I told an ex a few years after we broke up. She didn't say much.
4 years
I'm not. I've never been able to get to that point. I always suck in my gut.
4 years
Don't pressure yourself to figure everything out. It took me a while to know where I was on the spectrum. In time, you will arrive at a logical conclusion.
4 years
What are some of your minor annoyances in life?
Today, I asked a store clerk who was a tall and slender young lady standing at about 5'10, if she could tell me where a product was located. She was nice enough however she soared passed me to its location as if I could keep up with her. She was clearly in better shape. I felt like saying " Honey, I'm 5'3 and overweight. I cannot keep up with you". I'm sure that it was unintentional. She's just very energetic making this a minor annoyance.
4 years
I was somewhat thin up until the age of 40. Then things changed. I now gain all of my weight in my stomach and neck.
4 years
Have you arrived at the point where you accept who you are?
For the longest time, I absolutely hated being exceptionally short for a guy. However, once I began to visit sites like this one, I found that some men envied my short stature on account that it was easier to be perceived as fat as it would take less eating to become overweight and to look chubbier. This is in my favor if that is the goal. I began to appreciate this fact.
Do you have a similar experience?
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hollyann:
I know it's such a dark fantasy, but I am so intrigued by the whole Hansel and Gretel narrative
For many of us, that story embodies many of the elements that we enjoy in the world fantasy.
4 years
NYCBellyBlimp:
I mistakenly thought I could manage the 3 short blocks to the subway station after visiting family at the hospital. Warm spring afternoon, sweated profusely, harder to breathe underground. Back ached so bad, sat at the edge seat when it opened up. Had my head down as I was too out of it, to offer my seat to a pregnant passenger who passed by me. Happened years ago but still remember the stares like yesterday.
I've been there. The spring
heat can be a bitch and a half.
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My most embarrassing moment was when it was pointed out by several friends that I looked like I had been eating well.
What was your most embarrassing moment?
4 years
johniav:
Have any of you attempted to gain weight and then suddenly get freaked out after realizing that you're actually getting really fat. This question was born out of a personal experience.
John Smith:
Every official feedee I ever had backtracted while their weight-gaining period: two of them did before approaching obese territory and the third one, who used to be skinny at that time, freaked out after a few couple of additional pounds because our college peers were constantly nagging her about her expanded appetite and slightly less thinner frame.
johniav:
I understand that as I was somewhat uncomfortable as I put on weight.
John Smith:
How uncomfortable, if I am not too curious?
well, there is fantasy and there is real life consequences. Sometimes, we see ourselves as being more attractive and authentic at a higher weight. However, when you've been thin like myself all of your life and suddenly become larger, you receive new reactions from people. It takes some getting used to.
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