Feedmesqueezeme:I love when you are in a relationship and both people are so comfortable with each other that they end up gaining weight unintentionally
My partner weighed themselves recently and noted that since we have been together they gained 15kg. They aren’t interested in gaining at all but just because I’m a good cook and we go out for dates to restaurants that they ended up gaining. I’m not trying to get my partner to gain as they don’t want to but it was nice to hear that they actually felt comfortable and supported enough that they didn’t mind.
Has anyone else had this happen in their relationship?
CuppaJoe:First - this post makes my heart happy! I personally love to see Comfort Weight gain - to me it is a physical sign that someone feels loved, nurtured, and feels secure in a relationship.
You MUST be a good cook, too - 15 kg is a good.amount of weight for someone who isn't a Fantasy Feedee!

Second - I feel like this is a great relationship post. You are appreciative of your partner's gain without pushing for it. Your partner clearly feels loved and seems to be secure in your love of them. Win-win!!!
Congratulations on getting to a point in your relationship in which your partner feels more love and security than any fear or insecurity about their weight. Who knows? You might awaken a kink that they never knew they had?
Hope you enjoy many more meals and desserts together!
I know! I really agree, it’s just made me so happy knowing they feel comfortable enough to just relax around me.
I think my feedee habits have rubbed off on them a little lol they still don’t want to gain at all but just sort of happened!
Thank you! That’s sweet of you to say, my partner’s comfort is the most important to me so I’d support them no matter what they wanted to do