Sometimes people do not know your gender until they look. Or perhaps you posted something, and they want to know where you are from, etc. It does not mean if someone looks at your profile they are romantically interested in you.
8 years
If someone is 130 and they think about getting to 300, it's frightening. But if you do it 10 or 20 pounds at a time, it's just a few more pounds.
8 years
I get a kick out of it on Feabie. A few of the ladies tell the men not to write to them unless they give them money. How rude! Can you imagine if a store did that. "Welcome to WalMart. Get out of here if you are not going to spend money."
8 years
My ex-wife was complaining that she was now a 50 inch waist and was complaining that she would have to order some larger pants. I had such an erection in my pants, that it was impossible for her not to notice, and she got really mad that I was excited rather than sympathetic.
8 years
Don't forget that people lose muscle and fat, but usually regain only fat. That is going to change the way someone looks. Also people don't lose from the same places they gain.
8 years
johnxyz:
Get another job. You would not be doing yourself or the community any favors by being unable to do your job safely. (assuming you want to gain a significant amount of weight)
alabamakmg:
Original post is gone, but let me assure there are plenty of fat firefighters. I passed the CPAT test ( urban firefighting physical ability test) and most years get my red card with an arduous WCT ( 3 mile hike in 45 min wearing a 45 lb pack or vest) at 6-3 and 270 though the stair master about killed me. ( I'm a Vol FF, the CPAT isn't required)
However as you get older if you don't pay attention to your health, you are putting your self at huge risk. As a career, it's a fairly sedentary job until you put on turnouts and and a SCBA, add a 50 lb hose pack and start climbing stairs.
I totally believe that anyone of any size should be able to hold any job they are qualified for. I am assuming that most fat firefighters are naturally fat, and are not trying to gain.
But if someone is trying to gain, especially if they are trying to get as fat as they can as quickly as they can, being a fire fighter may not be the best career choice. As long as they can do their job and not put anyone at risk, that is fine.
8 years
Why not post all of this in the personals section?
8 years
Get another job. You would not be doing yourself or the community any favors by being unable to do your job safely. (assuming you want to gain a significant amount of weight)
8 years
Yes, the administrators here do a great job. What I don't understand about Feebie, is how can they expect the guys to pay for premium membership when most of the contact is with people asking for donations. It would be like gofundme to ask for payment to read the requests for money.
8 years
That wasn't the point I was trying to make at all. The point is that when you like someone thin, you should not let her know that you are on websites where men prefer larger women. I have dated thin women too. Nothing wrong with that.
It would be the same for any situation. If the person you dated was the same race as you, and you spend a lot of time on interracial dating sites. Or if your girlfriend was younger, and you spent time on web sites that was for older women, etc. etc.
8 years
