Voluptuouslover:
My wife recently lost weight I believe on some diet drug. She dropped around 15 pounds I would guess. Which at her height of 5’ 3” really shows up as quite a loss in my eyes.
I am really hoping she gains it back pretty quickly with this thought process on this link.
Does anyone know typical time frame the weight can creep back up eating normally again?
Hey I can understand where you’re coming from especially since I don’t always like it when there’s a bigger girl that I find attractive has to lose weight either. But at the same time it’s their body and decision, that’s something that you’ll need to accept this (it’s even true when it comes to a place of their wellbeing).
Because of the superficial reasons for enjoying all the eye candy of someone’s body weight and ONLY that, I’ve been rejected a dumped a lot in my dating life because of this.
Unless of course you could have a conversation with your wife and perhaps discuss a possible middle ground… If you truly love her than you should love her no matter her size is, because it’s gonna be subjective to change all the time in life.
10 months
Attaker2z:
Anyone agree with this?
Ha ha! I’m not a fan of it either. But this is why I try to be strategic about messaging people on here.
10 months
Alright so I’m not sure if this will answer your question here. But honestly it really depends on their genetics and HOW they had been gaining weight.
From my observation. The more intentional it is, the more rounder they look compared with someone going at it from doing the long game. Of course there are going to be some exceptions to this.
As for the health part of it, this is pretty much the risk that some people are willing to take for this kink. Sure people’s bodies change all the time as we go through life, but to intentionally gain a significant amount of weight to a point where it “weighs them down all the time” does have its potentials to be risky health-wise. But like I said, some people are willing to dance around fire with that. Not something that I wouldn’t necessarily judge because it’s their life and body, not my own.
10 months
Morbidly A Beast:
What’s 200kg
That would be 440 Lbs in Metric.
1 year
Munchies:
Yeah, we did. Some people don't get it if we are not together and show off pictures of the other. But whenever we are together, people immediately understand. We get stopped a lot by people saying how cute we look together.
That’s awesome! I remember you mentioning that in a few others forum threads. Even I had moments with ex girlfriend/daters when people thought that we were cute.
It’s nice to see people appreciate fellas like us with a partner of a certain size IRL instead of the shallow cesspits of the socials trying to burn us! 😅
1 year
Munchies:
Yeah, that was a whole thing. Thankfully, no one assumes I'm with my partner for fetish purposes, but this is mainly because a black Southern woman, and there's a whole ass stereotype. But even then, it's sad how people refuse to believe that anyone could find fat people attractive without being "deviant."
Yeah exactly. I had have seen such things happening firsthand, especially in comment sections out on the socials. It’s not fun whatsoever.
But hey I’m happy to hear that you’re able to work things out well with your partner with how everyone thinks about you two!
1 year
Munchies:
This is a good point. Sure, women will always have it worse when it comes to fatphobia, but men aren't safe from it either.
For example, it's common for people to see fat men as ugly. How often do you hear people mocking men for being fat the moment they do something someone else doesn't like?
I also see people tell fat men that if they want to find love, they have to have other things that "make up" for their fatness. Hell, when my partner told his parents about me (before we even met or he showed them a picture of me) they were worried I was a scammer trying to get his money. It wasn't anything I did or said. They were convinced that no one would want a 500 lbs man unless they wanted to use him.
Thank you! And you also got a point as well when it comes to emphasize the part when I mentioned the men. It’s already hard enough to be a guy in the modern dating scene, but to really try and prove yourself even as a bigger guy is a whole different story.
Oh and how you can relate to your own personal experience (with your current partner) was an interesting thing to mention. Especially true when usual couples get together and people wonder if they’re using them or just ONLY for a fetish.
1 year
Munchies:
We can't disagree all the time
Exactly! It’s really nice. 🌈
1 year
Kitsune:
I was hesitant to play Smash Bros with my siblings during Easter but I played anyways. Of course, I ended up looking like a tomfool. :'(
I've come to realization that multiplayer games overwhelm me and I prefer to play in single player mode. I rather play for my own enjoyment and not be judged by others. Anyone here in this same boat?
Now, I should play my good ol casual flash games sometime.
Munchies:
Generally, I prefer to play solo, but sometimes, I enjoy playing with other people Depends on my mood.
My favorite multiplayer game will forever be to Fire Boy and Water Girl series. I don't know what it is, but it scratches a particular itch for me.
Enas:
OMG, my childhood nostalgia hits so hard rn! I still remember how on the jungle temple game there are some wooden planks that hang from a chain (and would tild when you land on them) i would play this with my sister too!
Munchies:
The best part is you can still play these games.
Is it me or is it kinda wholesome to see other users bonding over games instead of coming at each other’s throats for a change? ☺️
1 year
