Is it just me?

randomlancila wrote:
Our society is patriarchal by default.

Men, regardless of size, have it easier in EVERY aspect of life.

Full stop, end of story.


Although I'm not sure this will be true for all situations, i do believe that women have to fight harder for their position in the world.

back to the original topic:
Personally i think there are several things of importance that one looks for in a (not necessary monogamous) relationship. These are

Power/Money
Physique/Attractiveness
Personality/status
related Fetish

And the importance of these varies from person to person. If you don't fall into any of these categories for another person then your out of luck.
Guys will more often seek a partner that they find physically attractive or matches their fetish, while women are more attracted to personality and or power. But this will vary from person to person of course

These factors determine how good some one is on the 'market'. And if you don't have market value, well who said life is fair. The key point is knowing what your value is, and how it relates to what others want.

And in this point if your a fat guy and no one that is on the market has a high value for fat guys, then yes, you're effectively screwed.
13 years

Real world vs fantasy

ha, I know exactly how you feel. So many nice girls out there, yet so few share my fetish.
Sometimes it feels although it is impossible to find a combination of the two things, the fetish and the relation. It has caused me to much pain in the past.
13 years

I'm being totally uncool....

I was uncool before being uncool was cool...
13 years

What is 'health' anyway....?

I like this topic. It's a point of discussion that is of great social relevance. It's very much influenced by how people look at life, and how much important it seems to be to live as long as possible.

A wile back there was this documentary about smokers. Not exactly the same thing as obese people, but it was about people leading an unhealthy life. The docu showed that while it might appear that they cost society a lot of money for the special medical care they receive, the documentary concluded that smokers actually save us a lot of money. Because of their shortened life expectancy society saves a lot of money on the nursing home costs. I'm sure the same can be said for obese people.

So why should we live as long as possible? I'm not saying it's a bad thing, but it's a costly thing, that you might not enjoy much. Personally if i ever get that old, they can put me down the moment i lose my mind. I don't want to drool by the window until my body fails.
13 years

Fat fetish documentry

HeavyInYourArms wrote:
I liked the program, honestly. I thought the music choices were hilarious, and the content was accurate. Everybody keeps lashing out about how Patty was portrayed, but it seems like it would've been a lie for them NOT to portray both sides of the coin. They never said Kit, Lizzy, or Reenaye would end up immobile as well, but to completely ignore the fact that there is a darker aspect to a fetish that is in fact a lifestyle wouldn't be honest. People who regret their weight gain are just another type of person who gained. We're all adults who are aware of the fact that this lifestyle is not all kittens and rainbows.

well said
13 years

Too thin

I don't mind skinny girls... The more there is to grow smiley
13 years

Doctor who

who is this docter you're all talking about?
13 years

Fantasy feeder dungeons & dragons campaign!

I think sethman has offered to be the dm smiley but we can rotate to so everyone plays now and then
13 years

Fantasy feeder dungeons & dragons campaign!

If we want to do this, then we should determine which game we want to play, and how we play.

I've got path finder pdf available if we wanna start that.

We could make use of some (free) online chat rooms to play in smiley
13 years
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