I have to say this is kinda an interesting statistic you have found. Though my critique is that what about men who like bigger girls but don’t have a fat fetish? If that’s the case maybe it would be a little different??
I have mentioned this in another post but I know many people who do have this preference but despise feedism. Of course that’s only what I know outside of the community, after all people hate what they don’t understand.
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Hey there, I can definitely feel for what you are coming from. For me I have always had such a difficult time fitting into a community and finding the right people where I can see myself thrive along. Perhaps maybe it’s because of me being autistic and don’t think like 90% of people might have something to do with it as well.
As of with this site itself, I keep on coming back because while it’s not perfect it also gives me a sense of security and acceptance. Whether or not you have a fetish or just have a preference in liking people on the bigger side. This is especially when it comes to the outside world that wants to villainize people like us and eradicate chubby people. I know that I haven’t really felt very welcomed by some people on this site, but somehow I would rather be here than anywhere else!
But hey what I try to keep on racing and try to be true to myself. It’s not always easy, but it’s better than sitting around wishing I knew.
3 months
Eleanorrigby:
when consuming feedist media (pictures, stories, videos), what are some general themes or additions you enjoy? i'm personally a fan of soft feedism and romance being a focal point in stories, but i think teasing is always a nice touch.
JN_TumLover56:
Interesting question. For me I am a more of the soft-core type person, I don’t really care for the hard stuff nor watching people eat unless I want to see how they react for trying a new food that they haven’t tried yet.
I’ve always enjoyed looking at stuff where it’s all about the belly content. Especially when they casually play or talk about it in a flirty way. Oh and I shouldn’t forget about the belly button, because that’s what it pretty much started with me. It’s really the only kind of content that I care about. 😅 Nothing too crazy, just looking and admiring someone’s belly. Even if it’s extra round after a meal or bloating.
I don’t know if this answers your question but that’s what I think, have a good night!
Lbd4:
This is me…I loooove bellies. Especially my own cuz it’s the one I have the most access to. I don’t need to watch people eat. I’m all about the side effects.
Glad that you agree with me! I’m on that similar boat. I don’t care about the eating part, I’m all about the aftermath. 😏
3 months
Eleanorrigby:
when consuming feedist media (pictures, stories, videos), what are some general themes or additions you enjoy? i'm personally a fan of soft feedism and romance being a focal point in stories, but i think teasing is always a nice touch.
Interesting question. For me I am a more of the soft-core type person, I don’t really care for the hard stuff nor watching people eat unless I want to see how they react for trying a new food that they haven’t tried yet.
I’ve always enjoyed looking at stuff where it’s all about the belly content. Especially when they casually play or talk about it in a flirty way. Oh and I shouldn’t forget about the belly button, because that’s what it pretty much started with me. It’s really the only kind of content that I care about. 😅 Nothing too crazy, just looking and admiring someone’s belly. Even if it’s extra round after a meal or bloating.
I don’t know if this answers your question but that’s what I think, have a good night!
3 months
Morbidly A Beast:
It’s weird how our modern culture is really weird around death but in the past it was more understood and accepted as an aspect of life - In pretty much all culture it’s only moderns that are goofy about it going on about how their going to live forever
Ha ha! Well back then most people didn’t live very long because of wars, executions and lack of hygiene that caused many diseases. At least now we didn’t have to worry about what life was like back in the day… for the most part.
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Munchies:
With that said most people who want to live forever fear death. And I get it. Western culture is removed from death. End of life care is very cold, and how we treat the elderly and infirm is appalling. It's no wonder that most people want nothing to do with it.
This is why so many people live bland lives with bland food. To them, a dull, safe, soulless life is better than death. It gives the illusion of control.
We all want a good life, but it shouldn't be lived in fear of death. For death comes for us all.
Interesting take. I guess based on what you said I could also be a little bit Death Positive myself because of my awareness that death is something that happens to other people at some point. Nor does it really affect me as deeply as others. Even with my own crazy thoughts about being enthused about Motorsports and being a racing driver might have that sort of encouragement, if that’s saying something??
Anyways it’s like what I have said, I do wanna pass at a respectable age to go. But at the same time if life sucks so much, why live long for it to keep sucking? However maybe that’s what makes it even more special to make the most of it before one’s life runs its course.
3 months
Bigwideland:
This is to get opinions,
There seems to be underlying social normality of striving to live longer and longer. Is this a paradigm worth discussing. Does our western society have an obsession with life span, and is it rational.
Thoughtful responses please.
I feel like that I have seen enough content from Nas Daily to say something on this topic. Especially since the main guy ALWAYS preaches about living forever.
I think it’s one thing to say that you want to live healthy and as long as you can, especially when you wanna be there for your family and their achievements and whatnot. All that’s great and all, but at the same time why are we also told about the inevitable truth of how nothing lasts forever?
In other words, if someone wants to live long and healthy then more power to them I guess. But what about you (and I’m asking myself this)?? Do YOU want to live forever? Especially with all of the pains and unfairness that you go through of growing and living? Essentially when that means that you’re basically doing (what will feel like) the same thing almost every day but longer until you get too old to do the things that you wish you could do when you’re still young and functional? That doesn’t sound like something that’s worth living long in my opinion.
Now I’m not trying to judge here, I’m more so asking a question. Because while sure I don’t mind living long enough to pass at a respectable old age, I think that it’s better to live a good life other than a long one. Especially when that means that a lot of people who you care about will pass before you do, while this will be different for everyone… I don’t think not everyone is going to handle it.
3 months
HappyBigBelly:
I’m still partial to my Chili Peppers :-) Give it away now! :-)
That’s always a classic!
3 months
NYCBellyBlimp:
I like Social Influencer JayBee's truth and energy, as unfortunately the same issues from the 80s-2000s are still present in 2025. I give her credit, though IMO (over time)..1 can't expect society to 'act right' much less make accommodations for those disabled or super/ultra sized to make life outside easier.
Yeah I think I agree with JayBee stuff as well. It’s very unfortunate A LOT of people don’t sit well in her comments section.
3 months
I like how this forum post had went from the OP addressing concerns from their parents, to a debate about toppings on a pizza.
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