Yeah that off-limits dude seams to missing out on a lot of fun. I don't know how you could pass up an opportunity like that.

My tip is. If you find someone that ticks the boxes for you send them a message. No point waiting for people to contact you but I'm sure after people see this your going to get a few messages.

make one she will like. Whats her favorite ice cream flavour? grab that add milk and heavy cream and have that daily and she will start to gain over this month.

Just add more ice cream or chcoclate topping until she likes what it taste likes.

Your perfectly fine. However your body is.

Sound like you take that as an insult and thats what it is. If you dont like being talked to like that you shouldn't have too. That dude shouldn't assume that's what you like either.

also it your body and what you do with it is your decision not someone else.

also hard and firm fat? Sounds like someone has never touched fat before.

why not be direct? whats the worse that could happen? He may be shocked at first but it will pass.

Finding something who is fat attractive isn't weird. Or unheard off.

Just say you like him fatter because you think its hot. You already said
"but it is so hard to be interested sexually now". So if he continues losing weight are you going to want to continue the relationship even if your not sexually interested?

noticing new body jiggles when you walk/laugh

You don't need to stuff yourself to get fat. You don't need to stuff before going to bed either.
If you eat a lot before bed make sure you stay awake and upright for at least 3-4 hours after eating to make sure it gets digested(well most of it).

Also getting fat isn't a sprint. Its a marathon. Yes some people can gain huge amounts in small time periods but there lucky. Most of us gainers/feedee have gained over years not one month as you have lol. Just go slower would be my suggestion. As well as get your Gastritis under control first.

I think this is the list I was thinking off

www.cat-and-dragon.com/stef/fat/ffp.html

Im not sure how up to date it is. Or if there is one near you.

Also if your not on tumblr I would have a look as there. There is a lot more information floating around on tumblr than I find on forums about being healthy and fat.