Regardless of how you actually live your life, the interest will remain. To embrace the gaining life whole heartedly is, of course, an absolute danger and as you approach your 40's, the risks mount exponentially, particularly if you've taken your weight into the 300's or more. I'm an FA and love a gaining girl but understand living out my fetish with a significant other could put her life at risk - so I've never insisted with mine they put on weight. But, I must admit, if they gained, I never pushed them to lose.

What's needed is a film whose main characters have a mutually exciting feeder/feedee relationship with the female lead the gainer. And the film would focus on all the methods of her over eating, how family, friends, and society individually deal with watching her significantly fatten up, and despite it all the couple fearlessly refuses to give up the ship. Her hundred pound gain during filming along with a hint there might be a sequel would turn the movie into a certain Fantasy Feeder Oscar winner.

Try this:
1. Choose any high calorie foods you like.
2. Eat until you can't eat any more.
3. Repeat.

You're interested in what you're interested in sexually. It's naturally who we are, deeply intrinsic, and nothing can be done to change it. Given ours isn't illegal, we're better off succumbing to the honest reality because this interest can not be successfully argued with.

.... every step you take registers at least a 5.6 on the Richter Scale

..... they can't get you out of the house without tearing it down.

...... the open double doors at the China Buffet might as well be a wall.

...... were you to hit the earth at asteroid speed, what happened to the dinosaurs would be considered child's play

The idea of a woman thrilled by the act of over eating, visually loving what she's consuming, and unfazed by having just passed the 450 pound mark is a very good start.

It's in the watching you consume all those calories, knowing a few more lovely fat cells are being added to the wonderfully thrilling corpulence you already possess, that really heightens the excitement of the experience for those of us who have this interest, don't you think?

Anna, you are who every single (and perhaps not so single) hetero male who frequents this site is looking for. You are sweet perfection. And you're lucky, Chicago is a big city with a whole lot of food lurking around just about every corner, making running out of something to eat impossible. So when the urge strikes, you can always hit up a buffet, a grocery store, or anyone like-minded you've met fortunate enough to get the opportunity to assist you stuff your hungry growing belly into oblivion.

When I hit a buffet, I sit as close as I can to where the food is to, as closely as possible, watch all the extra fat women show up make their presence felt. The ones who unashamedly stack their plates heavy with vittles and don't stop at three are my favorites. I saw two girl friends eating together one night, both definitely over 400 pounds, just going back time after time for more - and lots more. They'd clearly been stretching their stomach's for years and had all kinds of room in there engineered for stuffing themselves to the rafters. For them it was all about the food - I think 24/7. And they waddled out many thousands of calories to the good. Exciting to watch.