CustardCream:
For me, I found that my capacity for food declined once I started to get bigger. Perhaps I should have forced my way through that, but I started with double cream and it helped.

If you are into stretch marks, the pure joy and euphoria I had when I found mine must have been the happiest of my life. Now I want more and deeper ones, but for me it mean't I had succeeded.

Good luck on your journey, and I hope it will be quicker than mine was!

Munchies:
Speaking as a very intense domme feeder, rapid weight gain is super sexy. But as someone who used to gain, I advise everyone to go at their own pace and let their body adjust to your new bulk. You gotta live in your body 24/7. It's best to be comfortable.

Since I know you aren't into health complications, please make sure to be somewhat healthy. Regular exercise helps offset some complications (and increase your appetite). Eating healthy foods also decreases some of those risks as well. (Junk food is fine so long as you don't live off of it.)

Don't become so goal oriented that you forget to enjoy the journey. Enjoy your food. Explore your body. Admire your growing form every chance you get.

Also, if you don't have any, get some lotion. Rubbing it on your belly after a good stuffing feels so nice. It's also good to regularly put on lotion to keep your skin soft and stretchable. It won't save you from the stretch marks, but it makes them less itchy.

Quink333:
Tbh i even tho i find it erotic i never understand how belly rubs can feel good.

Guess i need to try them

CustardCream:
For me, I found that my capacity for food declined once I started to get bigger. Perhaps I should have forced my way through that, but I started with double cream and it helped.

If you are into stretch marks, the pure joy and euphoria I had when I found mine must have been the happiest of my life. Now I want more and deeper ones, but for me it mean't I had succeeded.

Good luck on your journey, and I hope it will be quicker than mine was!

Thiccbell:
So I took a little break and I think I figured out something. way back before I was into the kink, I was going trough a very low point of my life with depression, devolving into hating myself. The fetish helped me accept my body for who I am. and I think my psyche and personality evolved a lot since then.

Thing is my self esteem and self image never changed. I still don't like my body nor the way I look, I just started using my chubby belly as a stress ball since its the only part that I can bear to look at in the mirror. So chances are that there are still things that I left unsolved just because my astonishment with growing tummies was so fervent.

as with most things I don't have much else to do about it except keeping ignoring this and let my life continue without ever really solving it. its not like its essential to my survival after all.

Quink333:
Fat femboys are the source of my joy.

There's nothing cuter than a fat boy with a nice little belly in his lap. Fleshy thighs and wide hips. A fat pad in the front that ideally hides sex and two balls of fat in the back. On the chest, two modest pouches of fat called breasts.

Ahhh I'm so gay for a fatties where you can't tell their gender

Chubby Fatboy Blob:
Ive just been at this for a while with no luck and ive run out of ideas and at my wits end

Spoop Skerry:
PS: is crotch a dirty word?

Munchies:
Sir, this is a fetish site.

Spoop Skerry:
I just meant in general, everyday use. I'm not gonna get banned for it, I know.

Bismarck1889:
For sure, and thanks for the advice. Insecurity doesn't have to mean you think your not good looking or anything, in my personal experience it's mostly been from similar feelings to what you described, i.e. feeling like I'm "too skinny" at times. Obv though I don't want to put words in your mouth, so if those feelings weren't from a place of insecurity specifically that's totally understandable.

Nyarlep:
Your looking at things from an entirely wrong angle. People are people, not machines or pictures. A "feeder" isn't just a feeder, its another person whos probably looking for a relationship that at the bare minimum probably includes enjoying your company.

tldr; there is more to a relationship than sex