Yea....it is definitely exciting....when I was intentionally gaining a while back....all of a sudden my wife started feeding us both way more fattening meals she prepared and giving me seconds and sometimes piling the rest on my plate before I was done with my second helping. She was definitely trying to make me even bigger. Although nothing was ever spoken about. It was kind of a don’t ask and don’t tell situation. She could clearly see I could t fit into any of my dress shirts, slacks or T shirts for that matter....it was pretty obscene and I would kind of throw it right in her face....an XL t shirt that use to fit fine and loose in my middle Bowen the evening after a shower I would put it on before bed in front of her and my huge distended bloated gut would hang out below a good 4-6 inches standing up and I looked like I was 9 months pregnant.....and as I sat do n my huge gut would ball up and the bottom of the shirt would rise up above my navel leaving a good 10” of bloated flesh showing .....my wife said nothing. When I hit new XXL shirts I was surprised that my gut still would squeez out the bottom still when I sat down. She said nothing still kept feeding me more and more....so yea it was pretty arousing but I just don’t know what to do or get a reaction.....at this pace I was going to go past 300 lbs. Before she said something. I was really craving for her to tease me or scold me for getting so big......but I guess she was trying to get me bigger and didn’t want to bring anything up like d of like I do to her when she gains a bunch of weight......like maybe she doesn’t notice and if I don’t say anything she will just keep getting bigger.

Yea....they are definitely a lot of over fed pretty Fat Indian women. They always seem to have nice pear shaped and fat lower bellies. It’s kind of accept d in the culture ......Indian Men like their women Fat.

I wonder if I am part Indian?😂

There are many large chain restaurants that serve massive portions and typically they are seasoned, buttered and plenty of salt all in one. I think it may be a more costly option than fast food but a lot of more dense and better calories as well as teaching yourself to clear your massive portion rather than ordering multiple fast food items which do have a lot of calories....but I think you would be surprised if you ate at one of these types I mentioned and see after 1-2 times a week how much you will be gaining not only because of the calories but stretching your stomach and continually eating more. Also....they typically have a wide variety of items to choose from....even the salad bar will get you Fat in not time with how much dressing I tend to put on....coupled with the high calorie huge muffins etc.

My wife while shopping will hold up a XXL T shirt at the store while we are looking around.....and it look's just huge her holding it up....like a tent next to her and when I decide to try it on even after saying that is way to big.....it fits perfect.....then my wife will say I told you so.

I think you are in a very good spot.

She is chubby and has a fat belly already and loves to eat, shown signs after belly rubs by later discussing what and how much she has been eating probably after you have given subtle hints not knowing of admiration of eating and or her belly when stuffed.

Like previously mentioned ....great idea about having an all day eating day. Also, you may start going out for ice cream or deserts directly following every meal. I would just keep centering all your time together around fattening g good food, deserts and even bring her big boxes of candies or her favorites as cute endearing presents .......these are cute things that women love.....and she will be eating these when you are not together.

If you do over do it or she does.....you will probably now because she will either bring up that she needs to go on a diet because she has gained to much or she will comment about herself gaining weight.....partly to test the waters with you to see if you still like her even though she has gotten heavier.

I can remember back to my wife when we were dating and she first started gaining weight.....which was brought on by me telling her she should stop working out so much so we could spend more time together. She mentioned if she didn’t work out so much she would get fat....her words....I said I would t mind if she gained weight....in fact I welcomed it. She did gain weight after she slowed her workouts and I realized I had afoodie and a sweet tooth” for a beautiful girlfriend that the minute she didn’t work out the weight piled on. I loved the changes and she actually turn d into a different person that was very exciting to me from the stand point that she wasn’t so strict with herself in all ways after she stopped working out she became more vulnerable and relaxed and would lounge around snacking and more affectionate toward me the more weight she gained until she got to the point where she couldn’t fit into amy of her clothes and she complained to me and put her foot down so to speak that she has to go on a diet because she became to Fat again. I said again....and she told me a couple years before we met she was much heavier and it took her that lon to lose all her weight. I told her she was more Beautiful than ever to me with the weight she has gained....she called me “strange” for liking her Fat....but she still was insistent that she was going to lose weight. Even though she had a minor “Fat moment” I would come home from work and find her at my condo being she had a key I gave her.....snaking away on the couch...fretting me with a big Fat hug and warm kiss as she hurried back to the kitchen to grab a box of cookies to munch on while we talked sitting on the couch....and then anxiously asking where we should go for dinner. Ot’s Such a Beautiful thing when the women we love get huge appetites and desire for eating and snacking and ultimately become fatter and fatter.

Good luck ....keep us posted!

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Yea....I have! I started doing all the grocery shopping in the house. I decided I was bummed my wife lost most of her weight with being her heaviest and decided to start buying her favorite ice cream, chocolates, cookies and all her favorites. She would thank me for getting her favorite treats and after a while she started to gain a little weight back. I would continue buying more and more of her favorites to satisfy her sweet tooth. She continued to Thank me.....I guess she did t feel as guilty if I was the one buying all this and she wasn’t. I began to look for her gains week by week and she was creeping up the scale but not nearly as fast as I would have expected. Before I knew it she was shopping one day and when she got gone she said to me “I got your favorites”.....I said “my favorite’s?” She said yeah such and such flavor Ben n Jerry’s, Oreos & snickers. I thought to myself for a second and didn’t even realize I had been settling in almost every night with her on the couch after dinner eating these snacks she deemed as my favorites along with her. Without even realizing I gained around 20 lbs. and couldn’t believe I didn’t even recognize the gut I had put on......at that time I was so aroused all I could think about was intentionally stuffing myself and gaining a lot more weight .....mostly to get teased by my wife, scolded or reprimanded for getting so Fat. I began intentionally gaining .....but still no comments from my wife......weeek after week I would try and stuff more throughout the day just to look huge and bloated when I came home to her....still no comment the weeks turned into months and I was totally fixated on how big my but was getting on a weekly basis I didn’t even notice how much she was gaining as well.....although not as much as me because she wasn’t intentionally stuffing and trying to gain.

So it was mutual gaining but only I was intentionally doing it but I think she not only allowed herself to continue gaining herself because she felt so relaxed with me getting so Fat and I think she actually liked me getting so big.....or at least I tho k she thought she was the one making me Fat.....whatever where all the reasons it was pretty exciting while it lasted.

We usually all eat the same meal together while at home. It is really kind of fun to watch my wife’s appetite get close to mine as far as finishing as much food as I do. Being almost a foot taller than her and knowing she probably has eaten more than I have throughout the day already and probably had more snacks.

One thing that is kind of a tough thing that I have to reprimand the teenage kids....primarily my daughter is when I do the grocery shopping g and buy an obscene amount of Ben n Jerry’s pints for my wife......making sure that my daughter knows they are only for Mom. She sometimes complains and say’s “but there are 8 of them”.......I say don’t eat those please. And they are usually done easily in a week and a half to two weeks. The daughter doesn’t touch them. When they are in the freezer my wife just can’t resist them......”the girl loves her some Ben n Jerry’s”

Yep....Closet gainer myself the two times I gained a lot. It was a secret from my wife and kind of what drove me to intentionally gain was feeling so aroused by the thought of my wife teasing me, scolding me or even having an intervention as I got pretty big and into it at the end. Turned out she only commented twice near my fattest and it was after she was slightly intoxicated and it was flirtatious and endearing as if she liked it. In fact I think she definitely liked me Fatter.....but I don't now for sure the reason or the combination of reasons. She ended up over feeding me and I just ate it all trying to prove to her I was a good fatty trying to get her to comment....instead my seconds turned into her stuffing thirds on my plate and making huge bowls of ice cream for me when I didn't even ask for them etc etc.

Early on when I was only dating my wife I let her now that I wouldn't mind her gaining some extra weight....and then I took it a little deeper as she gained.....and then when she became what she called "FAT" she called me crazy for liking all the Fat she gained....and I stood up for all us FA's and said I wouldn't mind you gaining even more. Obviously this was all very little in the big picture in my eyes......meaning even though she knows I like her to be heavier or the look of heavier women.....I think she probably thinks it is way less than I would desire for her to get......I mean she thought she was absoutely huge at 200 Lbs. .....where I would love to see her at 300 or even 350 Lbs.

Ok....I am chi I g in late to the party....7 months late.

My wife as she gains Weight seems not only more enthusiastic about sex but doesn’t mind throwing around her weight more in bed. I remember back when she was dieting and felt very thin to me... (she wasn’t really thin but definitely a lot thinner) while on top she would hold her belly from bouncing or jiggling even though it was so much smaller in size. As she gained back all her weight and then some .....her belly was actually big enough to get in the way and she seemed to be much more comfortable with it bouncing, jiggling even slapping into me (with clapping sounds) as she really started going at it. It was almost as if her dieting made her more concerned, reserved and overall less confident in bed. While she is heavier it’s almost as if she is allowing herself to just enjoy anything she wants and not be reserved.....and that certainly goes without saying her appetite and eating. Big appetite for food makes her nicer, happier, more vulnerable in such a cute way and less reserved and much more sexed up.

I myself as I gained weight because I am so into this fetish.....found that it only increased my sex drive. I pretty much was horny all the time. Whether I was surprised by how fat my gut was getting or how much I Could actually eat.....both of those things fed off of each other just making me even more horny. I did however become more submissive which I didn’t ever think I would be.....but I actually liked it because I had always been the initiator of sex between my wife and I. At this time not only I was gaining Intentionally as mentioned several times in other posts.....at first to get done reaction from my wife...either teased, humiliated or scolded for gaining a big gut....but then I became fixated on myself gaining almost more than my wife gaining. Which by the way during this time she was gaining along with me.....it was tough for her not to...it was a mutual gaining relationship except I was intentionally gaining and I think she was actually trying to make me get fatter as well without really ever saying so.....and she was fattening g up pretty good herself. The fate I g meals she was cooking us were doing a number on both of us.

She was so sexed up and initiated sex almost 4-5 nights a week as a opposed To once a week before we both were getting Fat together. Like I said she Became accustomed to me not doing as much missionary (not only because our bellies started getting in the way quite a bit) but I was lazy and submissive and after giving her oral I was usually so bloated, fast and stuffed I would roll over on my back and she would climb her huge ass, big thighs and bloated belly on top of me and start riding me while she palmed my huge gut....which she s need to love.....what she thought she created all on her own.

My wife also enjoys food a lot and has the biggest sweet tooth. In fact she sometimes sacrifces eating all her meal just so she has room for desert.

She tends to feel sick if she over eats or eats to much. But what I have found out is that she needs to slowly increase her food intake and amount she eats over a lengthy period of time and then after a long while she is not only eating double the amount at meals but still having room for deserts and most of the time multiple deserts. It's all about stretching out the stomach to not have that discomfort or full feeling. Once her stomach is stretched out is when she really starts to put on weight.....and at this stage it is hard to eat to much less than what the stomach wants and is used to. It's the same as when the stomach is not stretched it is hard to increase how much you eat and it is easy to keep the weight off or from piling on. My wife doesn't want or try to put on weight....her appetite just increases over various times of the year and she can't hold back piling on some weight.

From my experience though the best way to make someone or yourself a bottomless pit if they are willing. Stuff yourself with food you like and fattening stuff always allowing maximum carbs and sugar.....then what I found was the real secret....once you feel so stuffed from eating in the day......drink several milkshakes or you may even want to start with just several big glasses of milk. For me it is easy to get down even after I feel I couldn't eat another bite.....inn fact it actually settles my stomach a bit and you will have the biggest bloated belly you could imagine. It's definitely something you have to be determined to do......and after 2 weeks I guarantee your appetite will increase at least double if not triple. After the next couple weeks you are not even thinking about trying to eat more .....you will actually just NEED to eat more because your stretched stomach will require it....and you will get hunger pangs if you don't eat as much or more than what your stomach is used to now. I got to a stage after this stuffing all the time....that even though I had been eating all day huge amounts I would come home for diner and my wife would make an amazing home made Lasagna and have the hugest plate laid in front of me for dinner.....I wasn't even hungry in the slightest but the minute I started eating I just kept bringing fork full after fork full to my mouth and before I knew it I had three huge helpings. This is at the point where one can really get Fat.

Recap: I would say in the first few weeks after one is completely full from eating at the end of the day to consume dairy liquids...this will help stretch the stomach and if always done continue to stretch. If one can't consume dairy lot's of water at the end of the day of stuffing will help stretch stomach but just won't add the extra calories at the same time.