CaliJen wrote:
I'd like to be so utterly, dangerously sated, every space in my distended belly crammed full, that I actually have the sensation I might burst with another bite.
You make for the best kind of feedee CaliJen. For a feeder like me that likes to do what you described to my feedee, yeah that makes it fun. Not to mention, you'll get really fat fast.

jillydoll wrote:
That my belly feels very heavy in my lap.
That is what happens when a growing girl has a big sexy belly. Means you're doing everything right miss so keep at it and hope your belly gets even heavier.
11 years
I'd have a bigger lady workout regardless for the muscles in her body to accommodate the added weight. However, that being said, I'd love to add workouts as part of a sub/dom relationship. Like being strapped to a treadmill and being forced to run and watch all her fat jiggle about while cooking a post "workout" meal and picking on her and teasing her. Doing things like going to the gym with her wearing far too tight clothes, watch her get out of breathe and maybe even talk about how fat she is and that working out will never help her to others within earshot. If I wanted to be really naughty and nasty, I could do things like park as far away as possible from where we're going, and always insist on using the stairs. The view would be nice and teasing her for being out of breath and so unfit. Ahhh...that could be very fun. Oh! And even use exercise as punishment for not doing something like not finishing her food or cleaning her plates.
11 years
Nah. I don't think a subset of the the Amazon fetish is all that strange. You like what you like. You could have far stranger fetishes or kinks.
11 years
Cookii wrote:
First guy I'd ever dated was completely ripped. So when he talked to me I thought it was in a friend way. But in the end he was very interested in me and said he was hard enough and wasn't interested in feeling anything like himself and just wanted to feel something nice and soft.
Seems like lots of the hard bodied men are interested in the pleasantly plump women.
Indeed. And plenty of pleasantly plump women who are interested in strong and hard-bodied guys.
11 years
I don't think I'm shy, more like reserved. So I'm not quite sure if that qualifies as introverted. I know I used to be in the past and I still kind of am.
11 years
I'd be a master. Treating my slaves with a strictness and firmness to let them know that I was not messing about while at the same time being kind while they are my service. Oh and of course they would be gaining weight. I like my slaves to be pretty "little" plumping piglets. And perhaps even have them sign a slave contract or something like that detailing everything that they will do, can have done to them and for how long so that they know what to expect and for how long, and just how far away the ceasation of their servitude and more importantly their punishments and gain is.
11 years
I'd let things go as they are right now. It sounds like she is more than capable of adding on her own weight. Besides, the more fun it is for the both of you, the better it'll be. And if she didn't know about your fetish before, she basically knows now.

LOL
Also make sure that you have the ok from her as well. It helps tremendously if she is ok with gaining weight.
11 years
So where's the problem and is she ok with increasing her weight?
I'd suggest some variation in her diet first off because there are more than likely some nutrient deficiencies if that is her diet and it is prolonged for a significant amount of time.
11 years
I can think of numerous reasons why this could happen. The first and foremost one would be projection. If you think about it, fit people generally have to reduce their amount of calories, fat and sugar intakes. Psychologically, a fit person could be projecting this want to go against this restriction onto their significant other. Because this post is more about fit guys into fat girls, I'll stick with that. Guys have it tougher than girls when it comes to body image. I mean the construct for guys is around 6 foot tall, usually tanned and anywhere between 190-210lbs of muscle if not more, and most annoyingly, damn near hairless. I mean if you think about it, a fatter or heavier woman can be deemed "acceptable" for a number of reasons. Her extra weight may disperse favorably, even now there are ad campaigns for "average" or "plus-size" women, and for men...nothing except muscleman. So guys get it on both ends really. There's no plus-sized guy campaign or save the beer-gut initative. There's muscleman and being strong and fit. Plus it's typically (not always obviously) what a mate is looking for.
Additionally, I touched on this. Should a woman gain weight, guys typically tend to follow the bigger is better rule on one fashion or another. So a lady with a bigger belly, breasts, booty, legs, etc. is a good thing. Also, genetic memory tends to have men or at least notice women with wider hips and adequate breasts as these are requirements for good child bearing supposedly since caveman days. Can't really be sure because there isn't really a way to test genetic memory.
And it pains me to say this because it's a stupid reason, but for some reason men think that fatter women may be easier to lay or control or whatever than thinner women. But as most of us on sites like this one and Curvage know. That is not the case. there are plenty of fine, confident and independent bigger and gaining ladies out there.
My biggest reason for liking bigger women are the curves, or rather, I'm not attracted to skin and bones or overly thin women. I've never ever found them attractive. I've found women with curves more attractive and that they tend to fit into more of my particular kinks.
As for being a trainer or in the health field (studying to be a nutritionist, which makes me even more of a dangerous feeder lol) and wanting to see a woman gain weight, it could go either way. I'm all for being comfortable in your own skin, and being or becoming more healthy. However, there are some women that should not lose too much weight. It can be dangerous first of all. We all know about the ballerina stories. But physically, the ladies start to not look as attractive. Maybe it's because I look through feeder-colored glasses. LOL
I do wish proper nutrition was taught to children and people in general. With that a lot of people would be better off. Of course then my job would be obsolete. LOL Regardless, I person should always feel good in their skin. If they feel it's +50 lbs. or -50 lbs. I don't mind, I'd love to help. As for helping a client gain. I love it, perhaps even do a little secret feeder or encouragment stuff, unless she was already a feedee. Then forget that stuff, to the buffet after work and when's our first stuffing session gonna be.
11 years
lovableplump wrote:
I'm fairly strong (140 bench) but not very dominant. I often wonder if there are guys on here who are interested in muscular fat women like me.
There are. I'm one of them.
11 years