Why are guys so afraid of rejections

Forest wrote
Self confidence issues for me. For one, never been in a relationship or whatever... It really turns me down in the dumps. "Is there something wrong with me?" for example is a thought which have surfaced sometimes. Then of course, I'm also thinking about my own sexual frustration. Is what I feel just lust or is it love? There inexperience counts in.

However, I feel that for the first time in my life I'm really in love, and have expressed it to the woman I feel that way for. smiley We'll see how things work out....


Ahhh, youngsters. (I say this not being much older than you.)

I was that way when I first came to this site as well, but I think since then I've finally let go of the way people treated each other as children (this includes high school and for some people, beyond). I used to doubt myself constantly because I was dorky and in school people were dicks and yadda. But it takes a while to realize when you've been mistreated all your life that you do have good qualities. Creativity, intellect...these things help people who've never felt like part of the popular crowd still value themselves and be able to ask someone out on a date. After all, I bet none of my old bullies are making music in their spare time, or using their brains at all...I'm going to generalize here (since in general these people deserve it), but I'm willing to bet the majority of them are working factory jobs and getting drunk every night because of how miserable their lives are. So...that thought has crossed my mind before as well. (Well, she could be dating one of those apes from school, so I beat that, right?)

I don't know...I was going to try to sound motivational but I think I'm failing to make my point a bit. So I digress.
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Feederism on television

Charlotte's Web eh....wow. I remember watching that as a child...and it makes me wonder if that didn't affect my preferences in women....that or the multitude of "fat episodes" of various shows. Looney Tunes had tons of that.

Still, I don't mind. I wouldn't change my preference even if I could. smiley

And Whynot....TOTALLY remember that episode. I never really watched the show much...in fact I only knew of it because my favorite band did the theme song...but yeah!

Did you know They Might Be Giants also did themes for the Colbert Report, The Daily Show, Higglytown, and tons of other shows?
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Introduction/ say hello, thread

I've been here since FF came around....but I mostly lurk...so HI!! smiley
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Gamers!

If anyone plays PC games (I think consoles are a ripoff lately except maybe Wii), my steamID:
steamcommunity.com/id/taien

I play DoD, HL2, TF2, CoD:MW2, and other stuff.

If Fallout 3 was online I'd invite you to explore post-apocalyptia with me. lol
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