Plenty of fun to be had on the scrap heap SoShy.

Besides, no one said that in anyway whatsoever. Even if they had, so what.

Take care fella.
All the best to you.

There can't be too many people who think sending rude messages is acceptable, and that includes most of those that do it. Of course it's rude, of course it's not ok, and that's part of the reason why they are sent in the first place.

The humiliation caused by rude messages is of course a completely different experience to the humiliation experienced by those that request and enjoy it.

Humiliation can be wonderful tool, long forgotten as these days we prefer to wrap our and others emotions up in cotton wool.
Read em and reap, or do I mean, you weep what you sow.

Blinding pillow talk too.

Whats a profile?

Did you get your Zip back?

Very interesting question and great posts. All good stuff.

Gardener.

Sshhh

SoShy.
People have no right to tell you you "should" be more confident. The "should" word again, speaks volumes.

As for the people who tell you you're ugly, well, says more about them.