Needs to be a preferences option in search.

I can see how that must have been upsetting for you and am sorry that you had this bad experience. I hope you have found many other friendly people to chat to.
8 years

New chat (beta)

Hi Lovefatchicks, I'm already giving away 10 free private chats per day, 365 days per year to every member.

More chat rooms will be coming in the next chat upgrade, however this won't help if people still don't want to chat. We just provide the facilities, but it's up to members to decide how they want to use them. Generally though our members are a friendly bunch and I'm sure they'll respond once you start chatting.
8 years

Sad news

Thanks for letting us know about this sad news, I'm sure she will be missed by a great many people.

She was a dedicated moderator on this website for several years and did much to help build up this community that we all enjoy. May she rest in peace.
8 years

Blocked users can still see you?

On another point, as admins we do take a strong stance against stalking and can take steps to try and protect you. If you feel you are being stalked or harassed by another member please get in contact with us through private messages or the contact us page. In order for us to take action we'll need some evidence so please send that to us with your complaint.
8 years

Blocked users can still see you?

I'm the website developer and I regularly read this forum so if you post a suggestion here then I will have seen it.

The block feature currently tries to protect you from being contacted by members you don't wish to hear from. It doesn't yet make any attempt to stop them viewing your content. Of course there's always room for improvement but this all takes time to develop and being the sole developer I can only do one thing at a time. I am currently making improvements to this feature and the next version of the chat application will not allow blocked members from messaging you in chat.

Preventing members from viewing you content may be some way down the line. I get inundated with requests for new features many of which are also high priority. However I am making continual updates to the website on a daily basis so you should see steady improvement over time.
8 years

New chat (beta)

Giantbellyboy:
Can you put a send button on the chat?


Messages are sent whenever you hit the return key (or go button on some mobiles). Adding a send button would just add an extra step to sending messages and the button would take up unnecessary space.

However I always listen to our members and am curious to know why you think adding a send button would be better?
8 years