Johano:
I’m new to this site. I came here looking to see if I could find a female friend to talk to and confide in. After looking through the site, I find that I’m a little dismayed. Women, you don’t have to literally bare yourself to skeezy guys (you know who you are) to be accepted or considered worthwhile people to know. I’m not judging those who actually are exhibitionists and get off on baring their assets. However, I find it hard to believe that every woman in those pics is that way. I suspect that many of you think that you have to do that just to get the acknowledgment that you exist and are worthy of someone’s attention. Well, I am here to tell you that there are plenty of people, just like me, who want to be your friend. Yeah, I am initially attracted to you because of your size and shape, but every relationship has to start somewhere. I will respect you and treat you as another worthy human. I am from the Deep South, and I travel to New Orleans and Mobile every hear for Mardi Gras. Every year, there are women who will flash their breasts to get a handful of cheap beads thrown at them from the floats. I always think to myself, “I would give you flowers and my undivided attention, and you wouldn’t have to flash a single piece of your anatomy.” If there are women on this site who just want to have someone attracted to them, not “in spite of” them being round and soft, but BECAUSE of that, and then have that person treat them with old-fashioned, deep south respect, dignity, and charm, then drop me a line. As we say down here, “You are fine china, so quit letting men use you once and throw you away like a cheap paper plate.”
You say you respect the women that frequent this site, but you're unwilling to show your face here... That's not respectful, that sounds like a closeted chaser and is the same as all the guys on here I've talked to without pictures on their profiles so far.
There are always excuses guys come up with for why they don't want to put pictures up, but they're all a bunch of bullshit to mask that they're too much of a coward to show themselves on a site where people enjoy something other than what media keeps trying to sell us as beautiful.
If you actually respected the women on here and the community itself you wouldn't be afraid to post pictures of your face.
The bigger problem imo is that women are willing and able to show themselves off (rightfully so because they're all gorgeous!) but a lot of guys will hide behind their fears of being publicly seen with a woman that isn't considered socially acceptable by their friends and family.
If you honestly want women like the ones on this site, act like it and put your pictures up and be a part of the community, otherwise you're just a coward pretending to be better than the assholes that use this site as a spank bank
