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Yes absolutely!

I love being just a sex object.

I have play partners that reinforce this idea and it’s honestly devine.

It’s fun to just shut off my brain and think with my 🐈‍⬛!
3 years

What is it about feederism that turns you on?

I love being big and soft. It feels SO different than being fit and skinny. It feels more sexual as a woman especially, like I’m supposed to have big tits and ass etc. Being groped and touched feels so much better because they actually have something to grab on to.

Body modification in general has always been something I find erotic, being objectified for someone else’s sexual gratification and changing your body for them in order to accomplish that is yummy af to me.

And I love overindulging. In everything that brings me pleasure. Getting high and eating and then getting to orgasm a lot too is one of my favorite things to do. It feels amazing.

The fact that it’s socially unacceptable also adds to the eroticness of gaining, especially since I’d been fit all my life people really don’t except it from me.

I could probably go on and on.

Oh there’s also the aspect of turning people on that may not normally be into fat girls but they can’t resist *me* because I’m SO good at what I do in the bedroom. I have just as many men who pursue me at this size as I did when I was fit and skinny. It’s fun.
3 years

Roll call! any other autistic feedist in the house?

ASD and ADHD here!

I didn’t know until last year, but unfortunately that’s super common for women in their 40s.

Kinky sexy things and nonmonogomy have always been a thing for me tho. Sex and kink have definitely been a special interest since I was a teen.

And the novelty of different kinks and partners also satisfies many aspects of my adhd.

One of the things I find difficult about this particular fetish is that I can be SO particular about texture/certain foods. Or just forgetting to eat/have a desire for food. I think it’s part to blame why I’ve been trying to get to 250 since last summer but haven’t been able to gain. 😔

I’m actually more likely to NOT eat and then my stomach shrinks and then it’s a challenge on the occasions that I want to stuff myself because I’m full after one sandwich when I want to eat five.

And obviously finding others that are also into this and being able to click with them can also be a challenge. Peopling is hard!
3 years

Anyone women have experience going no bra or bralette at a higher weight?

I haven’t worn a regular bra for a couple of years now. Once I outgrew my bras I just never replaced them.

My boobs are big, I have no idea what size but definitely big.

I did grab a couple bralettes for moments I don’t want to be swinging everywhere, like when I go to physical therapy. 😅

I also never wear underwear and can’t stand them either. I also ALWAYS wear dresses.

I don’t like bands of constriction around me.

I have zero intentions to change anything up.

I also like the bralettes because they can just be worn as outer clothes with skirts when they’re cute like this one!
3 years

Do you think it’s possible to find love with this fetish?

I think maybe broadening your interactions to include people who are sex positive and kink friendly is a good option. Their tolerance may be much higher than vanilla people and they may be more willing to play with this fetish.

And I know a lot of people with BPD, etc that are in loving relationships to include kinky ones.

Be wise but authentic, hone your relationship skills. Make sure you’re good at setting boundaries and communicating in healthy ways.

Make sure you’re falling for the person and that they’re actually compatible instead of compromising yourself to just have the fetish fulfilled.
3 years

Soft dom or hard dom?

I want one of each dynamic honestly… (I’m polyamorous and don’t do monogamy)

I really enjoy a dynamic where it’s kinda distant and cold and absolutely fucked up… more brutal and mean heavy on humiliation. This would have to be casual NSA that we only get together occasionally and it’s very strictly kink, not even really friends even.

I also love when it’s a combination of brutal and praise but no physical affection.. I’m definitely the most manipulatable and enthusiastic in this dynamic. Let me know the fucked up shit we do pleases you to no end and I’ll just do more fucked up shit to get that praise. I still wouldn’t be able to have a romantic connection with someone in this dynamic but could handle it more frequently and actually also be friends.

A more gentle manipulation, with praise and affection and just occasional brutality could maybe work with the right person but unless I really click on all the levels of companionship and I actually want a relationship with this person this dynamic doesn’t work for me.

I’m a switch and in my romantic relationships I actually prefer a gentle domme dynamic, where we spoil each other but I’m in control. (I’m NOT a feeder please don’t flood my inbox) Where I’m the one encouraged to eat and overindulge and be spoiled… in return I praise and spoil in other ways… I’m very nurturing and sweet and kinky.
3 years

Feeding while pleasured

Ok so I more recently got to really experience simultaneously being stuffed and fed with physical pleasure but also in the context of being submissive in a D/s dynamic and it was hot af.

I could quickly see how stuffing while receiving pleasure could easily condition someone to associate food and sexual pleasure.

Like I thought stuffing was hot before but simultaneously to help relieve the pain of overindulging… even hotter.

In the context of humiliation and torture and pleasure and eating to get fatter simultaneously broke my brain.

10/10 would recommend.
3 years

Mutual gaining vs. body contrast

When I was skinny I definitely preferred bigger guys.

And my bf is about my same size as me, more muscular obviously but still not skinny at all and I love the way we feel together cuddling…

But when it comes to sex/play I’ll admit I’ve grown really fond of skinny and fit guys. It feels more like they are mounting me and riding my body and there’s something about THAT that makes me want to get even bigger.

There’s also an element of contrast that is a bit humiliating. One guy I recently played with, runs marathons, can easily take the three flights of stairs up to his place but I definitely have to take the elevator. Considering how fit I used to be it’s the right ingredient to put me in a submissive headspace.

That they’ll ruin my body for their pleasure but there’s no way they’d ever be fat themselves is really hot. 🥵🥵🥵
3 years

Unorthodox feminization

Definitely super hot!

I have done this to skinny boys too tho.

Gender fuckery is high on my list of kinks.
3 years

Adult nursing relationship

juicy:
As someone who did not adore breastfeeding, even though I sometimes have mutual ANR fantasies, let me remind you of the downsides.

A. you suddenly find yourself in public with a wet t-shirt.
B. you ache if you aren't emptied regularly.
C. I thought pumping hurt like a ... well, you know.

Just some realities to check in on before flying with the fantasy! smiley


These are some of the things I love most about ANR!

A wet shirt! Oops! I guess everyone knows I’m lactating now and even more aware of my huge tits!

Give me the ache! It feels so good and reinforces the bond and need for my partner!

Pumping is how I think I was able to put on weight! And it feels good! Hook me up and give me snacks and I’m in heaven and often touching myself before I’m done!

Everyone’s perspective is going to be different about the downsides.

To me there are SO many positives about ANR… the only clear negative is the amount of time you have to devote to it can keep you limited and you have to plan ahead a bit more which for a spontaneous person like me can be a challenge. With a supportive invested partner it makes it worth it tho!
3 years
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