I'm in Victoria!

1. Oh man I love food and flavors and especially sweets

2. I grew up chubby, never really learned that junk food shouldn't be eaten regularly, then only got fatter with age

3. Grew up with the rule of 'you must eat what you put on your plate'

4. Never loved how exercising felt, still don't

5. Genetic disorder where when my stomach is empty, acid builds up and trys to burn a hole in my stomach, so I actually need to eat quite frequently

6. Intense sugar cravings and love of Mac and cheess

7. Honestly, not believing I could ever lose weight/become thin even if I tried, I don't think I could stick to it...

Ah the ever present struggle of wanting to fit in to our diet obsessed society vs. Wanting to just break free... it depends on your priorities - if being fat is more important/enjoyable to you than being physically fit, then work on your fitness, if being fit is more important than enjoying this kink and a bigger body, do that. You can also make an effort to be fit while gaining, just keep up exercising but ensure your intake is more calories than you're losing. It will be a slower gain, but you'll probably find it more sustainable long-term.

As for dating, perhaps you may have an easier time finding a partner while thin, but it's also more likely they'll be toxic towards your weight gain when/if you do gain. Personally if you want to gain, I'd just gain and date at the same time, and when you do find someone you want yo go ling term with, all the more likely bring fat will be just fine. Fat people date all the time (exhibit A, see dating ads on this website).

I think ultimately it comes down to if having kink related sexual/romantic experiences is important to you. I am attracted to being a feedee, and I'm definitely not skinny, but my partner is not involved and isn't into all this. She does know I am. Other side of the coin, I know, but I found that having/being with someone into feedism and having experiences related to this kink with a partner was not something I really needed/craved. I stuff myself alone relatively frequently and enjoy my own gaining, read stories, post/interact on forums, but I don't usually dm with people, or chat past a quick friendly tip or thought - and it's enough for me - I don't feel urges to go cheat (physical, emotional, etc) but I'm also okay not having this kink be apart of my relationship ever. If you want you can engage with this kink in ways that don't need to be done with your partner - but only IF you are okay with feedism not being apart of your relationship EVER and/or engaging in this in ways that don't result in cheating. You'lll have to determine what cheating is to you/your partner as not everyone has the same definition (especially when it comes to talking online/fictional role play/secrecy/emotional cheating). If its any hope, I'm happily engaged in my 5+ year relationship (known eachother for 10+ years).

I've recently been really struggling to use my menstral cups as I'm loosing both flexibility and my belly/thighs get in the way if my reach for taking it in and out!

Also my fave restaraunt really packs in tables side by side, so to escape I always have to go sideways, and half the time my ass still messes up the place setting or hits someone's arm...

I actually did a paper on a topic that touched on this, I'm in HR and I'm fat lol so here:

I personally, to my knowledge, have not been discriminated against during the hiring process due to my obesity (now technically morbid obesity but I'm only in the 290s).

Legally speaking, you cannot be discriminated against during the hiring process for being fat and the employer is responsible for making reasonable accommodations. *However* if in the job duties on the posting they list a Bonne a fide occupational requirement where the person must be able to perform certain physical tasks (I.e. lifting, being on feet, etc) then the employer is allowed to discriminate candidates on those grounds.

Further, it is incredibly hard to prove during the application process if you are dropped because of a real reason or if it is because of discrimination. It does unfortunately occur at times.

In some ways being the fattest woman on team has benefited me not only with people always sharing treats to me first and sending me home with leftovers, but because I was not perceived as threatening it helped me click faster and gain the trust of the team quickly.

One fall after I'd gained a fair but of weight I slipped and fell in mud and had to borrow clothes from my friend who used to be my same size only a year prior. I remember the pants pinching my belly and the shirt riding up constantly. As the group hung out and I was always forcing the shirt down while my friends tried (and failed) to hide noticing my struggle.

The really embarrassing part is that we went to the movies and between the tight pants and getting pizza, popcorn, soda and candy I was quite bloated and unbuttoned the jeans thinking no one would notice in the dark theatre. It wasn't until after we has walked out of the theatre and out to wait for our rides did one of my friends say 'hey your fly is undone' and I went so red and looked down and saw my belly, angry red marks from the tight jeans and the top of my panties on display) and tried to quickly do it up but between the too small pants and me being flustered it took 3 tries.

I think the major one for be was interacting with exercise, for example if while visiting family they invite me to do a quick dog walk with them, I jump to saying no while thinking I can't make it bc I'm not as fit as them and I don't want to have to get up.

The other one is always ensuring there is a plan to not miss a meal when planning going out for groceries, making a trip to pick up my gf from the airport, and actually taking time to plan to make sure I don't miss a meal/snack because I can't stand being hungry.

Apologies if this is dense, but I'm struggling to determine which premium subscription allows a user to view unlimited gainer entries on a profile / any profile. Is it social because it has to do with specific profiles or fantasy because it is wonderful content?

More on the office/sedentary front, data entry pays alright, and it is completely wfh, at desk all day. I snack mindlessly all day long and have put on nearly 30lbs in 4 months without really trying.