dave2k22 wrote:
I don't post much but I will say a few things.

Women are sexy no matter what there size. Yes the media and people think that fat people are fat because they eat all the time and don't have a life. But being fat isn't a bad thing. The problem is that people have stuck in there mind that only being skinny is acceptable.

I think bigger people are generally more nicer. They have bigger hearts and they don't judge others.

It's hard for bigger people because they think everyone will judge them the same. But there are people like my self and others on the site which love the way people are. I admit when I'm out and about I'm always looking at the bigger women. If I wasn't so shy I would talk to them and tell them how pretty they are. My parents and mates know I prefer my women bigger and I won't let that change.

Sorry to ramble on but I thought I'd share my view.

curVy wrote:
I would imagine that you would find it difficult to persuade BBW's or SSBBw's that big can be beautiful as quite often we ladies don't believe a word of it as we've had so many guys take the "mikey" out of us that we are defensive and of course the media and society brainwash us all into thinking only skinny is acceptable.

curVy wrote:
I don't think that " Great Britain" or UK as we are now often known has any "real" Red Blooded FA's. It certainly seems like a handful of so called FA's hang around this site and don't openly admit to their preferences except through a computer key board, if they did girls like Georgia ( and myself included,in younger times) would feel confident and beautiful in their own skin not like some "outcast" who has no option but to conform to the diet culture and view that you have to be size 10 or so to be worthy of some love and attention from a man. its time we all realised and embraced the fact that human kind comes in all shapes and sizes and all are beautiful in their own way.

marzopolis wrote:


Your answer is as presumptive as mine- the point is that those here who are geographically in the UK are not willing to really reach out and investigate the situation. Nothing is more pathetic than a woman (or man) who grows fatter who doesn't want to be fat at all- I know, I was married to one who hated being fat when I never knew that there was any other attitude extant.

There again, georgia having a lover or husband caressing her soft body, kissing her rolls, massaging and helping her walk (no one need be immobile at any weight- even if they spend half there lives in a special pool) MAY open up her self-perspective to a dimension that one-sided society never offers.

There are many possibilities for a situation like this happeneing- and I question who is feeding her, caring for her, looking after her best interests- certainly not any red blooded "FA" Englishmen!

And "we", as a collective group, should visit her site on fcebook especially those of us who are lucky to be blessed with over 500 lb girlfriends who have made successful and mutually satisfying lives for the both of us. Unless we demonstrate to detractors that we can have happy, romance-filled and mutually satisfying lives, this preference (eroneously referred to as a "fetish" ) of ours will continue to be thought of as an emotional sickness and reverse the gains it has made over the last 70 years.

bearded unholy goldfish wrote:


your my hero