funny.....I could only imagine the relief on there faces as you got back off.

This is so funny ....I love it.