1. relaxed
2. I might try to persuade an indecisive woman to gain, but I wouldn't magically make the choice for her, if that's what you mean.
3. No, that would be too restrictive and unhealthy a diet. It actually might backfire and make her less likely to gain.
4. Ideally, as much as she can gain and still get around easily.
5. I would discourage going for immobility.
9 years
I would agree on a gaining limit, a number of pounds he promises to gain. Once you establish a limit, you have license to feed him all you want up to that point.
After that, do whatever you can to get him to overeat and underexercise. Pampering, tempting, forcefeeding, sexual favors...
One feedee told me her bf would bring her to the brink of orgasm and then stop until she ate some more...he could make her SUPER stuffed that way. Maybe something like that would work on your bf, idk.
9 years
What I've noticed is that people who stuff themselves to the point that they can't take a deep breath once a week or more usually can't stop gaining. I'm not saying that's the only "beyond return' point, but it's certainly one of them.
9 years
The numbers look right, but these formulas are pretty unreliable. People gain at different rates based on metabolism, digestive capacity, time of the month (from women anyway), activity levels. Calorie count is only part of the story.
10 years
Have you read "Deciding to Get Fat" on my site?
10 years
billedmeup:Here is a story about a girl who works for a Feeder Hotline who gets paid to eat and gain weight:
www.dimensionsmagazine.com/dimtext/stories/new_job.htmlI know there is also a story about contestants in a Big Brother type show where the house guests compete in eating. I couldn't find it.
I actually wrote that! Thanks for the link.
10 years
I think those who are into the erotic aspect of gaining definitely have phases of being more into it or less into it.
Those who are more into gaining because it gives them a license to overeat are probably more consistent.
10 years
Well if you eat lots of fattening goodies and you date someone who doesn't usually eat like that, just being around all that food could easily cause them to gain.
10 years
As you point out, one can have mobility problems at any weight, but the risks increase as you get bigger.
Personally I wouldn't want anyone I cared about to get too big to get around easily. It's easy to cross the line, become immobile and not be able to lose the weight. Your bf's ex is not the only one this has happened to.
10 years
