Jsmjsm:
I am a big dom guy,
Recently and after a chain of events I found myself really turned on by the idea of my fit girlfriend going with fit guy.
Nothing else turn me in since we have talked about. She did it twice with the same guys but she doesn’t want to be the only thing between us.
I am scared of loosing her
I am so lost
So, let me make sure I understand you.
You're a dom, but you get turned on being cuckolded by fit guys. Your girlfriend indulged in this fantasy for you a few times, but ultimately decided it's not for her.
You don't know how to indulge in this fantasy and keep your girlfriend at the same time, correct?
Kink negotiation is super important. And you need to realize not all kinks will be shared. Sometimes the other person is open to the kinks. Sometimes they aren't.
Your girlfriend seems to love you. She probably feels uncomfortable sleeping with someone else while she's with you. But she gave it a try to make you happy.
You're cuckolding fetish is best left in the fantasy realm. Have a talk with her. See if there's any way to incorporate that with your bed room activities. Do not try to persuade her. Just see what she's open to doing.
2 years
Big_smoke96:
I have been looking to experiment with this feeder kink for a while but I get the impression it's not one I can dip my toes in with ease.
Any insight/advice that anyone can offer?
Domme feeder here.
It really isn't that difficult to feed someone. On the more vanilla side, it can be as simple as making a big meal while to tell your feedee how happy their gluttony makes you. Massage and play with their belly too.
Is there something more specific you wanted to know?
2 years
Louiefat:
I haven't heard anyone mention this but this is mostly a role-play experience. My partner is actually losing weight but when we're having sex we like to talk about how I'm gonna make her 700lbs and immobile. It's kind of like how most people into CNC don't actually want to be raped.
I have met people who want to do this for real. It isn't completely fantasy.
2 years
Munchies:
Welcome back. We are happy you're here.
I'm curious. Have you spoken to a professional about your body issues? A therapist could be very helpful.
Thiccbell:
I am seeking therapy. Unfortunately our sessions are usually two or more months apart.
As a person who has struggled with body dysmorphia and depression, I just want you to know that you don't have to keep feeling like this. And that it can get better. Don't resign yourself to self-loathing.
2 years
Sfemde:
Definitely a sub, with a tendency to please and make others happy therefore.
Domme
2 years
Sam19:
I need advice for an all day stuffing. I wanna not throw up
I know many things about many things. I've done all day stuffings myself during my gainer days, and I've had my feedee do several too.
I think the most important thing is don't keep yourself at max levels of full. Eat to the point where you are stuffed, but still comfortable. Try to stay at that point all day. I personally recommend eating every two hours with lots of snacks in between.
If you wanna go out with a bang, have your last stuffing right before bed. Just eat as much as you can without feeling sick. Then let the food coma take you.
2 years
CustardCream:
Thank you Munchies!
My job is fairly active and physical, often moving weight around and walking maybe 3 - 8 miles a shift depending on needs. I probably need to work on my cardio, but whatever that is, has to be low impact as I smashed my right knee to bits 4 years ago, and I'm under doctors' orders to not doo high impact stuff.
What sort of lotions should I be using? I've not got a skin care routine, and have no idea what should be done! I never found my stretch marks to be itchy.
Munchies:
CustardCream:
Thank you again. I don't have a Fitbit, but I couldn't wear one, I can't stand things on my body like watches or lanyards (I'm gearing up to get tested for Autism) I do have a blood oxygen thingy though that reads the pulse. Usually 70 or so, but a few times its been 65, usually after a busy period at work, so I know I need to work harder to get the resting rate lower. As an aside, both Mum and I have 94% oxygen levels. This was first discovered when I smashed my knee up, but the doctors didn't find anything on the x-rays of concern. I don't think I breathe properly, especially when nervous/stressed at work.
Thank you for your tips on the lotion. I do have oily skin so that link gave me some pointers.
As an autistic woman, I understand. If you have something that checks your oxygen or pulse, that's good enough.
I'm glad the link helped!
2 years
Angy523:
Thank you, it looks like a good idea 😁 He already knows I don't like skinny guys and since I explained to him that I will always prefer a man with a belly than one with 6 packs and 60-70kgs he didn't tried to lose weight anymore. Idk if this was the reason or something else, but I'm happy he's not losing weight. It would be nice to gain some, but I hope it will happen soon. He's not doing any sport anymore (he used to) and started to eat fast food more often. Also he eats more snacks and sweets than he used to when he wanted to lose weight.
Next week he's coming to my place and will stay for a month, so I'm planning to talk to him and tell him about my preferences. Also, I'll make sure he will have enough snacks in the house and I'll try to cook his fav desserts. Maybe he will enjoy this 😋[/quote]
Oh, he's gonna get fat. His fate is sealed at this point. The only questions are how big and how fast.
He's no longer active and has developed a taste for fast food and sweets? Ma'am, if you cook all of his favorite foods and make him cum, he will get as big as you want him to get. It doesn't even matter if he's into the kink or not
He already wants to please you. First he kept his six pack for you. Then, he grew a belly for you. This man is smitten with you. And if you show him how good it feels to grow even bigger for you, he will stuff himself silly.
2 years
CustardCream:Thank you Munchies!
My job is fairly active and physical, often moving weight around and walking maybe 3 - 8 miles a shift depending on needs. I probably need to work on my cardio, but whatever that is, has to be low impact as I smashed my right knee to bits 4 years ago, and I'm under doctors' orders to not doo high impact stuff.
What sort of lotions should I be using? I've not got a skin care routine, and have no idea what should be done! I never found my stretch marks to be itchy.[/quote]
RIP about your knee man.
Yeah, cardio is a must for a lot of things. There's a lot of low impact cardio you can do. Heck, even walking quickly at your job counts so long as you sustain an elevated heart rate. If you don't have one, get you a fitbit or something similar.
As for the lotion:
Assuming you don't have allergies, there's a lot of different options for you to choose. Here's a helpful guide:
www.webmd.com/beauty/features/moisturizers,Sensitive%20skin.
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